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How many people have you had sex with?

JessFR said:
I don't get the point, how is having sex once with 100 people better than having sex 100 times across 4 or 5 people?
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This something I frequently wonder when I hear people brag about high numbers of people. They are mostly one night stands, so the overall numbers must be much, much lower. There have been times I'm sure I've had sex a few hundred times a year in a relationship. There are also years I've had 0, and my number of people is much lower than most in this thread. So it all works out, I guess.
 
Male
37 years old
Numbers of sexual partners: Unknown, quite a lot really. High triple figures
Overwhelmingly female, occasional transexual in the mix
 
RedRum OG said:
This something I frequently wonder when I hear people brag about high numbers of people. They are mostly one night stands, so the overall numbers must be much, much lower. There have been times I'm sure I've had sex a few hundred times a year in a relationship. There are also years I've had 0, and my number of people is much lower than most in this thread. So it all works out, I guess.
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That’s true. In terms of actual number of times I’ve had sex, 3 women account for more times than the other 100 + combined. And I really only remember those 3 in any detail.
 
I have 20 or so. 7 of those came from a long weekend in cuba. Wonderul.

Models are the worst in bed. The prettier they are the less they try.

For men sex ends the same way everytime, no matter how hot or special the girl is ... so 3-20-100 .. all the same shit.
 
Male, 33
38 women
1 man (I didn't actually fuck him; we pegged his GF together, so he probably doesn't count).

I wish I got turnt on by dick. Twice the field to play.
 
I’ve had sex with about 25 partners. thank god for good genes or jus being lucky. the funny thing though is that when I first started having sex....it would be when adderall and alcohol was mixed..::.then when x came around you went for 12 hours and blue balled. But I realized I’ve made sure I was on some sort of downer ....for sex ....an opiate and 10mg adderall,,,,.or Xanax and adderall And booze.....norco used to make me last for hours but I’m over opiates thank god
 
Willkoz123 said:
You did the eiffell tower? Congrats man join the club !
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Oh yessir! The high-five and all! With no eye contact though - not enough rum in the world to make me stare my mate in his eyes while I'm plowing his gf as she gags on his party-stick.

And thank you!
 
Avoiding eye contact is typically something people do when they like someone, sexually.
 
Eye movements tend to be more involuntary.

Dilatation of pupils are an indication of cognitive demand, which happen for a number of reasons including sexual desires. An intense moment between two people looking at each other can easily cause a nervous reaction (read: avoiding eye contact) in someone who has the butterflies and unsure if a sexual occurrence will ever happen.
 
w01fg4ng said:
Eye movements tend to be more involuntary.

Dilatation of pupils are an indication of cognitive demand, which happen for a number of reasons including sexual desires. An intense moment between two people looking at each other can easily cause a nervous reaction (read: avoiding eye contact) in someone who has the butterflies and unsure if a sexual occurrence will ever happen.
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It's not really a numbers game.


It's functional versatility that really cuts the mustard.
 
RedRum OG said:
This something I frequently wonder when I hear people brag about high numbers of people. They are mostly one night stands, so the overall numbers must be much, much lower. There have been times I'm sure I've had sex a few hundred times a year in a relationship. There are also years I've had 0, and my number of people is much lower than most in this thread. So it all works out, I guess.
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I have known people who have had 100s, or 1,000s of sex partners. I did not have sex with them as I did not want to be just another number, and some were into extreme sex like gang bangs, unsafe sex, hard drugs/PNP-SEX, extreme fisting, etc. Also, I found some of them to be boring sexually.
 
cowboycurtis said:
Male
27
Heterosexual
Probably around 10. A few long term relationships scattered about a handful of drug-fueled encounters usually months apart, especially recently. Used to love fucking forever on that dope dick. I thought I was a stud until heroin eventually zapped my libido down to an occasional and fleeting thought. In recent years I’d be fine with getting laid once or twice a year. Hoping to change that as I transition into sobriety here shortly, god willing. And honestly I’ve had enough of chicks that also use. Ready for a regular gal.



^I know this is old, but I had to share this. I was infected with Hep C probably multiple times now that I think about it. I was pretty reckless in my earlier using days. Anyway, I ended up in the ER when I finally cleaned up and went to rehab for the first time. My liver enzymes were literally off the charts and as soon as I told them I was an IDU they pretty much knew what it was. I got tested for Hep C and HIV and at the time I really only gave a fuck about the HIV. I was shitting bricks when I went into get the results. Luckily it was just Hep C, but when I gave blood for a follow-up appointment months later, I was completely cleared by a gastroenterologist and told I was one of like 20% or so of the population that clears it on their own. So fucking lucky.
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You are very lucky! I know someone who got infected with Hep C and I believe either Hep A or B-this was long before the vaccines. Like you his body or immune system cleared it. He got it from rimming and rough unsafe anal sex.
 
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PriestTheyCalledHim said:
I have known people who have had 100s, or 1,000s of sex partners. I did not have sex with them as I did not want to be just another number, and some were into extreme sex like gang bangs, unsafe sex, hard drugs/PNP-SEX, extreme fisting, etc. Also, I found some of them to be boring sexually.
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How can you find them boring sexually but not have sex with them?
 
w01fg4ng said:
How can you find them boring sexually but not have sex with them?
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I would assume he meant that he found them boring in terms of his sexual attraction to them.

Like that's what I'd mean if I said I found someone sexually boring but hadn't had sex with them.
 
w01fg4ng said:
How can you find them boring sexually but not have sex with them?
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Because they only wanted to do one thing sexually, like only get fucked in the ass or vagina and did not even want to do any oral sex, or anything else. Or they were 1,000% vanilla and not into any sex kinks at all. There was this black guy I knew socially from the bar scene who I would talk to because the bars we would go to were very cliquey and standoffish with lots of cruising and flirting but in general nobody would talk to you unless they wanted you. I was not going to be rude, pretend I did not know who he was, or ignore him. He wanted me only because of my race/ethnicity and this was a turn off.

If they were too desperate and thought because I was talking to them it meant I wanted to sleep with them or date or have a partnership when we did not know each other at all. Or some would not take no thanks as an answer, were not my type of man or woman at all, or came on too strong when I was in a bar or dance club, or later on a website when I was there just to hang out with friends, get very drunk or stoned, or meet people, that was a turn off.

Or I was in a department store buying something, at a job interview, in a mall, restaurant, or supermarket, walking around a city, etc. and had people-usually men or male couples but sometimes women approach me for sex.
 
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