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Can't Get A Hard-On While High On Opiates

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bogey_j

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this is a big problem. I love opiates but I won't keep doing them if my junk doesn't work

any solutions?
 
Used to have the same problem.....Viagra is your friend :)

Although shooting your bolt becomes allmost impossible you can go for hours....
 
I'm a female and I can't have an orgasm on benzos or opiates, haven't had one in months and it's badly needed :(
 
Oh yeah I hated that. Honestly, that's a factor in me pretty much staying away from heroin for, well up until about 6 months ago, 5 years. Been doing a little bit of dabbling and not IVing. I like sex better than heroin.
 
welcome to the junkie lifestyle. sometimes you have to choose between your dick and your dope; you'd be surprised how many times that dope gets picked.
 
Never really taken opiates, but most stimulants do this to me. It's a fucking awful side effect. :/
 
I've ways found this effect on people who take opiates to be so strange. I'm asexual, cannot orgasm (I can ejaculate/have sex but feel nothing), and yet almost every single time I inject heroin I get a hardon. It isn't some like random chance or anything either, like clockwork about 1-2 minutes after I IV I always get an erection. I wonder why everyone one struggles with a it while my body does not.
 
shadowstryker said:
I've ways found this effect on people who take opiates to be so strange. I'm asexual, cannot orgasm (I can ejaculate/have sex but feel nothing), and yet almost every single time I inject heroin I get a hardon. It isn't some like random chance or anything either, like clockwork about 1-2 minutes after I IV I always get an erection. I wonder why everyone one struggles with a it while my body does not.
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Would you mind elaborating on that? I was always under the impression asexual meant you weren't attracted to either sex. Is that accurate?
 
SterlingM.Archer said:
Would you mind elaborating on that? I was always under the impression asexual meant you weren't attracted to either sex. Is that accurate?
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I was nodding out while writing that, so I apologize for spelling errors/random seemingly nonsensical word placement.

That is correct. I don't look at men and think "man that's a smoking hot body, I should go talk to him!", and I have never looked at a women and went " damn she's hot, I'd totally fuck her if I had the chance!". I just have no sexual desires towards anyone regardless of sex, and even if I do have sex not only is it awkward because I feel nothing towards the other person, but since I'm also anorgasmic I literally get nothing from the experience. I'm not sure if it's due to a chemical imbalance in my brain or something, I have no clue. That's just how I am unfortunately. Unfortunately, because, it has also been the cause of a great deal of depression and anxiety in the past
 
shadowstryker said:
I was nodding out while writing that, so I apologize for spelling errors/random seemingly nonsensical word placement.

That is correct. I don't look at men and think "man that's a smoking hot body, I should go talk to him!", and I have never looked at a women and went " damn she's hot, I'd totally fuck her if I had the chance!". I just have no sexual desires towards anyone regardless of sex, and even if I do have sex not only is it awkward because I feel nothing towards the other person, but since I'm also anorgasmic I literally get nothing from the experience. I'm not sure if it's due to a chemical imbalance in my brain or something, I have no clue. That's just how I am unfortunately. Unfortunately, because, it has also been the cause of a great deal of depression and anxiety in the past
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Haha yeah that explanation makes much more sense. Wow I'm sorry man they does seem like it could take a toll on someone. So is it safe to assume you have experimented with both sexes? I don't know if you are familiar with the show Dexter, but I guess he was asexual too among other things. Anorgasmic means you don't ejaculate or you can but it doesn't give you the good feeling?
That is so strange that heroin gave you erections. I guess it could also make sex for you less awkward being high and all.
 
SterlingM.Archer said:
Haha yeah that explanation makes much more sense. Wow I'm sorry man they does seem like it could take a toll on someone. So is it safe to assume you have experimented with both sexes? I don't know if you are familiar with the show Dexter, but I guess he was asexual too among other things. Anorgasmic means you don't ejaculate or you can but it doesn't give you the good feeling?
That is so strange that heroin gave you erections. I guess it could also make sex for you less awkward being high and all.
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I have not experimented with both sexes. Like I said I don't get anything out of it, so I have no desire or intent to experiment with same-sex either. I guess I could be compared to dexter, albeit less psychopathic. But yeah, it has taken a huge toll on me and has caused a lot of depression but there's nothing that can be done to change it. Anorgasmic has nothing to do with ejaculation. Ejaculation and orgasm are two entirely different things. And no, sex isn't any different high because I still don't feel anything towards the other person.
 
shadowstryker said:
I was nodding out while writing that, so I apologize for spelling errors/random seemingly nonsensical word placement.

That is correct. I don't look at men and think "man that's a smoking hot body, I should go talk to him!", and I have never looked at a women and went " damn she's hot, I'd totally fuck her if I had the chance!". I just have no sexual desires towards anyone regardless of sex, and even if I do have sex not only is it awkward because I feel nothing towards the other person, but since I'm also anorgasmic I literally get nothing from the experience. I'm not sure if it's due to a chemical imbalance in my brain or something, I have no clue. That's just how I am unfortunately. Unfortunately, because, it has also been the cause of a great deal of depression and anxiety in the past
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no reason to write UNFORTUNATELY; you are you, man. do your thing. all that matters.

then again, maybe that dope matters more than anything, lol.

had the EX GF sleep over for the past 5 nights; I think I got hard once because my dick is just permanently broken. I think it was just the Suboxone and the fact that its an EX GF who I BROKE UP W/ and kinda lost my attraction to her as time went on in the relationship.

w/ drugs, I've always had a problem w/ girl I would fuck more than once; if I got too used to them my dick would no longer work while on the drug. but if its a random hot broad then I would still get a hard on even if I was doped up; happened before, probably would happen again. I have been on Suboxone nowadays and its surly easier than dope was; esp. since I dropped from 16MG to 8MG - that was a HUGE DIFFERENCE MAKER! I even JERK OFF AGAIN! but SOMETIMES till have a HARD TIME (well, not that hard, get it? ha) getting hard when w/ the EX or someone I am NOT SO ATTRACTED TO! the dick is not what it once was at the age of 21 where I got a ROCK ON anytime I see a bitch w/ tits.
 
Hope I'm not being obvious, but have you contacted a physician concerning your asexuality? Since it is causing you to self-medicate, you might want to look into it. A major university attached to a med school might be a good place to start. If you have tried the doctor route, was it discouraging? Hate to say it, but many psychiatrists/doctors/psychologists don't know their asses from a hole in the ground. Sometimes, you have to visit several before you find anyone that can help you. Good luck to you.
 
Damn I have the opposite problem! Not really an opiate guy but when I used to get vicodins for my back pain I'd get a raging boner man.. vicodins and percs for that long lasting erection! But if you're having problems then either cut your dose in half or like some other people said.. Viagra. Whatever works man!
 
I can get hard when opiated but can't climax. So basically I just go on and on and on and on...which I guess is good for whoever my partner is, but I'd like to bust my nut eventually.

Now that I'm on bupe my libido has come back with a vengeance. I randomly popped a stiffy driving around yesterday doing deliveries, thinking of nothing in particular (I wasn't thinking of something that would cause me to get hard).

Don't even get me started on cocaine, though. That shit not only makes my dick impossible to get hard, but I think it actually shrinks a bit (like after being in a cold pool or swimming in the ocean). If I know I'll have a shot at getting laid and have coke, I'll let my potential fuck-friend do all the coke and I'll just drink (the yayo is a big aphrodisiac for girls if my sample size of tests are any indication).

I couldn't tell you how many times using coke has fucked up what should have been an excellent 2-hour bonk-fest because it has me dispensing soft-serve.
 
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Numnums said:
Hope I'm not being obvious, but have you contacted a physician concerning your asexuality? Since it is causing you to self-medicate, you might want to look into it. A major university attached to a med school might be a good place to start. If you have tried the doctor route, was it discouraging? Hate to say it, but many psychiatrists/doctors/psychologists don't know their asses from a hole in the ground. Sometimes, you have to visit several before you find anyone that can help you. Good luck to you.
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being obvious of oblivious? there is such thing as asexual, ya know!? have you not heard of it?! well, there is a name for a reason but counseling could never hurt anybody.
 
Someone for whom asexuality has been the norm since childhood probably wouldn't benefit from any kind of therapy. It's like suggesting therapy to change the sexuality of someone who is gay or lesbian. It ain't happening. That's how they were born, that is their natural state.

I could be wrong on this particular scenario, but I know FOR SURE that it wouldn't work if we were talking about using therapy to turn someone that's gay into being straight, which is a heinous act of intolerance, has been disavowed by the AMA, and only advocated by right wing/religious fucktards.
 
Phil.McKeer said:
Someone for whom asexuality has been the norm since childhood probably wouldn't benefit from any kind of therapy. It's like suggesting therapy to change the sexuality of someone who is gay or lesbian. It ain't happening. That's how they were born, that is their natural state.

I could be wrong on this particular scenario, but I know FOR SURE that it wouldn't work if we were talking about using therapy to turn someone that's gay into being straight, which is a heinous act of intolerance, has been disavowed by the AMA, and only advocated by right wing/religious fucktards.
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I was literally just about to mention that. It isn't something that can be fixed with therapy, it's how I was born and how I am. Just gotta live with it ya know? Who knows, maybe he's right and it caused me to self medicate, but honestly who cares. There's not a drug in the world that can change it, just like there's no straight pill for homosexuals.
 
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