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Guys: The longest you've gone without orgasm?

GUYS: What is the longest you have gone without an orgasm?

  • 1 day or less

    Votes: 3 2.5%

  • 1 to 3 days

    Votes: 7 5.9%

  • a little less than a week

    Votes: 40 33.6%

  • about a month

    Votes: 44 37.0%

  • a few months

    Votes: 19 16.0%

  • a year or more

    Votes: 6 5.0%
  • Total voters
    119
Huh, neat thread. I find it interesting because I`ve been consciously trying to masturbate less these days, in an effort to get me more motivated to hook up with women instead (which has worked to some extent...though not sure if it has been worth it so far hah).

I find I can go about 6-7 days, then this is a total breaking point for me. I just think about sex way too much after that much time. I can`t focus on stuff, and I can`t go many minutes without thinking of sex, and ya, every woman turns me on. It is actually pretty annoying lol.

So once a week is where it is for me right now... much longer then that I`m just not a fully functional person. I find it all a big hassle.
 
Pharcyde said:
Bout 180 days in jail
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shit son, 180 didnt stop me! you still on the mitten?

anyways, probably a week. i voted a month and now that i think about it, it was a week. i was on undernet and some guy mentioned how not beating off created more testosterone and made you more manly blah blah so i tried it. after like 6 or 7 days i had blue balls. once you're at that stage, there is only one way out. my dick was drippin precum after day 2 or 3, then i just started aching all over, and had to release.

ive never had a wet dream either. im gunna try to see how long i can go again...
 
haha yup, we've talked before, do you recall? where you at? im in tc.

to stay on topic, so far so good. day 1...
 
RhythmSpring said:
I have found that the longer I go without that release, the more vibrant and energetic I feel. It's very noticeable. And then, once I splurge, my energy and motivation seems to seep out of me.
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I thought that was just me! Wow.

My pattern seems to be: more often prompts more drive; less often, less drive. If I leave it longer than about a week, I get really stressed out and can't concentrate as well. At this point I don't really have any motivation to correct it; I have to consciously make that decision (and then everything's alright until the next time I leave it too long).
 
You know what i remembered when re-reading this thread.

I become EXTREMELY good with girls/talk to girls/getting numbers/getting girlfriends and so on..

WHEN I STOP WATCHING PORN!

Seriously. About a year ago i stopped watching porn.. within a month or 2 i had a girlfriend(never really have had girlfriends as such) and then another after her.. then i started watching porn and i just cant be assed now.

I should stop watching porn again.
 
If I leave it more than a day or two, I wake up next to it, asking what kept me...
 
when i had a problem with heroin,i was completly unable to cum/have an orgasm,rhis lasted for YEARS!!.....E.
 
longest for me was around 6 months... this actually happened twice, once just after i had discovered masturbation (at around age 11?) and got caught, and that caused a 6 month hiatus.... the second time it was before a very big exam, no way was i going to waste nay time or energy on anything else...

it is actually amazing that once you stop and dont think about it it can fade away, but the need is always there ;)
 
im 18, plus smoking weed all day every day makes me extra horny. i have a steady girlfriend who loves it just as much as i do. so 1 day at most.
 
by choice a couple of days if i've not been feeling too good

by no choice of my own 9 weeks in hospital when i could not walk. spent all my days reading FHM and checking out the nurses so i was extremely frustrated. the first day they let me walk on my own i had one goal my mind and hobbled off on my crutch to the disabled showers and locked the door :)

BOOM!
 
i've never had a wet dream in my life, i'm 19.

the first time i ever hada orgasm i was 14, and the longest time i've gone without one since then was probobly a little shy of 2 weeks.

i don't have much self control
 
Umm. Probably a month or a few months. I'm currently at... about a month due to relationship fuck up I don't even feel like it anymore. I think this counts a little as depression? I've probably gone 2 or more weeks (maybe a month and a half) without anything while in that relationship.

-_-
 
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About 4/5 weeks. After the 1 week mark i began to notice a great improvement in my mood and energy levels, and the emergence of a strange belief that women were finding me more sexually attractive/could percieve my increased internal energy levels..

Got to just over a month (this was around 23yrs old) and then i got tempted into releasing.. it's amazing how powerful the sexual mood can be. I immediately regretted the decision even though that orgasm was incredible!
 
RhythmSpring said:
I have found that the longer I go without that release, the more vibrant and energetic I feel. It's very noticeable. And then, once I splurge, my energy and motivation seems to seep out of me.
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I can relate to this. Yes, I become more energetic and aggressive but I also become very irritable and agitated. I tend to clench my jaw a lot and seem to lose the ability to focus the longer I go without release.
 
wow I feel out of place longest I have gone is almost 2 years because I was working 2 jobs so never had time to think about it until I quite one of my jobs.
 
neoblazing said:
wow I feel out of place longest I have gone is almost 2 years because I was working 2 jobs so never had time to think about it until I quite one of my jobs.
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It's a little known secret that if you conserve your energy you can become a success in whatever you apply yourself to. All the genius thinkers, inventors, and in modern times business men, all had a similarity in their success.. sexual restraint.
 
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