Hello I am new to this site, I'm going to be very honest here as the reason I am here is to quit taking oxycodone. I have been a user for about 4 years doing 10/325 about 7-9 a day, started taking 2 a day and gradually increased my dosage the longer I've taken and higher my tolerance has become, I have been trying to quit for a while but can't seem to get thru the withdrawals without giving in and taking something, I have come close to losing my family and my girlfriend multiple times and have just said I will stop but that only get me into lying and being more sneaky about when I take and being more cautious around her.. I have gotten to the point where I am spending hundreds of dollars a week on pills and piling up my debts, I am looking to save up so I can afford to get married and start a family. I have come across methadone and have been told it helps with withdrawals and takes away from craving oxy, I've heard it's like Suboxone and can help get someone off. Has anyone ever used methadone pills to get you off using Oxys and what is a good way or good plan to fully get off and not end up getting stuck on methadone pills. I want to be clean and drug free, I am doing this for my health as I'm scared I may destroy my own life and lose everything that matters most to me. Also side question, are there any side effects that a baby could be born with from a father using oxy before getting the mother pregnant even tho she doesn't do any types of drugs. What can a baby be born with or even without or any illnesses? I want to be drug free and do not want my past drug use to ruin an innocent life bc it can cause drug use related problems, I would not be able to live with myself if I were to have a child be born suffering because of my stupid drug use. Sorry for long post but please anyone that has any info or has encouring advice I'd be forever grateful. Thank you