Ok, time to get some clean time . It has been 18months of everyday use with just a couple episodes of few days sober . My tolerance is so high right now that its just waisting money and making my dealer rich. She is a girl and in 12 months she changed her car 5 times, 3 of those times she got a brand new cars!! I guess in this business it is manditory to change your car as soon as you can but what makes me mad is...the fact that she didn't even graduate from HS! and she never ever had a decent job in her life and she'$ buying or leasing new cars like it's nothing! And us , we have to work ℉u℃§°^G hard , everyday , pay damn taxes and make their life a dream! How many times you guys thought " I hate being addicted to dope , being junky or whatever , spending tons of cash with this dude and I'm nobody with no money, with athousands of overdue bills , can't afford to buy a nice clothes or other things you want, cause you have to get some dope!! And this dude who's your dealer is driving a brand new car, has so much cash that you will never see in your life!! " Yeah , I know they are taking risks for selling this shit but it just makes me think big! about life in general.. and time is flying by , life is going on and me ... I feel so tiny, so hopeless .. that you , without the education so effortless can make a nice living off other stupid people so fukin addicted to just little powder of a size of a fingernail that controls your whole life
No use in ever getting jelly of a dope dealer. It's such a foolish way to get money nowaday that it's nearly impossible to become a long term success. Every one wants to be tony montana, but remember how fast he was in too deep? My point is that even in the movies they don't make it far lol. There's just too much law enforcement nowadays. If they want you, they'll get you. And time is always on their side. It's just a matter of how important you are to them. I personally feel sorry for dealers because in most cases, they weren't dealt a fair hand. But arrogance plays the main role and that fast money blinds them from everything. Everyday, they're leading to someone else's demise..over and over building up that bad karma...before it all comes crashing down and they're sitting in that cell facing as much time and a homicide charge. So yeah, I hope they buy 5 cars and 5 houses and jewelry and guns and feel on top of the world while they're out in the street because sooner than later it's gonna be interesting for them.
However, you sound like you want to quit, but you just need that kick in the ass like I needed. DON'T even think about it. Just do it. FIND a detox that weens you off with sub and never look back. In 2 months, I've slipped up once. I was on subutex for the first 45 days. GOT a craving..bought a half that lasted me 2 days (got shorted woohoo), and then got back on the sub and weened off that. I'm down to .50mg of subutex per day. I take xanax about 5 nights a week (never had an issue getting hooked on xanax because of how stupid it makes me) and now when I smoke weed, I get dizzy and literally pass out for an hour or two. MAYBE it's just too strong?
I promise you all that it's worth it to quit. We all have that drive to get whatever we want when we put our minds to something ie. GETTING dope everyday when we don't even have money. CHANNEL that drive to ANy thing besides dope. And watch how easy things go for you. Things got easier for me once I realized that life isn't about feeling good all the fucking time. LIFE is about working your ass off and there are small windows where we enjoy. And then it's right back to grinding. NOT waking up, getting high, going to work, getting high, going on lunch, getting high, coming home, getting high. YOU really fuck with your life when you do this. At least for me, this all rang true. And once I gave in, everything went my way. I just got an iPhone 7. I went from having a 10 fucking dollar phone to an iPhone. I literally upgraded everything in my life material wise and support system wise and relationshipwise and anything else wise lol. Trust me, if I can do it, so can you. IM one of those people who had no direction..not your typical spoiled brat from the burbs...dad was never around..mom was shot in her head in front of me when i was 12. I'VE been to hell and back. PTSD is very real. BUT what doesnt kill you, will make you stronger, I promise you that. I'm sure we all have fucked up stories because drug addiction is a fucked up thing and people tend to overuse because they're trying to heal..or they just want to get high. FOR me, it was to heal the pain. BUT there comes an age where we have to learn how to cope with out drug use.
And one more thing. DON'T ever let anyone tell you that you need this that and this in order to get and stay clean. AT the end of the day, it's all mental. DON'T let anyone tell you that you must attend meetings or go to a 30 day program or live somewhere else. SUCH bullshit. DON'T forget that drug treatment is a booming business. Even non for profit ones are getting tax deductions. SO of course they're going to push the whole 9 on you. IF they cured everyone, they'd be oUT of work. Be determined. Don't let them win. GET clean and do what you think will work for you! DON'T let some asshole with a degree who has never done a drug in their life tell you how it should be done. IM not saYing be disrespectful, but keep your best interest in mind and remain skeptical.