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Guys: can you please describe what sexual arousal feels like?

lightlikecoolwhip

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I'm writing a novel and need to get a better idea of what sexual arousal is like for a guy. Since I don't actually have a dick, I need a little more insight on what it's like to get an erection and what it feels like to have sex. For instance, what does it feel like when you're sexually attracted to someone and you aren't able to actually have sex with them? Or, if you haven't masturbated or had sex in awhile, does it feel different when you do have sex? I really appreciate any help on the subject, thank you. :)
 
'butterflies' in the solar plexis and heart due to adrenaline coursing through my veins when there's attraction or indication of sexual / physical contact. You know when you're drunk and you get that tactile euphoric feeling in your skin? That's how it feels in my loins and kidney area when arousal begins. Prickling on the back of my neck and base of my spine. The penis begins filling with blood and it's hard to describe but you can feel it going taught and again euphoric tactile especially towards the tip and at the base of the testicles / between the ass and balls. When fully erect my heart's beating and i'm in a mild frenzy, euphoria clouds my head, eyes probably droop a little. palms sweat a little and i start to become rather aware of the erogenous zones such as lips, sides, thighs, groin, spine...
 
When i was on the school bus with my text books bouncing in my lap in high school, on a country road.
Walk into school, I'd tuck it up and cover the tip sticking out with my shirt

Make sure your novel touches on the difficulties of dealing with spontaneous erections
 
Make sure to add funny things like when guys get erections in public places and have to put their dick upwards in the pants waist strap thing.

Come on guys we all been there

Fucking 7th grade good times :)
 
If your daydreaming / watching porn - visual stimuli etc then getting an erection is the step between daydreaming / getting off. It's an impossible question to answer - your sexually attracted to a person but cant you have sex with them. It changes with the situation - buying a bag of potatoes, some bleach and dandruff shampoo in the store and spotting somebody you just imagine naked and fucking (rough n ready) - makes me feel very different to - spotting the same guy in a club etc

I think everyone will have the same answer - if you havent had sex in a while = it will feel different.
 
buying a bag of potatoes, some bleach and dandruff shampoo in the store and spotting somebody you just imagine naked and fucking (rough n ready) - makes me feel very different to - spotting the same guy in a club etc

What if you're buying a bag of onions, some turpentine and volumizing shampoo?
 
Sit on your hand for a few minutes to squeeze the blood out of it. The stop sitting on it, and get your heart going. You will feel the blood rush back into your hand... thats like the blood flowing into your penis as it stiffens.
 
What if you're buying a bag of onions, some turpentine and volumizing shampoo?

I would be elated that my dandruff has cleared up (considering I have a No1 buzzcut on what hair is left, I have no idea where the shampoo came into play 8()
 
Or, if you haven't masturbated or had sex in awhile, does it feel different when you do have sex? :)

I went 6 weeks recently with no orgasm at all and then had sex with a new lady.

The orgasm itself was great, obviously, if not slightly uncomfortable physically due to being fully engorged and lack of orgasm for so long plus a tidal wave of spooge. As I came inside her I only got to see the aftermath of the cumrag/towel.. you'd be amazed how much spooge a person can store, that's all I'll say. I remember laying in the bed post-orgasm and I was having mild open eye visuals similar to those you might get on MDMA.. sparkly bits of colour and light with slight underlays of geometry and patterns. I only get that if the orgasm is particularly intense or emotionally we connect deeply during the sex.
 
Seattle, huh? Sit in the corner while my lady gets me off and take some notes, I'll give you a play by play. :)

Physically, I'd be willing to bte women feel some of the same sensations. The sitting-on-hand idea someone gave is a good idea. Imagine that blood rushing feeling, but euphoric. Mentally, it can be a high. Being truly aroused is a great feeling. Being truly aroused and believing you're going to get some is intoxicating, literally. Men start to lose rationality and logic when aroused much like being intoxicated, it's the whole reason mini-skirts exist. When men seem to "oogle" at women, it's not because they are perverted, it's because that woman is physically triggering chemical changes in his brain and he's experiencing a high of sorts. Strip clubs are another form of natural high. You sit there and enjoy the "oogle" high until your heart is content/wallet is empty.

The difference is men can feel that intoxicating feeling just by seeing a woman. Women can feel it too, but need more convincing. Just seeing a hot guy only seems to do so much for a woman. If a good looking man gallops up on his white horse, leaps off, hands you a bouquet of hand-picked roses and points out each one of your features and explains why they make you look like the daughter of Aphrodite, etc etc....then a woman may find herself experiencing that "oogle" high too, it just takes more to get there whereas a man can just see a woman standing there and feel oogled. Hard to really explain I guess.
 
This has been really helpful for me, thank you! Based on your answers and others I've gotten from asking around, it seems like guys experience arousal more intensely than us girls do. Or at least definitely more often. I'm almost a little jealous, except for the whole having to hide your boner by tucking it up into your waistband thing that I keep hearing about. That's hilarious...
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Anyway, please keep the answers coming, this thread has given my writing a great edge and I appreciate all your help.
 
i cant hide mine that way- i need a bag or a coat. cos when its going down from waistband trick it will be very visible for about 1 minute at least no matter what clothes
 
i cant hide mine that way- i need a bag or a coat. cos when its going down from waistband trick it will be very visible for about 1 minute at least no matter what clothes

Haha :D I know this quandary. If you're wearing a lose t-shirt you can always feign back ache and hunch forwards so the t-shirt sags out front.
 
Haha :D I know this quandary. If you're wearing a lose t-shirt you can always feign back ache and hunch forwards so the t-shirt sags out front.

you need a big hoodie that has big pockets at front and multiple layers of jackets
 
Actually yes, sort of... It will most likely be considered erotica, so it's in the same genre as 50 Shades. The stories are very different though.
 
Imagine not eating for days and finding the most delicious looking, tender, ample portion of your favorite dish on a table in front of you, still steaming. You're so close to it that you can smell the aroma of this perfectly prepared meal. You want it so badly that it causes all kinds of thoughts to race through your mind, how wonderful it would be to just have one small taste, just one little bite. Your skin begins to tingle with desire. The rest of the world is drowned out by the overwhelming need to savor the beautiful taste and to satisfy your hunger.

Now, imagine this having nothing to do with food, but everything to do with physical, mental and sensual desire. You want to caress her (or his) skin more than anything in the world. Primitive instincts take over, fantasizing about every detail of sexual satisfaction you could share with this person. What you would give to rip off their clothes, to feel the soft texture of their tongue, to allow your hands free reign over their body, to devour them sexually.

The extremely demanding (sometimes even painful) erection aching to enter this beautiful body just compounds this experience.

Mind you, this can happen anywhere. In the store, on the street etc. You can't just be a caveman and take what you want when you want it. You still have to be courteous, respectful and polite while pretending none of this is going on. It can be quite frustrating, honestly.

I use the hunger pangs as an analogy because the urge can be just as strong, if not stronger.
 
you need a big hoodie that has big pockets at front and multiple layers of jackets

Just don't stretch your arms above your head. I did that today and my lady saw him poking out the top of my jeans. Thankfully no one else was in the kitchen to see.
 
It's good

My wife is the most insanely beautiful woman I've ever seen and we have what we call (pet name ) a "proximity alert". That is to say...my penis gets hard. She could be on the phone, in the garage, doing dishes...whatever. Obviously for me this is arousing, but it is arousing for her as well. She delights to know that I am so attracted to her that her being in the same room with her gets me hard. Like you said, you don't know what it's like to have a hard penis. But when you are with the woman of your dreams it is the most powerful, wonderful, exciting thing imaginable. I actually get to penitrate and enter my wife's body . The softness of her, the shape of her breasts, her ass, the smell of her body, its heat...are simply undiscribable. Getting her ready is really the best part. Long deep kisses, my tongue enjoying, tasting her...she gets WET! I could slurp up her juices for eternity! I enjoy being a man and seriously love to take control. When I make love to my wife tenderly but firmly, almost forcefully, it takes her over the edge almost immediately every time and she cums and cums. The sight and feeling of her on my hard penis makes me explode. There is nothing more fantastic than providing intense pleasure to your favorite person in the whole wide world. Like i said, she is exceptionally beautiful.
 
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