unknownSKY
Bluelighter
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- Apr 19, 2014
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Watching too much porn can definitely do that. i dont see a problem with it taking 10 15 mins to finish tho...
No he hasn't hit me
He is very moody and bit manic depressive..jealous and suspicious
I don't mind the porn at all as long as he wants me too!
I know this relationship is hard going and I know I give more than I get
I was just trying everything to improve it before I make any big decisions about it
Thanks for your concern x
That's good he has not hit you but the threats about hurting you/verbal abuse need to stop.No he hasn't hit me
He is very moody and bit manic depressive..jealous and suspicious
I don't mind the porn at all as long as he wants me too!
I know this relationship is hard going and I know I give more than I get
I was just trying everything to improve it before I make any big decisions about it
Thanks for your concern x
Sigh......as I've said before when I try surprising him....randomly initiating....surprising him dressed up etc....he gets defensive like saying he can't just perform and what if his dick doesn't work properly or accuses me of being sex mad .....both these reactions are a turn off!! And we are not twenty something!!!
A few weeks into our relationship we were kissing once heavily in his kitchen. ....he was hard so I whispered in his ear "show me what you've got" he just went limp straight away and called me sex mad and walked off!!!
He is so sexually insecure he can't be pleased...he's always telling me not to put pressure on him sexually!
I've never had a problem in any relationship before but then I've never had a man before who was afraid of his own dick before!
I think he prefers porn cuz it's easy....nobody else to please but himself.....cuz he's terrified!
Well maybe I've been with some quick guys then!! ... 99% of woman only come from clitoral stimulation
I've decided I'm going to behave sexually like I would normally.....so be spontaneous when I want....be as sexual as I feel... whenever I feel like it....I'm not going to tailor my sex life to fit him anymore....he's gonna have to deal with himself