Because then you miss out on the inner experience. When you are so focused outwards, how on earth do you expect any revelations to come my friend! Don't get me wrong, focusing outwardly on people you are tripping with in real life is a beautiful experience! And moroboro, wouldn't it be nice to find a romance as that seems to be one of your issues you said? Well to find a romance one must venture forth and meet many people before they find the one right for them! It's time to take action! Also being with friends in nature makes you feel safe and grounded if things start going haywire.