"Bomber", or whatever you call yourself, please see my reply below:First of all, your sex partner is right. He is not obliged to help you financialy just because you fucked. And I don't see what is regretfull from your side, as long as you enjoyied fucking him. Had you not done it with him, you would be at the same spot, except you wouldn't have some pleasant nights to remember.
That said, since it's obvious that you aren't really bonded to that man, on a spirtuall level that is, don't you have any close friends or family members?
I can see my self denying giving money to a random girl i fucked but i would never deny help to a close friend, a close family member or obviously, a girl i have a deeper relationship with.
Also would you help him if he was the one in need? And if you would, does he know it? Because i also wouldn't help someone who i don't think they would do the same for me
Can't believe how demented and offensive some of the reactions to this thread of mine were though ...
and FUCK YOUSE ALL (you know who you are!) If I'm having sex with someone, even if it's supposedly not "committed", I'd never let them go hungry or not help them with little financial emergencies. To expect that from a "friend with benefits" isn't a whore's expectation. It's a friend's expectation.
Unfortunately one is much more likely to get help in little emergencies such as those I alluded to when it's your regular sort of friend with no benefits.
You have sex with a male FWB ... and he acts like you OWE HIM EVERYTHING - your body, your time, and your money, if HE needs help.
But if you, as the woman in this transaction, ask for anything (except the "opportunity" to fawn over HIS DICK in one way or another)
....you get not only get fucked, but also FUCKED OVER and FUCKED OFF, and quite possibly FUCKED UP. Really fucking fast.
Sorry if my language offends but this latest round of bullshitty male-entitled thoughts on the subject has really pissed me off.
This is where feminism has done women a disservice. Men are now convinced that women - especially middle aged women - are privileged to get any sort of sexual offers at all.