I've been in a relationship for almost 5 years with what I would consider the best man i've net for me except.........He thrives on BDSM. 90% of out relation ship is awesome. All the usually stuff that couples have in common and enjoying doing together, except for this one really big thing, SEX!!! In the beginning, I enjoyed it. It was new stuff I hadn't tried before. Being tied up and letting him have his way with me. Then it escalated to whips and chains and ball gags and all sorts of other shit that not only do I not like, enjoy for feel anywhere close to feeling comfortable with. As a matter a fact, it sends me reeling in fear. I was raised to always please your man, "If you don't take care of him, someone else will." I turned myself inside out trying to make myself tolerate this, for lack of a better word, "Abuse"! It has gotten to the point that i can't even enjoy bedroom sex because i'm always afraid of what it will turn into.
I am perscribed xanax and valium for two different reasons and I never take them anywhere close to each other. Back in my drug days, I like things that made me go fast, not slow down so Im not real comfortable with the downers. He obtained versed some time back for me to try for my problem. He talked me into trying it one day to see if it would help. I ended up taking 5 to get to a state of tolerance to do his bidding It helped alright, but the next day, I felt like shit the whole dy. It left me with a horrible hang over and I didn't remember most of what happened. I've tried taking one or two of my xanax and my valium and that's not enough to calm my head to stay calm. Each and every time we go through this I come out of it feeling raped. Last night I took a xanax and a valium together. It seemed to do the trick but I felt like I had been doing shot of tequila for the lost 5 hours, (minus the throwing up afterwards) Today, I'm sleepy and tired, and generally feel like crap.
Does anyone have any suggestions on what I can take? I might ad that i suffer from PTSD so this stuff triggers a lot of that.
Hope someone in here can help
I am perscribed xanax and valium for two different reasons and I never take them anywhere close to each other. Back in my drug days, I like things that made me go fast, not slow down so Im not real comfortable with the downers. He obtained versed some time back for me to try for my problem. He talked me into trying it one day to see if it would help. I ended up taking 5 to get to a state of tolerance to do his bidding It helped alright, but the next day, I felt like shit the whole dy. It left me with a horrible hang over and I didn't remember most of what happened. I've tried taking one or two of my xanax and my valium and that's not enough to calm my head to stay calm. Each and every time we go through this I come out of it feeling raped. Last night I took a xanax and a valium together. It seemed to do the trick but I felt like I had been doing shot of tequila for the lost 5 hours, (minus the throwing up afterwards) Today, I'm sleepy and tired, and generally feel like crap.
Does anyone have any suggestions on what I can take? I might ad that i suffer from PTSD so this stuff triggers a lot of that.
Hope someone in here can help