I can't help but laugh at where this thread has ended up. So totally off the original question.
I agree with a lot of what you said, Crimson. However, this isn't about the effectiveness of one program vs. another and the fact that "the treatment industry needs to be re-thought." This is about what is working
for that individual. Furthermore, we are on a website where real people are seeking real advice/help/direction/suggestions.
Here is what I think. After years of alcohol abuse and drug abuse, I ran through every possible circuit out there. Wrecked vehicles, wrecked relationships, put my hands on people I love, lost jobs, tore through emotions, and destroyed everything around me. These events could be considered rock bottom, but I believe rock bottom is a
mental state of being. I finally hit that where I was so damn sick of this life that I told myself "I gotta go, or alcohol has gotta go." That was my turning point.
At this point, I knew what to do. I knew I had to banish intoxicating substances from my life. I nutted up. I knew there was help in my family, in my friends, in
myself, in AA rooms, in SMART Recovery, in counselors, in the weight room, on the wilderness trails, in nature, in everything. I told myself it was time to change my life, and invested a certain amount of single-minded effort to each and every one of those categories
that I wanted to include in my life.