In my opinion and experience, if it looks like a duck and sounds like a duck, eventually you just gotta accept that it's a duck, no matter how much you'd prefer it to be something else.
Tonja... if you want to love someone out there - who loves you back. You must find him.
A friend just had a breakup this weekend. Me and my woman had a quick/small fight. We were tired and not in a good mood and blew up.
We sat at different parts of the house for 5-10 mins to cool off. And realized we were NOT feeling good and were snapping at each other over nothing.
We kissed and made up.