thestudent14
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NO ecstasy! =(having said that, i'm very discerning about what i use (no meth,no "ecstasy", no booze, no cigarettes)
Definitely an interesting thread, I'm currently single but it's something I've often thought about what impact my drug use will have on my next girlfriend and what would be ideal for me.
I'm sort of on the same page as Drug_mentor in saying that whilst it's very hypocritical I'd prefer to be the person in the partnership who takes more drugs. But I think it would be something that with the right girl I'd quickly change my stance on it
and it would mean very little.
I've always considerred my ex to be pretty perfect for me, but I was with her when I would just smoke a little bit of pot here and there but wasn't into anything heavier at the time.
But I wonder if we had started now, would the drug use scare her away? And is it likely to do so in the future.
I'd find it hard to date a girl who has had nothing to do with drugs, it's not that my use is a massive part of my life but it's more the fact that I can see it being apart of my life for a long time (I like to picture myself retired in 40 years time, smokin a Joint and enjoying the occasional pill with my significant other), and if they have had no experience with it and don't wish to, I guess on some level I wouldn't feel validated for having the stance that I do when it comes to drug use if a partner would never wish to see a whole different spectrum of life.
Do you guys think that being in a couple with a eavy drug user makes you use more? I would imagine it would have to.
Some of my friends that are a couple were pretty drug-free when they started going out, but years later slowly they've both increased use alot, but I'm never concerned about it, because I also imagine that in a couple of drug users you would think one would pull their partner up if they thought it was becoming a problem.
I dunno, this is something I've often though over, and I'll just end this post here otherwise I'll just end up cycling over the same things haha.