If a woman (or partner) etc was sucky in bed (in a bad way)... I don't point and say "man, she was bad." I've never told a woman she was a lame lay - and I've had some of those. I just never saw them again, whatever.
Besides, a lot of people **MEET* others through their network of friends... you hang out with them. Someone they know, hangs out with them... you meet... and magic happens.
I've played match-maker for a few of my "sexual conquests"... and I've been supportive when they meet someone that *clicked* with them, got married / LTR, etc..
PS: Off topic a bit. But amusing and its about "sex with others" as it relates to women.
My wife and a bunch of co-workers went out to a male strip club yesterday. The ladies had fun... and yeah, watch the movie Magic Mike to get an idea how THEY are.
Women losing their MINDS over beefcake. Compare that to a female strip club, in which the guys (patrons) are mostly quiet, etc. Women can rip a male stripper to pieces.
I did some research in that area, out of curiosity. Almost ALL of them have sex with women (not talking about the gay ones) - especially blowjobs. Women grabbing their man-meat. Especially at "private parties".
Some will suck a stripper in front of their friends... some of these are brides to be. I read a story about male strippers being stuck in traffic with their bus, and women had time for quickie in their car - next to the bus. You know, kill some time. Women can be as sexual as men, its a matter of BS stigma and the double standard. Some of us has seen it here and other places. "She's had dozens more dick than I had Pussy... pout pout, so I'm insecure."
I grew with women, saying things about me "Oh, he's going to have lots of girlfriends when he grows up". I didn't get why they were saying that. But people talk like that today about boys. But girls.... NOPE! You're not going to hear daddy say "She's gonna get pounded by a lot of guys" - in reality he's thinking "What kind of shotgun should I buy?" - even if that SAME dad looked at his own son and said "you're going to have lots of girl friends".
I think the USA and some Euro countries are improving on women's rights... slowly. Its not fair and its a stupid double standard. This is not 1915...