Exactly- I've been messing around with substances long enough to realize signs. One of the things I committed to and must continue to do is be honest with myself. Since this debate and those thoughts have entered my mind I'm pushing my using days back even further. Hence the once every 14 days rather than 1-2x weekly. I don't want my life to spiral down into a shit hole I have a lot going for me(newly wed and nursing student) I did have a glass of wine tonight: I'm a bartender at a local seafood bistro so they have some legit wines. Anyways I will check in time to time but using day is t-minus 13 days