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Dating a stripper.

Apparently strippers are good to fuck 'cause they stay in shape. lol. Or so I've been informed by one or two my peers in the past....

I've befriended many strippers, some of whom were single and others who were attached. Strippers are a unique breed of character, and they all most certainly love to be the center of attention in any social setting! The ones who view it as just a job and not a lifestyle seem to have their head screwed on fine, and proved themselves as perfectly capable of sustaining a work/life balance between their mode of income and their personal lives. The ones who were more outrageous and out to party hard definitely had more issues than they knew how to deal with, and the stripping was almost an outlet of self-abasement and self-destruction - as in any case, it depends entirely on the individual's circumstances and life experience.
 
i haven't dated a stripper but i'd like to, it wouldn't take long for her to get undressed would it. plus strippers have great body's, and they love having sex.
 
yea. it was life and death, and life, and death. and beautiful and ugly. and beautiful. we didn't really date though... it didn't quite get to that.
 
Its like Jeremy Piven said in The Goods: Live Hard Sell Hard....there are three types of strippers (paraphrased)

1)Shes working towards a degree and needs money for college.

2)Shes a single mom trying to support her kid

3)Shes got a serious drug habit to support

Or she's just someone who is trying to make a living and pay the bills, just like most other working stiffs. Stripping was always a part time job for me, in addition to another full time job, even though I did it for a lot longer than most.

Gotta get by somehow!
 
I married one...

If you want a normal life, don't marry one.

Have great sex with them at the start and then shag their jealous stripper friends and then bail. Don't consider long term unless you like drama, and have a lot of time and money on your hands.
 
I dated him live with a stripper who had three children and was a widow….

Whos done it?
I did2012-2013 she was a widow so she no longer had to strip as she was worth $800,000 not including her nice paid off house and paid off Mercedes… she smoked a little pot she's papa little Xanax but what normal American doesnt… her name is Julie Perkins… she was a great loving and caring individual…. The bedroom was the holy land I hope heaven something like our sex life….. I could fist her I could use a pussy pump on her I at the Time could do what ever I wanted the bedroom… to mention she tossed the best salad I've ever had tossed and I'm not talking in the kitchen…..some fucking her throat she loved jizz on her face hair mouth cream pies etc. thats the bed room… outside the bed you drew him she was the classiest woman I ever met… or so I believed….. Truth is she was a horrible parent…… she had a 7,11 and 14 yr old at the time… she bought me everything and even told me not to work…. She has major trust issues though…. She liked me because of my body at the initial attraction and then fell in love with me afterwards because I treated her so well… I'm guessing she had never had somebody care for her since her husband died back in 2008.. her widow Basically rescued her from the strip club and let her run his restaurant… he was visiting a strip club and brought her some flowers the next day and she never worked again at the strip club….. That being said….. She had PTSD from him dyng.. She refused to take the PTSD medicine instead so she Took what she called candy a.k.a. Xanax and drank heavily... The way we met was I was out celebrating my one-year sobriety from marijuana after a ten-year addiction smoking a half a pound a month….. She approached me on my Harley and said I was hot and sexy which I totally get all the time so I ignored her I'm not one to brag but I have health issues that make me go to the gym to keep my health in better condition muscles are side effects of the training I do for a better immune system…. I could give you a list but it's too long it starts with Crohn's and goes on… hyporthyroidism Addison's etc…. If you looked at me you would swear I was in perfect shape in until I want everybody to View me.. Don't want anyone to know that I am sick…. Or have an autoimmune problem…. And I opened up to her she genuinely seemed nice... Then she told me she'd never grieved her husband's death… so I told her grieve you deserve it you need to get off your chest that's when the problem started… you want to me to sell my house because if I was at the gym and I went home to make a protein shake sometimes I fall sleep because when you wake up at 7 AM and take children to school after you make them breakfast and then go to work and then come home and help the children with homework and then cook dinner and then have sex from about 9:30 PM till about 2:30 AM you're fucking beat… the sex barn on was the best I've ever had in my life and the only time I ever film sex was with her the first night we fuck and oh my God I still watch that to this day it's better than porn….. Point being is all women are crazy… just got to pick the kind of crazy you can deal with…. Since she had money she emasculated me well tried to and when I said fine I'm going back to work as a car salesman because it's a revolving door it all car dealerships…. she became very codependent… me questions like what you rather spend the day with me and said of work… and I said of course but I'm a man I need to make a living if I'm going to support this family (her husband died on the exact same Harley that I own just to put things in perspective) I'm by no means a bad ass or anything like that I'm 5 foot six I box and lift weights every day… what you may lift in 45 minutes takes me three hours because of my medical condition…. Constantly accused of cheating to the point I couldn't take it anymore…. She barged in one day because I fell asleep at home on the barstool because I was just worn out physically…. That lead to fights... Which led to her threatening my life… which lead to the first time I walked out on her in the middle of the night after she passed out from drinking…. I do not drink alcohol or smoke pot or do drugs… I did from 18 to 24 but at the time I was 28 and she was 31 and I know from my medical conditions I can do either or…. I don't judge those who do…... Everyone has a right to do what they want and put what they want in their body as long as they treat people with respect and the way you want to be treated…. First few months you really stroke my ego and Made me feel like a man almost to the point where she almost convinced me not to go to the gym but I told her because of health I had to….she understood… although all the sex we had really kept my cardio up so really I probably could've skipped on the gym but I really like how I look when I go to the gym knocking ally am I grew up fat so I really like having an eight pack etc. never using steroids…... Long story short one of our arguments which was started by her mother led to her throwing glass at me… in the way she got back to me was to abort our child that we had planned…. I am 28 at the time and I told my father it was not a planned pregnancy… I did not want to put that on his shoulders…. But I said I would take care of the child…. She had so many what ifs that she kept to herself….. Till she aborted baby……. She called me from the emergency room saying she couldn't stop bleeding on her 32nd birthday June 30, 2013…. I went to the hospital so fast never being so worried for anyone in my life…. I was head over heels in love…. But after that the nastiness came out…... She started to blame me for the abortion….. And make up scenarios in her head.. I don't know if this is because she was a stripper or because she was a widow…. Either way she was a stripper before she was a widow… and she was married to my good friend from high school's brother….. Thank good friend said that she cheated on her brother a lot…... And was worried for me…. But I said no matter she doesn't cheat because I live with her and she's never out of my sight because she can't go a second without being with me…….. But when you're with a girl with money that leads to nothing but small problems being big problems like a sliding door being left open when you go out to grill steaks for the family while she sits on the couch and does nothing… it's a shame because I still love the girl and her children call me stepdaddy then my name I was step daddy Bry… I truly felt an emotional bond with her children and almost love them as my own… two occasions her children reached out to me on Facebook and I got back with her…. She wanted to get back into stripping and I was okay with that my first love being a Hooters girl I know what it's like when guys lost after my woman I'm not insecure at all in fact I'm a short guy am 5 foot six… and she was 5'8…. The tallest girl I ever dated in fact I've only dated and I'm not bragging models that works for Pacific sunwear H&M and just a few agencies were they would go do you like braw shoots for Macy's and Nordstrom's etc. I'm not the jealous type nor am I a fighter I always said okay I'm sorry but well what I'm saying here is a stripper is just like any other girl except they keep better hygiene and care more about how they are looking….. Which is great because I was and still am very vain nothing was wrong with dating her the problem of breaking up with her….. When I told her it was over for good in July 2013 at the end of the month she started just dropping by taxi to my house and crying and staying the night etc. and I felt bad for her…. Rumor has it she's on plenty of fish which is cool… but I hear she uses it just for sex from my buddies from the gym level Banged her…. I don't know she thought I would get upset but she definitely being my best friend about a year after we broke up….. So when dealing with a stripper know you're dealing with someone with mental issues at the very least…. But like I said when it comes the women you have to pick your crazy……. But strippers are the most hygienic most ambitious most aggressive and have the best sex….. I still think I Kinda Love her… he found love at first sight I knew she had been with 50 partner since she was with and that was about 10 years before she met me I'm no saint my numbers are up there in the 60 range… I get tested every 3 to 4 months… just experience it why ask a question like this…. Make up your own mind…. But all women wish they could be as free as she was but society makes them afraid of what people think….. I told her I live by :your opinion of me is none of my business" and she should do the same and it works but the whole blaming me for the abortion telling me how much groceries cost etc. just let me to go get working you not leave her at home alone where she would just come visit my car Lawton bother me and when I say bother I mean bother my chasing off customers being rude and just not having a filter on her mouth… I'm the dirtiest talking motherfucker you've ever met…. But I know there's a place/ time for everything… dating an active stripper I can't comment on but just go try it…. I am currently looking for another stripper girlfriend as we speak and not because of the money but because of the confidence they have… I make enough money on my own I'm 29 years old I have a dog and I live in a 2000 square-foot air-conditioned home 2400 ft.² not air-conditioning included in that space….. And I want to do because I just like her confidence and frankly society looks down on them and I like pissing society off…. Something about me and authority that doesn't get along but I've never been arrested… and I tote a legal gun not bragging but then half a pound of marijuana habit that I had came from dealing marijuana from California for the last 10 years until my plug snitched on me and I got raided but thankfully I had nothing here……. And nothing came in my name what I see here I mean my old home I had to move had no choice cops are fucking with me too hard….. But go... go date a stripper find out how normal they are infact here's a link http://thoughtcatalog.com/isabel-kennedy/2014/01/17-popular-myths-about-strippers-busted/
 
I've never dated a stripper, but I've dated two ex-escourts. One relationship was incredibly intense and dysfunctional (it lasted 6 years almost tho). The other was a bit more normal, but still it was a bit wonky (it lasted about 10 months). In both relationships the sex was amazing and I was amazed by how open both of my ex's were with everything. I still remain best friends with both of them and talk to them both everyday.
 
I dated one for 4 months, the first 2 months was great, she would call me all the time, ,great sex, lots of fun, after 2 months she started acting crazy, she wanted me to stop talking to all my female friends, which i said no. Which made her very angry, and she would argue about it every time she saw me, She would try to convince me ,my female friend was using me, which was not true. She didn't want me to call or text her everyday anymore, only few times week. She would spy on all my post on forums, and question every like or comment i did or wrote. She would argue if I like a girl picture. She would text me from random number and pertain shes my ex gf, and say things like lets meet up, etc, she wanted to see what my response would be, then she would get angry, why I would even reply, if I knew it was my ex gf.

At the end her sister called me to ask me something, and she found out, she started cussing me out, and we broke up. She said she doesn't want a man who gets involve in her family business, I told her I didn't know it was her, shes like you should of hang up, Im like im not rude like that to hang up on ur sister, plus its not a big deal. After that we stop talking.

Also she would question my love for her, she would be like u don't love me, u love the idea of love. It was worth it, but she cost me a lot, every-time we went out, I would end up spending $200-300. She would be like can u buy me weed or coke, Ill pay u back, and she would never pay me back. Funny thing is one time I told her to buy me 10 narco, and 10 times she ask for the money, I never once made her pay for dinner or anything.

Also on the 5th week my friend saw her with another guy at a bar, which to the end she denied, but my friend was pretty sure it was her.

I always thought strippers had money, but she was broke, she claim she didn't make more than $400-600 a week, which in my opinion is not worth showing ur nude body to everyone, and having a batch of horny guys touching you.

She claim she wanted to do something else, but didn't know what, either way sooner or later she has to do something else, as she was 30, and she won't look good in 4 years from now.

She said she became a stripper, because her mom kicked her out of the house at 16, and from 16 to 18 her bf was abusive to her, so she became a stripper to escape that life.


She had a lot of emotional issues she needed to work on, there wasn't a time where she didn't cry about talking about her past.

I didn't think it would last, but she would talk about marriage and having a baby, and this was at the first month.


The sex was the best, She would let me have sex with her anytime, anywhere, and any way I wanted to, she would never say no, she had a very nice body, very clean, pretty face. The sex was the only good thing I liked about her. Everything else no.


Another issue with dating a stripper is they are look down upon, anyone I would tell that shes a stripper, they would tell me to break up with her immediately. Now imagine telling your family that your marrying a stripper.

But seriously, what guy wants her girl be touched by a lot of guys for few dollar, that's why a relationship with a stripper will never work.

I also thought dating a stripper would be more open, that I can talk to any girls I wanted to, or even go out as a friend, but no I was wrong.


Also it's been a year since we broke up, buy sometimes my friends still make fun of me about it.. I regret telling my friends what she did, but I really didn't think they would be so against it, and my friends are very open minded people,compare to most people, so that should tell u a lot.
 
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So, I'm sorry to say, I am still in the exotic dancing industry. Do I have sex for money, no, I'm married. Now, I enjoy entertaining by choice of exotic dancing. Does that make me any less of a person... honestly to a lot of people, yes, however, I know what I do, and how I do it. So, you ask, Am I a CLASSY stripper, or is there a such of a thing.? Well, I have learned from past mistakes, so I don't keep being foolish. As of today, I no longer dance on stage, I manage the out of town guest dancers of the pavilion. I am currently enrolled in U.O.P. to obtain my Master's Degree in Psychology, saying that to say this, many men and women use any job to get ahead, and some choose to do other things however, what they do with their opportunity is no other's business to judge. Everybody has done something that was not pleasing at some point, but why choose to amplify one wrong over the other.?
 
I know this is not the first thread on the subject.

Long story short, don't.

It just really depends.

I hate to sound biased, but you just gotta look at the damaged goods factor and see if it applies.

Working in any type of sex trade will affect people most likely permanently in certain ways.

Oh and she will have a song or two from her stripper career that she always did her dance to. You will grow to hate it most likely.

Even if she doesn't do anything (which is unlikely) whenever you hear her stripper song you will both know and at best kind of look at each other, so you will either love it or hate it.
 
Another ex-stripper here. Single mom working towards an engineering degree now.

I was a stripper for 13 years and I don't regret it all. People can makes lots of judgments but I never prostituted myself out, even though I knew quite a few girls who did. I have good friends now that are hookers, but because that is their chosen career path now doesn't make them any less human.

And there are crazy people anywhere, whether it is in a strip club or even in your classroom.​

^^^ What she said! But - I gotta say, I'm a female and have had two friends of mine work as strippers. One looked upon it as a "job", danced, went home, lived..... The other became involved in drugs, prostituted herself and became out of control with her addiction. BOTH women say that they knew more girls who did prostitute themselves for extra cash or drugs then those who did not. They also said that very often the extra $$ was to support a drug habit. Hmmmm.... I'm thinking perhaps those who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones!
 
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At the end of the day we all have bills to pay and rent to pay to survive, so what one does to make money shouldn't be judge. But unfortunately most people do. I think if ur going to date one just keep it a secret, and if u decide to get married or etc, if it goes that far, u can discuss a different job.
 
I married one!
..a lot of what ive read is accurate..but most isn't..if you need more of a report just ask!
 
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