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How important do you think sex is?

Your question is quite vague. Care to elaborate?

For me, yes sex is an important part of a relationship, but it is not the most important thing. I mean, there are lots of things more important. But I still want to be dating someone who I'm sexually compatible with.
 
I think sex in a relationship is fairly important as it is one of the special bonds you have together and I find them is no better feeling then being connected with your partner intimately no there is nothing between the 2 of you (I hate condoms for that reason), but as for life in general I could lead a normally, happy and productive life without sex but that's just my 2 cents
 
Good question!

For me, it is about 50%. That doesn't necessarily mean penis in the vagina. I'm really talking about all the touching and physical contact like: kissing, cuddling, massages, and all that good stuff.

The other 50% of importance is emotional and intellectual. That would be bonding, communicating, learning & improving from each other, and all that good stuff.

Its all very very important. For me, I have to have both or I'd be unhappy.

Each person should strive to give their significant other the best they can in every department!

Just be a Cool Kat
 
it all depends what mood im in honestly. i mean if im going to a bar or party makes me wanna fuck. but if im cuddling with a chick i dont need to.
 
I used to think that sex was important in my life but I made a decision in 2003 to stay single and abstain from having sex and I have kept to that.
After so long without sex I no longer miss it and so for myself sex is no longer important in my life at all.
 
Accoun said:
In life.
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Absolutely critical. You're whole body and mind are centred around facilitating it. Its the fundamental reason behind everything else you ever do in your existance - basically the meaning of life.
 
These days I am borderline asexual so it ranks very low on my list. I can think of many things I'd rather do, so when intercourse arises, I partake in order to please my partner.
For me, it is rather odd, I had a numerous list of sexual partners over a few years, but it has lost all allure.
 
When I'm getting it very important, when I'm not not so much. I know that doesn't sound like it makes much sense... Maybe I'm just adaptive. lol I do think tho as most people get older sex doesn't necessarily become less important, but the bigger picture matters more. I.E. companionship, someone who actually cares about you, etc. Sex is just one component (albeit an important one) of a healthy relationship.
 
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I'm 35 and never had proper sex, dunno if I'm just odd or just hasn't happened for me due to my shyness and hardly going out at night or mental health health with to much special brew drinks when younger. I think it's not that important due to high population and invented porn to divert people from real thing.
 
I think i read that a huge part of the population are quite of asexual. Too me its just got boring as i grew older. Its fun sometimes but im more of a period guy these days.
 
SproutOnSmack said:
These days I am borderline asexual so it ranks very low on my list. I can think of many things I'd rather do, so when intercourse arises, I partake in order to please my partner.
For me, it is rather odd, I had a numerous list of sexual partners over a few years, but it has lost all allure.
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what gender are you?
 
Very / not at all - what circumstances we talking about though ?
 
Sex is simply a means to an end, for me at least. If I had the capacity to self-induce those same sensations, I would and could thence forgo the tedium of courtship and the noxious insipience of most harlots.

Yes, there's masturbation (or onanism as John Harvey Kellogg calls it), but it isn't as pleasurable. Ah, well.
 
Drugs>Sex>Art(visual/audio)

I guess it is 33% "important" for me , but not more important than drugs. When I'm sexing, nothing else matters in the world. I guess because from a primordial perspective, this is what your existence has ultimately lead to: procreation...or in my case, its simulation. If I can't get sex, I have no problem with viewing porn/scantily clad women, whacking off, or simply meditating about sex in a trance-like state if I can't do the previous two.
If sex is available, I will be moved to not engage in it if condom usage is deemed mandatory by the chick. That takes away greatly from the experience (the spiritual connection) and is quite unnatural, given the act. Additionally, any type of condom I've tried to use in the past has given me severe allergic reactions that make my dilly painfully swell, *deflesh*(the worst part), then dry, and flake, which resulted in an iguana-like appearance for at least 2 weeks. The thought of trying to stretch out, fasten, and fit a tight piece of elastic rubber on my engorged dill is quite freightening to say the least and definitely unworthy of the subsequent prolonged sensitivity and agonizing pain.
 
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