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Does size matter? (girls please)

Does size matter?

  • Yes

    Votes: 44 37.6%

  • No

    Votes: 36 30.8%

  • Maybe

    Votes: 15 12.8%

  • I'm still collecting data

    Votes: 22 18.8%
  • Total voters
    117
hon, 5 inch is about average also you are only 16! you arent done growing... trust me. ALso its not only how big a guy is, its about how thick and how you move inside her, friction and all that. Trust me the best sex i have had hasnt been with the guy that can poke my stomach but the confident, enthusiastic guy that can work what he has. I think that the media in generally tend to exagerate how big guys should be, or that only a 12 incher can satisfy a woman or that a woman might want that. trust me girls want to enjoy sex a really really big guy would hurt more than give pleasure. am I right ladies?
 
you pretty much just read my mind 'doesntmatter' - like right now, a big point in my life, all im really doing is trying to figure out who i am, build some redeeming traits, and get this girl to like me more. its all i have my mind set on and its kind of depressing when u realize that all the traits within my personality are utterly worthless. depressed soul searching + self consious @ the dick = prolly a better set for doing acid again - i definately need to do some more soul searching. and u gotta add in late 30's and 40's life isnt over after ur golden years hehe...

dno if the 1 night stands have more possibility to be hurt because i think if something happens with someone u love, itll drastically change ur take on ur sex life rather than some bitch who u dont know.

tramaqueen im so glad to hear that caus i did grow a little bit and im like "plz god dont be done growing!" i know it sounds funny but thats pretty much the thought going through my head, excusing the fact that im an athiest so... "plz dont be done growing!"

so also considering the fact that im trying to change who i am - to become a better person. do you guys have any tips?
i mean i have already wiped my slate clean of all preconcieved notions and changed my out take on life from black and white to w.e is inbetween and to accept that im not always right. where else is there to go? i want to start clean so im changing anything back to where it started caus to be honest im extremely unhappy with who i am...
thnx for all the support guys

- if ur not lost, ur not having fun
 
They don't expect a 10-12 incher. They don't even know how big that is.
 
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acid and depression are not good bed fellows. mindset and setting are very important. in other words, don't trip in a bad mood, or around people that put you aren't comfortable with.

atheism isn't my cup of tea, so i don't really have any advice in that regards. i have my reasons for believing in God, but you have your own opinions and i'm not hear to judge you.

as far was building a better person out of yourself, learning to do good things because you want to vs. trying to do things because you think you will be rewarded (karma or whatever) is a pretty big one. developing empathy...the ability to put yourself in someones shoes will be a great tool over the years. one big thing i'm currently working on is trying to learn to really listen instead of just waiting to speak. i enjoy conversation, but when someone is speaking from the heart i have a bad habit of working in "debate" mode, attempting to form rebuttal or sorting out my response as they talk. theres no way this doesn't cause me to not pick up on subtle hints, body language, emphasis on certain words...even gut feelings as to what they're trying to convey.

as for the original topic, you aren't guaranteed your 30s and 40s. life is short regardless, don't spend it worried about your dick. you seem to have a good head on your shoulders, the fact that you want to develop yourself at such an early age is actually extremely impressive.

p.s. just my personal opinion, but don't completely rule out the role God and religion can play in your life. there are a ton of hypocrites in every form of organized religion and thats the opinion people form of them. don't write them off without getting to know what they are actually about, not what us flawed humans have made of them.

good luck and God bless : )
 
but acid works well with working out problems like depression - you can easily get to the root of your problems in one trip and even solve them.

i have noticed that everyone tends to make a big deal about athiesm. i used to be christian and what seemed to of happened was god turned his back on me. i began looking for flaws in the religion and found many. i found myself to be agnostic when i was about 15 and then i explored possibilities and the likelyhood of there being a god, the only thing driving the belief in god was the simple fact that i WANTED there to be a god, i didnt WANT it to be all over when i died, i decided to disreguard and found there was no reason to believe in a higher power. i'm sorry if i have disrespected any of your religions, thats just the conclusion i came to.

i think i may have the same problem with "debate". i love to argue and im always looking at all conversations as if arguements and im always trying to prove them wrong... i simply do this because i get bored with everyday conversation. i dont think this is a good thing and i am trying to calm it down. and i think i that i also am very strong with my analytical skills - reading body language and what not... i am trying to develope these skills but lately i have been getting lost in my own mind but atleast im having fun =)

i dont think im getting hung up over my dick, i dont think its a big deal, but i do believe it is a problem that i should address in my life rather than just write it off and ignore the fact that i may be smaller than most ppl and i should develope skills to pleasure women by other means.

im fully aware my life will most likely fall short of my 40's, i will probably die long before my time and i am fine with that...

im not completely ruling out the possibility of god but i dont want to live in fear of going to hell, i wanna live happy and not trying to impress another being. i hope that if there is a god then he will accept me for who i am and not judge me compared to the rest of humanity.

p.s. : thank you for all the compliments but i dont think i have a good head on my shoulders. yes i am more pessimistic than most because i believe optimism is irrational.

have a good day and great life :)

-if you aren't lost then you aren't having fun
 
This size thread has taken an interesting turn.

/moving to P&S.
 
In my experience, the larger guys have always had the larger egos...not good.

Anyway, in the end, it's not about size, it's about the quality. In regards to both the physical and emotional relationship. Also, like a lot of people have already mentioned, 5 inches is not on the small side.

Another thing, one of my friends once had an incredibly large man and she ended up with a torn ligament...in her crotch. So, yes, size matters...but in the opposite manner most would view it...
 
and like i said "i would rather to be 5 than 12 but 8 couldnt hurt..." and i think 5 is on the smaller side, just by how it looks and no im not posting a pic of my dick on here lol. and like i've mentioned a few times, im a big guy with an average/small dick. it makes it look alot worse. it definately would suck to be like 12 inches. would need hella lube. i just need a tight girl or a girl who <3's me : ) or both!

and to tell you the truth noodle - im not positive what p.s. stands for, i just know how to use it in context lol.
 
she(? if i remember correctly) was referring to the philosophy and spirituality sub forum right down the road. it seems as though you enjoy stretching your mind a bit. you should check it out, might be your cup of tea.
 
Just enjoy yourself and please your partner, learn what she likes and have success in that area rather then be concerned about non important things. If the person you are getting intimate, is negative, it is not your problem! Just do your best where it counts-and don't worry about the things that you can't change! Love to accept yourself as you are, and if you think that you lack in any way, try to get better with what you do with it rather then its proportions.
 
lol i might just do that. i thought she(? if you were correct) was refering to how we started adding p.s. to the end of our messages lol. my bad... i think i will check it out, i <3 tea!
 
To the person who mentioned a two inch cock and declared that size does matter, sure it matters to a degree, but what we are discussing here is a fairly average cock size and in this context size matters far less than technique. High school girls talk about size because they don't know any better. And they may expect 10-12 inches but the VAST majority of them would not be able to enjoy sex with a cock of that size.
 
People always talk about penis size mattering... but what about vagina size? Small and tight vagina -> a smaller penis would suffice and a larger penis hurt or be a problem (this happened to me)

Larger vagina -> small penis might be a problem where the girl doesn't get friction. Unless the partner is skilled she might be left unsatisfied.

It's all about hitting the g-spot, in other words, the point inside a woman's vagina which will give her an orgasm. Whether the penis is large or small, so long as you do this size doesn't matter.

With a larger penis it's easier to create friction so that a woman can push the penis against her g-spot and make herself come. With a smaller penis, there MAY BE less friction if the vagina is wide/loose

You just have to be aware of your partner. If you go in there and find your partner is loose/large compared to your penis, try flipping her over and taking it from behind, her stomach down, ass in the air. This will give you a lot more friction. And remember, you are aiming from the g-spot which is the top (stomach) side of the vagina.

Another way to get it done is to get her laying on the side and come at her from behind (like you're doing doggie style lying down) and then as you're moving in and out, squeeze her legs together, tightening her vagina, so you create friction as your penis presses into her vagina.

Other than that, penis size is about bragging, and it's mostly a guy's thing. Any woman bragging about "large cocks is a total loser.
 
Lost Ego said:
but acid works well with working out problems like depression - you can easily get to the root of your problems in one trip and even solve them...
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No. Drugs cannot solve your problems. Those are things that you need to work through on your own. Although LSD may seem profound at times, and I do love my LSD, it doesn't bring one enlightenment and it does not solve one's problems. I know it is easy to believe the opposite, and I really fucked my life up for a while buying into the whole psychedelic healing thing, but that isn't the way things work. The answers come from within you; not from the trip.

About the size issue:

How the hell did you expect to please a girl you'd never been with before intimately on a one night stand? Good sex takes time to develop. You need to get to know what your partner likes and how to push one another's pleasure buttons. Sometimes one night stands can be pretty good, but that isn't a guarantee. You aren't going to be with the bitch again so why worry? She's the type of girl who will sleep with a guy in a whim, so why not frown upon her actions?

Don't worry about your penis. You can't change it. I know people have said that you have a lot of growing to do, but based on life experience I'm pretty sure you'll be stuck with what you have for the rest of your life (unless you JUST recently started puberty at 16).

I had one ex tell me one time that I could have been bigger. The girl had been fucking five guys behind my back during the last month of our relationship. I shouldn't have taken what she said to heart, as she said the exact opposite many times in the past, and all of my other partners said good things then and since.

I let it get to me though. I'd freak out while watching porn and measure myself like three times a day. Eventually I realized it was stupid and there's nothing I can do to change my penis or who I am, and that was the end of it.

Most women aren't going to judge you entirely based upon your dick size. Most women could care less; they'll love you for you. She isn't worth the worry or the time. I know it sucks because when a woman insults a man's manhood, well, even if he was confident before he'll still freak out (At least I did), but look at the girl who's insulting you. Is she really worth the worry?

Lost Ego said:
...im not positive what p.s. stands for, i just know how to use it in context lol.
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P.S. = Post Script (Added after writing, appending information to a previously completed document)
 
Lost Ego said:
im fully aware my life will most likely fall short of my 40's, i will probably die long before my time and i am fine with that...
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What makes you say you'll croak before 40?

And forget the size of the smelly dinky already bro.
 
lol studly im already fully aware of the g-spot, how to access it, and on friction. i wasnt thinking much about her pussy's size, most girls brag about being able to use 3 or 4 fingers(or even a fist...), i need to find a normal girl who doesnt stretch her pussy on purpose.

koreys i think im gonna die early, because it's likely that i will, i have bad luck - anything that can go wrong will, my family has a history of bad health, i dont have a good diet, i rarely exersize(i go through spurts of 2 or 3 months of working out and then stopping for 6 or 7), i have done many harmful drugs and i dont mind them. i already have bad health for my age and i do stupid stuff often. its only a matter of time before i fuck up again.
and i cant simply forget about it, i gotta atleast keep in mind that im just average so i work twice as hard in bed lol.

emperor, im still gonna stay in denial and refuse to believe that. i like the feeling of acid and i feel very philosophical and spiritual when i do it. it is possible that its all in my mind, but i do think lsd expands the mind. dick: unfortunately you are right, i went through early puberty- i looked like i was 19 when i was a freshman haha. i really wasnt expecting much from this girl, she did afterall, end up being an utter waste of my time and an embarassment. she not only insulted me but also embarassed me in front of the school. luckily, pride still intact, im working to become a better lover lol. i hope i can find a girl who wont judge.
thanks for the help and support.

- If you aren't lost, then you aren't having fun.
 
5" is not small, <5" is not much fun, >8" is too big 4 me but I'm post-op TS. I've learned to ask the guys, "How big is it?" 'cause I've had trouble, several times. Some of the small guys think they can satisfy a woman with oral only, which is no fun 4 me. . . . had a guy with >8" who wasn't satisfied (he thought I was a virgin) and ended up "raping" me in the ass.
 
So... I know that size kinda matter to me and my friends but it more about how you use it. I mean you can have a huge dick and still not have a clue how to use it.... and you can have a little dick and be a champ with it. I mean its all about how you use it. I mean size helps but don't flip out if your a 6 and you wish you were a 7.... I mean if your girl cares that much I mean damn... tell her you wish she had smaller pussy... (actually don't, that might get you smacked in the face, but you see where I am going with this.)
 
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