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Boyfriend doesn't come via vaginal sex....help!

I'm not a cheat whatsoever....I wouldn't want to be that kind of person.....I dont want to cheat on him.....I care about him .....thanks for the advice ?
 
Little bit out of the box but... buy a chastity cage and make him wear it. Only take it off when he's tied up so he can't touch his cock. Tell him to try it for a month and don't let him touch it for a month. Wait until he's begging you to take it off and tell him you will only do it when he's given you at least 1 orgasm orally. Then tell him you're not completely happy with it and that you'll take his cock out tomorrow. Seriously start getting mean. Also start to refer to his cock as your cock. If you catch him watching porn tell him he has 1 more day. When he cums make sure it is on your terms but don't let him control the orgasm. You could tie his hands behind his back and suck wank or ride, maybe let him watch porn then too. Remember He is not allowed to cum by himself. You'll have to tell him it's only for a week but make excuses to keep it going longer. A month is a good amount of time. Sounds mad and a little mean but you'll appreciate it. You just have to take control of his orgasms and make them fit into your timetable. He's probably wanking all the time and you don't know about it. So look up a chastity cage for a man and pick one you like. Advertise it to him as a sex toy to stop him wanking and to have some bdsm fun. What it actually is though is a way for you to control his orgasms and train him to cum how you want him too. Also keep him horny all the time, flirting with him even though he can't use his cock. 24hrs flirting 7days a week for a month.

TLDR; Buy a male chastity device and control his ability to use his cock for his own pleasure. Any tolerance to wanking will go away.
 
Red ghost said:
Little bit out of the box but... buy a chastity cage and make him wear it. Only take it off when he's tied up so he can't touch his cock. Tell him to try it for a month and don't let him touch it for a month. Wait until he's begging you to take it off and tell him you will only do it when he's given you at least 1 orgasm orally. Then tell him you're not completely happy with it and that you'll take his cock out tomorrow. Seriously start getting mean. Also start to refer to his cock as your cock. If you catch him watching porn tell him he has 1 more day. When he cums make sure it is on your terms but don't let him control the orgasm. You could tie his hands behind his back and suck wank or ride, maybe let him watch porn then too. Remember He is not allowed to cum by himself. You'll have to tell him it's only for a week but make excuses to keep it going longer. A month is a good amount of time. Sounds mad and a little mean but you'll appreciate it. You just have to take control of his orgasms and make them fit into your timetable. He's probably wanking all the time and you don't know about it. So look up a chastity cage for a man and pick one you like. Advertise it to him as a sex toy to stop him wanking and to have some bdsm fun. What it actually is though is a way for you to control his orgasms and train him to cum how you want him too. Also keep him horny all the time, flirting with him even though he can't use his cock. 24hrs flirting 7days a week for a month.

TLDR; Buy a male chastity device and control his ability to use his cock for his own pleasure. Any tolerance to wanking will go away.
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I doubt her boyfriend or husband would want to wear such a thing.
 
There is no way he would....I've asked him to cut down the porn...stop having sex with women on a screen instead of me.....he doesn't though.....doesn't even try!!
 
I want to stay with him....but I also want a normal sex life.....where my man desires me and sex makes him come....he never ever takes the initiative....he kind of wants me to behave like a porn star....I think he thinks that's what sex is....just same as porn....where it's the woman's job to do everything.....hell I want him to just pull my pants down n fuck me!!
 
Sarah Daisy said:
I want to stay with him....but I also want a normal sex life.....where my man desires me and sex makes him come....he never ever takes the initiative....he kind of wants me to behave like a porn star....I think he thinks that's what sex is....just same as porn....where it's the woman's job to do everything.....hell I want him to just pull my pants down n fuck me!!
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What you're asking/'begging' for is nothing too much out of what a normal relationship should be.

You're not a porn star... you're his partner... It takes two! Not just one ALWAYS having to cater to 'his' needs.

You're not a sex freak at all, it's him that needs 'help'... Though, I very much doubt he sees it that way ?
 
Hi Sarah,

I have spent a few years playing with myself at some stage in my life, and the story you are telling doesn't sound too foreign. It's also applicable to girls, who (after playing with themselves for some time) tend to only climax for clitoral stimulation. I had to "train someone back" to vaginal once. In my experience things can change, although slowly.

My apologies for not reading the entire thread and all other responses, however there's two points I thought I could contribute.

I really don't know much about your relationship, however if "you think he thinks", then you're in the wrong. As in I'd suggest just talking to him and knowing for sure instead of risking being wrong!

Point number two; I was once seeing a woman for a while who got so wet leading into and during sex that a lot of sensations were pretty much being lost for me. Although we never talked about it (I only saw her for like 6 months), I noticed when she got high it made it worst. I remember a few times it was so bad (or perhaps it was just me?) I lost my erection. That's when I figured I had to try something different and after a few session trying different thing, I realised that retracting for a few seconds "to dry off" helped, and also taking things _v_e_r_y_ slow, also helped me in appreciating the very subtle sensations. Closing my eyes also helped. I'm not suggesting this is or isn't your case, just merely contributing.

Hope this helps.

Sarah Daisy said:
where my man desires me
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I would not say that "he doesn't desire you".

Sarah Daisy said:
I think he thinks that's what sex is....just same as porn....where it's the woman's job to do everything.....
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I personally would confirm that assumption asap and deal with it, else it could be hugely damaging to the relationship. If he really thinks that way and doesn't understand your view, and you don't think that way, hell, you are two very sexually different (read sexually incompatible) individuals!

again, m2c
 
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