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Dating a stripper.

how about an amateur porn star? does that count?
not a stripper exactly ... on a lower level kind of thing
 
I will chime in here. Yes, I've dated a stripper. Ask me why? Her body, OMG talk about a body. It just screams "fuck me!!!" However, she was/is totally, and I mean totally fukked in the head. The sex was grrrrrrrreat, but the relationship aspect of it was so fukking volatile it was just ridiculous. It lasted about 3 months.
 
K12 has pretty much been there and done that with everything.

I wish I led his life.
 
never dated a stripper but my ex started working as a wiatress at a strip club, might as well share a story.
It was pretty trashy, she started talking in this new slutty voice at home and was always going on about the drama and shit with her stipper friends. She had a standard trashy uniform with big black boots and got robbed and assulted after working there for about 2 weeks. If she had stayed there longer it would have been awful as I could see she was gettin involved with that stripper counterculture thats just gross IMO. Everyone who worked there had a tough life and they all seemed to kinda bond on that level.

Then again at the time we pretty much had no other way to support our benzo/heorin/cocaine use. At the time it never bothered me because I just cared about getting high and liked her coming home with two boots full of bills.
Now that ive been on methadone for a few months and I got my head together, and im leading a very fufilling life. If I was in a seirous relationship now it would not be with someone who worked at a strip club. My values and morals have come into their own I guess and I have more respect for myself then that now.
 
My boyfriends good friend whos a dealer is with an ex stripper he met her at the strip club when she was working there, I got to know her pretty well she was a cool girl but had a hell of a lot of baggage, she had a really bad history and two kids who she didn't really care for she definitely had a few lose screws and is not really stable. I think strippers go through a lot
 
my friend is dating a stripper right now, and it's dysfunctional. She goes out pretty much every night and he's in school. He also thinks she's cheating on him.

She is so hot though so he stays with her :\
 
Yes unfortunately I have dated a stripper. Totally dsyfunctional. I was studying at uni and her lifestyle was basically: Wake up after lunch, go stripping at night, get smashed on drugs n booze, come home at 7am when I'm getting ready for uni and then go mental because I wouldn't fuck her. She was a very bad influence, it was alot of fun, but ultimately bad in the long run.

Strippers lead such out-there lifestyles which are incompatible with most normal folk.
 
I've dated a couple of strippers but I knew them from high school before they started dancing. Both had daddy issues and both were pleasers in every sense of the word. Jealousy wasn't an issue for me since i'm never jealous. Actually I use to hang out with them while they were working but mostly because the manager was cool as shit and we'd just sit at the bar and drink. I didn't even like strip clubs or strippers. I just liked them as people because they were fucking crazy and I dig crazy. Dating a dancer is fine but just NEVER be srious about it. Just have fun and keep it wrapped up...
 
I've been in a 2 year relationship with a stripper. Shes a great girl at heart. Always has good intentions and is very caring. However, she can be quite dysfunctional at times. The first issue is times. She works 5 nights a week, doesn't get off work until 3am. I have a normal society hours job. It's difficult but totally doable. Another issue is the girls around her and people working there are terrible influences. The sex is great. She's very open and willing to please in the bedroom. Our communication is great, we have very open and honest communication.

I'm not at all jealous and if you hang around strippers you'll see that they all view men as money so ive never had any worries of cheating. So really the biggest issue will be time together.

Hope that helps
 
I never did, but my buddy did. They're regular people, just employed in an adult business. If I believed a stripper was honest and really into me, I'd date her.
 
Most regular people would never consider working in an adult business.

Let me assure you, there's nothing regular about strippers....
 
Most regular people would never consider working in an adult business.

Let me assure you, there's nothing regular about strippers....

Regular? So they're irregular? I know alot of people who think drugs users are not regular people. It's a matter of opinion.
 
In a perfect world. Theres also no good reason that junkies should have viruses more because they dont have to share needles.

Trust me though guys always tell me "ya and that place is good because in the back room if u have XXX DOLLARS they will fuck you. "

I realize this but it doesn't mean it's unsafe sex. In fact, a lot of sex workers are probably more safe than your average person from what I can tell. Their livelihood relies on sex so why screw it up with an STD or pregnancy?
 
Trust me though guys always tell me "ya and that place is good because in the back room if u have XXX DOLLARS they will fuck you. "
Listen to this man.

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