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Can't Get A Hard-On While High On Opiates

bogey_j said:
this is a big problem. I love opiates but I won't keep doing them if my junk doesn't work

any solutions?
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viagra or cialis will help but best plan is to get off the opiates..youll get to the point where you wont feel anything from sex..have no desire for it..its just part of the opiate life..
 
Numnums said:
Hope I'm not being obvious, but have you contacted a physician concerning your asexuality? Since it is causing you to self-medicate, you might want to look into it. A major university attached to a med school might be a good place to start. If you have tried the doctor route, was it discouraging? Hate to say it, but many psychiatrists/doctors/psychologists don't know their asses from a hole in the ground. Sometimes, you have to visit several before you find anyone that can help you. Good luck to you.
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asexuality cannot be treated..no one understands the cause of it much less how to treat it..im in the asexual circle and it realy fucks up a guys self image..when u have hot girls coming into you all wet and horny and you dont feel anything, its messed up..
 
shadowstryker said:
I was literally just about to mention that. It isn't something that can be fixed with therapy, it's how I was born and how I am. Just gotta live with it ya know? Who knows, maybe he's right and it caused me to self medicate, but honestly who cares. There's not a drug in the world that can change it, just like there's no straight pill for homosexuals.
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id like to see how you respond to Ghb..have u ever taken it?its the only thing that has actually made me feel horny..
 
This is rather interesting , ive never had any of these issues , for some reason . Regardless of frequency of use or dosage ive never had any issues regarding the horizontal shuffle . Ive been both a recreational user and as of 6 or so years ago a chronic pain patient .

There were times where i suppose the urge to act on circumstances was abated but if provoked was still capable of performing and quite well according to some hookups who never knew i was using. I remember one even saying i should consider going into the sex industry because of my longevity and stamina , very weird conversation but enlightening at the same time .

in fact as far i can remember ive never had issues on any drugs . it must be a personal thing or maybe im just a freak of nature .
 
was something of mine erased? I replied w/ regard to asexuality mentioning how it relates to my family and how my sister is a lesbian and how we had others in my family who were also gay. I just came back to check on to see if anything has been quoted, replied, etc, but I do not even see my reply. not sure if things have changed or if I may have not been logged in for whatever reason, but just wanted to ask if anyone has seen/read anything I replied w/?!

any help, peeps!?

off topics, but won some $$ playing cards tonight. lol. NOTHING TO DO w/ ANYTHING but WON CASH and always a good thing so I can actually have a good weekend; and no, not meaning doing drugs but being able to go out and enjoy the "normal" things people enjoy in life.

oh man, if only I knew that for the past, however many years, man! damn. someone just told me 6 months to a year ago, lol.
 
IMtrying said:
was something of mine erased? I replied w/ regard to asexuality mentioning how it relates to my family and how my sister is a lesbian and how we had others in my family who were also gay. I just came back to check on to see if anything has been quoted, replied, etc, but I do not even see my reply. not sure if things have changed or if I may have not been logged in for whatever reason, but just wanted to ask if anyone has seen/read anything I replied w/?!

any help, peeps!?

off topics, but won some $$ playing cards tonight. lol. NOTHING TO DO w/ ANYTHING but WON CASH and always a good thing so I can actually have a good weekend; and no, not meaning doing drugs but being able to go out and enjoy the "normal" things people enjoy in life.

oh man, if only I knew that for the past, however many years, man! damn. someone just told me 6 months to a year ago, lol.
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If you had posted it and deleted it or a mod had UA'd it for some reason I would still be able to see it but there's nothing there. If you weren't logged in it would have prompted you to log in and once you'd done so it would have posted it. Sounds like you clicked away from the page or didn't hit submit or something.
 
Because OD is for intermediate drug discussion this thread isn't in the right place. I'm going move it to BDD.
 
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englandgz74 said:
Used to have the same problem.....Viagra is your friend :)

Although shooting your bolt becomes allmost impossible you can go for hours....
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I know. I believe it's more like a lack of wish as OP might be enjoying opiates more than sex.
Pretty common 'problem' actually. I was always told I couldn't have it both ways, I suppose this was right upt to certain point.

Viagra could solve it if you want to do it and can't do due to the side effects.

Thing is that some of us are never really too interested in sex while on opiates.
You like the idea of having some, but not really.. IMO anyway.
 
Hmmm, glad to know it's not just me. I should really show this thread to my fiancee! Haha
 
DelRio you absolutely should show this thread to your finance brother! Cuz I was in a relationship for a year and a half started my bupe treatment about 2 months after getting into my relationship and for about 6 months dude the bupe ruined my libido, and my ex cried so bad thought it was her, you know how girls get with that I don't blame em, but they need to know the truth! Any opiate in Males greatly shoots down our testosterone levels, as well as inhibits us to feel sensations on our dongs keeping us from A: maintaining an erection and B: from achieving orgasm. Now check this out with bupe after about 6/7 months of being on the bupe all my sexual side effects got better went away it's like I got used to the bupe now I can take one and have sex immediately after whereas before I'd have to wait 12 hours after taking bupe to get down.

One thing I loved so much about the opiate (Heroin) was when I was in active addiction I never desired sex, I never had or wanted or cared about being in a relationship with anyone while I had my Heroin Addiction...cause heroin was my relationship, and that relationship with Heroina was the most sick, twisted relationship I ever done been in. When I had money she was good to me! When I was broke she'd leave me dry n' sick and she'd be out there cheating on me with everyone else, oh Heroin you bitch!
 
I can relate to what Raizd said about the "relationship" with my ex who I used to personify with the name "Foxy Brown".

It truly is like that...when you have the $ and wherewithal and all that she's your mistress...or at least it seems that way...but in reality you are her slave and when she's done with you she's off to her next victim.
 
Erikmen said:
I know. I believe it's more like a lack of wish as OP might be enjoying opiates more than sex.
Pretty common 'problem' actually. I was always told I couldn't have it both ways, I suppose this was right upt to certain point.

Viagra could solve it if you want to do it and can't do due to the side effects.

Thing is that some of us are never really too interested in sex while on opiates.
You like the idea of having some, but not really.. IMO anyway.
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Heroin can make me feel perfect in the world for 10x longer than an orgasm. I do miss that primal urge to bend over every 7/10+ I see though. And I don't like having wet dreams while in withdrawal. << im not alone on this am I?
 
SterlingM.Archer said:
Heroin can make me feel perfect in the world for 10x longer than an orgasm. I do miss that primal urge to bend over every 7/10+ I see though. And I don't like having wet dreams while in withdrawal. << im not alone on this am I?
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Nope, not alone on that. Its not mentioned commonly but anytime I kicked CT I'd get one. Strange this is, it was never accompanied by a dream...I'd finally fall asleep and wake up 10 minutes later having burst my spunk.

It is a thing.
 
Hahaha... Definitely not alone on nutting in your sleep while in cold turkey WD. It happens to me every time. I imagine it is from your hormones going ape shit while your body is trying to return to normal.
 
Phil.McKeer said:
Nope, not alone on that. Its not mentioned commonly but anytime I kicked CT I'd get one. Strange this is, it was never accompanied by a dream...I'd finally fall asleep and wake up 10 minutes later having burst my spunk.

It is a thing.
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Haha yeah I mean if it's gonna happen at least it be accompanied by a badass sex dream.

sm0kestack said:
Hahaha... Definitely not alone on nutting in your sleep while in cold turkey WD. It happens to me every time. I imagine it is from your hormones going ape shit while your body is trying to return to normal.
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I imagine it has something to do with that. I know heroin does lower test levels.
 
I'm a female and have never had much at all in the way of sex drive, but like you know sometimes I felt like doing something sexual, but since being on dope and now bupe for the past what 4ish years I have become entirely asexual. I have not felt sexual desire even for my boyfriend whom I love or had an orgasm in years. but you know then again I've never in my life had an orgasm from sex so idk. I don't really miss it honestly. it's whatever.
 
I'm glad this thread is back I love this topic fuk I can just so relate and it's something I'm going through again right now! I don't do heroin anymore I've been clean of it for almost 2 years and I'm on Zubsolv bupe maintenance now, my sex drive comes and goes and right now I'm currently in a lull period, I haven't had sex or jerked it in a month now and it kinda sux. It's normal though my drive will probably return very soon, when I first started bupe I couldn't cum at all and it caused a big problem in my relationship with my ex she thought it was her, but it waa the bupe, I could get hard just couldn't get the feeling 100% to cum. Now I guess my body has adjusted to the bupe and I can take a 5.7 Zubsolv and be fine to super stroke right after. I need a new girlfriend waa waaaa :)
 
This is the part where I can appreciate getting older and have a lack sex drive and not feel so horrible about it. Pushing 60 and my gf, soon to be bride is even older than me. Yes folks..I'm not the oldest druggie alive although she doesn't use..
There's always my never unfaithful handheld shower massage..
 
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