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No not because of society. I don't give a fuck what society says.
I feel guilty/bad about my drug use because:
1, It is holding me back in life
2, I have hidden it from my girlfriend and family
3, because it has affected my work performance negatively
4, Lastly because I have lost control of my use. I have unfortunately taken up the needle again and spent such ridiculous amounts of money on drugs when I could have used that money for much better things. I've blown through near $7k in the last 6 weeks (pharma pills are expensive).
I'm in the process of tapering to quit though. I want to be free of this shit.
Am struggling with quitting so bad. Every time I try the withdrawals get me. I took a big step yesterday and saw an addiction psychologist who can hook me up with a doctor who can prescribe subs a month at a time yesterday. I was crying so hard. The taper attempts just didn't work. I wound up going from poppy to morphine to oxy and heroin. Now I have been binging on cocaine occasionally since this post...did a few speedballs as well as I hadn't done one in a decade and missed that feeling..
Fucking a this shit sucks.
EVery time my dose gets below a certain level the emotions just overwhelm me. I think this therapist will help. She is actually awesome. I don't believe in any higher power...but if there is one it led me to her specifically because she was so understanding and non-judgemental and she said, I quote, "12 step works for some people, but I think whatever works for YOU is the path youbshould take." She isn't going to shove meetings down my throat and the 12 step bullshit (no offense to anyone else, I just can't stand NA and AA and the steps). She also recommended a really good pain management doctor because the reason I began using again was because of chronic pain. I saw specialist after specialist and nobody could figure it out.
But a big issue for me now is that I have realized I am pretty traumatized by a few events in my life. I always thought I wasn't traumatized because I grew up in a loving family and wasn't abused or anything. But the following things have popped out as possible triggers for my self loathing:
1. Being a fat kid AND having hormonal issues thay caused gyno (male breast growth-I got it surgically removed thankfully, I love my chest now)
2. Having seasonal depression before anyone knew what seasona l depression was.. I would get SO DEPRESSED in the winter time my grade school teachers said I was like a different person. Being so depressed and then subsequently isolating myself really caused me a lot of trauma because I had NO IDEA why it was happening. When light box therapy came out I tried that but wasn't consistent enough for it to truly work, so every winter I would up feeling like complete shit and wanting to die. It didn't helo being in school either. I hated school it gave me so much anxiety and I could mever pay attention (ADHD)
3. SEIZZURES: I have had a few grand mal seizures from drug use over the last 20 years or so. God damn the memory of waking up from a seizure is the worst feeling in the entire world. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. Not even Trump or Putin or Kim Jong Un lol. It is pure hell.
4. Having such awful experiences with doctors throughout my teens. I had a doctor KICK ME OUT OF HIS OFFICE because I told him I wanted to switch medications because the one he was prescribing was giving me suicidal thoughts worse than ever and I felt completely awful. Recently because I have an overdose on my medical record, they flagged me as an addict. Which I am...but you all know how THAT goes. No pain relied, and being in chronic pain, all that did was drive me to self medicate. I even asked my previous 12-step crazy addiction psych doctor if I could be switched to a QUARTER MG of xanax instead of lorazepam because it acts faster and has a shorter half life and I was having some hangovers from the lorazepam. I only use it sometimes for meetings and speeches so like wtf I just need like 2 or 3 hours of anxiety relief so I dont talk at light speed and lose my audience. He IMMEDIATELY SAID "no way, too much euphoria from xanax." I told him I used to be on xanax and never abused it and never have had ANY euphoria from any benzodiazepene and he just was like nope. So yeah, going to this psych doc was a huge step for me because I have had ZERO faith in the medical or psych system due to such awful experiences as a youngster and throughout my adult life.
ANYWAY, that is my life update. I am still using. I am seeing a suboxone doctor this coming werk as well as a pain management doctor in the next month or so. I will continue to self medicate until then, taking the suboxone alongside the morphine for pain. I am thinking potentially low dose methadone could work well for me. I know some people have success with suboxone for pain but my tolerance is likely WAY to high for that. Either way, I just need something. Every time I talk about my pain to someone I literally break down crying. A grown man, 6'3" and 230 pounds at 12% body fat (not trying to brag just paint a picture). I am a big ass, strong guy. I squat 450 and DL 525. So me breaking down crying is so embarrassing. But over the last month I have learned to accept it as I have cried more this month than in my whole life prior I think
Thanks for reading.. if you want to talk I am a good reader lol