ovenbaked....i think youve taken this all the wrong way. although its kind of pathetic to try and stop your woman hanging out with other men, its understandable that youre jealous.
all you can do is let her hang out with friends, try and relax and be mature, and if she cheats then shes obviously not worth your time.
but you are being a bit of a bitch for going so crazy. it shows immaturity on your part. its obviously a raw nerve for you, and maybe you need to look at why this is. have you cheated?? would you cheat if the opportunity presented itself?? have you been cheated on before??
you cant own a person. be cool, if she cheats, she cheats. deal with that when it comes to it, not now. because theres nothing you can do about it except repel her if she isnt cheating.