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AMA Ask A Trans Sex Worker (Almost) Anything

O.T How is your day going ?

It's going well. Thankfully one soggy bread roll who decided i had to hear about how he thinks sex with ftms is straight and another useless bagel picking the most unoriginal question to ask about my genitals and somehow managing to fuck up which type of trans person I am despite it being clearly obvious from the previous posts has been more entertaining than upsetting.
 
Actually no, I don't work part time as a prostitute so I don't have all the free time in the world. You seem to expect everyone to fall in a very narrow spectrum of what is an 'OK' opinion to share. Anything outside that narrow spectrum is an assault, a heinous deliberate act to make you feel bad.

The comments I had read that made me feel a desire to share such an opinion was the conversation about men feeling gay or acknowledging it was gay.. Seemed to be an OK topic to talk about 🤷

honestly you are by far the rudest person I've interacted with for quite a while. I'm not gonna say anything else. go enjoy your safe space you so clearly need to be in.

I have an actual job and I'm finishing my graduate diploma of legal practice to be admitted as a lawyer. I do escorting in my free time when my schedule permits. Don't actually have that much free time at all.

You seem to have enough to respond to me and even when I pointed out you're still diverting attention away from the trans person who had it for once you commit to continuing.

I wasn't even rude to you in my last comment I just stated the reality.

You didn't think enough about your comment to think about it misgendering me, when it was an entirely pointless addition to the thread and yet STILL you have not contributed a single worthwhile question. You didn't even start with a question. You came in here to just state your personal opinion about something that affects you while misgendering every trans man in existence and you think I'm going to respond to that with what, kindness?

No, Jesus. You had the option like everyone else to not write out your personal opinion on the matter and choose to contribute to the thread instead. You made an executive decision to not do that.

Transphobes always get so upset when you call them out on their shit. A confident tranny is an uppity tranny.

I'm rude? You literally misgendered me and that's all you came in here to do. You fucking started it. I was rude to you in return. Hardly think you have a leg to stand on here buddy.

Then you just tried to paint me as someone who hates all cis people when I've been chill with everyone else who has been respectful and not rude.

Some self reflection is probably warranted here but I suppose it's much easier to call me rude and excuse yourself for your shit behaviour than to take any responsibility for your actions. That would require acknowledgement of doing something wrong and I think we are well and truly past that point.

Oh, a safe space joke. I'll chalk that up on the list of other reasons I reckon you're a transphobe.

There's no narrow set of rules for what people can ask me. I've answered every single question I have been asked thus far candidly and with pleasure, with the exception of dong dude. But that wasn't even because I needed a safe space, I've just been asked that question so many times it's bored me to death. No, you didn't even ask a question. You're trying to justify it by saying how others questioned the sexuality of men I have booked. Those questions are fine because I can make a statement upon what their sexualities were.

Again, you asked no question. You just offered up the statement that you believe fucking an ftm is not gay, which I will one more time in vein desperation explain misgendering me and every single ftm. The questions about the men's sexuality did not do that. Straight men can have had sex with me and considered themselves straight but I still think they are little gay boys in the closet.

You, however decided to also go with a nice graphic genital description of yourself being balls deep in pussy, which was incredibly crass and which no one really needed nor wanted to hear. Then you said you would find it hard to consider yourself gay while doing so.

Misgendering a second time. All in two sentences. Impressive. And still no contribution to the topic by way of asking a question.

All you did was come in, express an opinion in a way which misgendered me, which none of the previous commenters did which is why I took no issue with them, added nothing of value except for the (valueless) addition of a comment where now people can know that you, specifically wouldn't consider yourself gay while balls deep in pussy.

Right after they've just read comments about the guy who made the thread being raped in every conceivable way, forced to agree to sexual acts under threat of violence, and misgendered by men who considered it straight too.

So you achieved two of the things those men did. Can you blame me for being a bit annoyed at you? You could get the trifecta if you really wanted to and just complete the situation by following in their footsteps. It's what I've come to expect from straight men who misgender me unfortunately.

None of your justifications stand up to any criticism. I address them, you raise a new one. I address it and dismiss it, you raise a new one.

You're allowed to think something is interesting and keep it to yourself. It wasn't necessary to inform me that you consider me a woman because I don't have a penis and that sex with me is straight.

The fact that you can't understand that is literally blowing my mind.
 
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It's going well. Thankfully one soggy bread roll who decided i had to hear about how he thinks sex with ftms is straight and another useless bagel picking the most unoriginal question to ask about my genitals and somehow managing to fuck up which type of trans person I am despite it being clearly obvious from the previous posts has been more entertaining than upsetting.
And otherwise very intriguing ! Thanks. I made it through my day with some BL company and tomorrow I will make an effort to have a better day. Try wink wink ;)

No I will make an effort, I promise. Great convo !!!!!! You are a very great people person more than most. And definitely can articulate fabulously to explain. Great thread with relevance attached. (attached) wink wink. jk !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Really.

:)<3
 
Im

I m methamphetamine and I'm in YOUR body

Nah, I have my dexamphetamine. Meth and me are a boring combination. I just sit around and journal for hours obsessively. I actually don't have sex on meth, it doesn't provide any type of increase in arousal for me. I hear about people shooting meth and fucking for 12 hours and all I do is shoot meth and furiously scribble.

Boring junky.
 
And otherwise very intriguing ! Thanks. I made it through my day with some BL company and tomorrow I will make an effort to have a better day. Try wink wink ;)

No I will make an effort, I promise. Great convo !!!!!! You are a very great people person more than most. And definitely can articulate fabulously to explain. Great thread with relevance attached. (attached) wink wink. jk !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Really.

:)<3

Feel free to ask me any other questions you have (barring the obvious one I've mentioned, though I don't feel I need to remind you of that as you have a firm understanding of appropriate questions to ask and comments to make which is refreshing. For someone who has never met a trans person you are doing remarkably well with your choice of conversation. I can't think of anything I would tell you I would find offensive or insensitive. I wish more people were like you. But you at least made up for that other guy. So you have been a postive feeling in my life today.

I hope to get more questions from you. Thanks for trying to keep the thread on topic.
 
why did you turn to prostitution ?

if you can explain the first time how you felt and what you were thinking ?

have you had partners dure in this career and how did you deal with there jealousy and fear if it existed ?

do you have an exit plan as we all get older ?
 
on the note of only taking on gay or bi customers I would say that even if the customer did not know it if they chose your services there probably in that catogory.

personally I am really into females that is the whole feminine thing you know smell look the way they walk and talk ie straight.

now if I was looking else were I would probably be questioning my orientation :)
 
why did you turn to prostitution ?

if you can explain the first time how you felt and what you were thinking ?

have you had partners dure in this career and how did you deal with there jealousy and fear if it existed ?

do you have an exit plan as we all get older ?

I wrote about my response to the first comment in a very long post on the first page directed at Chemically Enhanced after they said they were considering starting to do sex work. If you want the full version of the story you can click back to that page and read it but the short version is I was homeless and begging for money for food as I hadn't eaten in 3 days or so cause I'd finally run out of money and I still wasn't approved for student payments yet and some guy offered to buy me food cause he didnt give homeless people money in case they spent it on drugs. He bought me a whole container of honey chicken. I needed to get my testosterone prescription filled within the week for my next shot and because of not being on concession it was $40 instead of $5 and I had zero chance of begging that money by then. So I just asked him if he could maybe come with me to the chemist after dinner and pay for a prescription for me if he was feeling generous. He said yes, but that i would need to do something for him too. He said he'd do it if I went home and had sex with him and I could also stay the night and he would drop me off back here the next morning. I really needed the testosterone as missing a dose isn't an option and I was currently sleeping under a bridge with a bag of textbooks for law school and it was getting pretty fucking cold at night so despite not being keen I said yes out of sheer desperation.

I felt sick, and during the sex I felt dysphoric because he made me take my binder off which everyone else I'd ever slept with understood did not get removed during sex and he paid far, far too much attention to my chest than I was comfortable with then told me I was 'crazy for wanting to cut my beautiful tits off'

Yeah man I get it you like titties. I like em too, on hot girls not on me. I daresay he also wouldn't be keen on having a decently size pair of boobs on his chest as a bloke.

Felt sick after. Really wanted to buy a bunch of meth and shoot it up. If I had access to heroin then I would have done it for a week straight to forget about it.

Never really had a long term partner. Too autistic and weird for most people, they realise I'm not just shy and awkward and cute I am actually severely socially inept and they put me in the too hard basket. Also am way too fucked up from severe childhood abuse which I would have to disclose to any long term partner due to how much my life is affected by it but it took me 5-10 years to trust my best friends enough to tell them the full story and I doubt any guy or girl would wait that long for me as a partner. I've accepted that I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life and I'm getting a cat soon. Maybe one day I'll get a dog I can train as a service dog too. That'll be nice.

No exit plan needed. Come 2024 I'll be an admitted lawyer, now that I'm re-enrolling in my graduate diploma of legal practice doing 1 intensive weekly long course per semester to stay under the disability pension study load allowable hours. Also in my current state with my disabilities being as severe as they are I doubt I could handle a 6 unit course instead of a 3 unit course or finishing the diploma off in 6 months. I would rather take it slow and at my rate. So yeah once I'm practicing as a barrister and solicitor I'll put this behind me in a story of my past. An old friend of mine did once jokingly describe me as a walking contradiction which I can see being accurate in relation to the fact that I'm a all. To be admitted lawyer in a state where escorting is illegal but ha it gives me a kick.
 
on the note of only taking on gay or bi customers I would say that even if the customer did not know it if they chose your services there probably in that catogory.

personally I am really into females that is the whole feminine thing you know smell look the way they walk and talk ie straight.

now if I was looking else were I would probably be questioning my orientation :)

I only advertise in the men for men section of the personals website and on my countries most used gay escorting agency.

Anyone who finds my profile was already looking for homoerotic or bisexual sexual activities.
 
I wrote about my response to the first comment in a very long post on the first page directed at Chemically Enhanced after they said they were considering starting to do sex work. If you want the full version of the story you can click back to that page and read it but the short version is I was homeless and begging for money for food as I hadn't eaten in 3 days or so cause I'd finally run out of money and I still wasn't approved for student payments yet and some guy offered to buy me food cause he didnt give homeless people money in case they spent it on drugs. He bought me a whole container of honey chicken. I needed to get my testosterone prescription filled within the week for my next shot and because of not being on concession it was $40 instead of $5 and I had zero chance of begging that money by then. So I just asked him if he could maybe come with me to the chemist after dinner and pay for a prescription for me if he was feeling generous. He said yes, but that i would need to do something for him too. He said he'd do it if I went home and had sex with him and I could also stay the night and he would drop me off back here the next morning. I really needed the testosterone as missing a dose isn't an option and I was currently sleeping under a bridge with a bag of textbooks for law school and it was getting pretty fucking cold at night so despite not being keen I said yes out of sheer desperation.

I felt sick, and during the sex I felt dysphoric because he made me take my binder off which everyone else I'd ever slept with understood did not get removed during sex and he paid far, far too much attention to my chest than I was comfortable with then told me I was 'crazy for wanting to cut my beautiful tits off'

Yeah man I get it you like titties. I like em too, on hot girls not on me. I daresay he also wouldn't be keen on having a decently size pair of boobs on his chest as a bloke.

Felt sick after. Really wanted to buy a bunch of meth and shoot it up. If I had access to heroin then I would have done it for a week straight to forget about it.

Never really had a long term partner. Too autistic and weird for most people, they realise I'm not just shy and awkward and cute I am actually severely socially inept and they put me in the too hard basket. Also am way too fucked up from severe childhood abuse which I would have to disclose to any long term partner due to how much my life is affected by it but it took me 5-10 years to trust my best friends enough to tell them the full story and I doubt any guy or girl would wait that long for me as a partner. I've accepted that I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life and I'm getting a cat soon. Maybe one day I'll get a dog I can train as a service dog too. That'll be nice.

No exit plan needed. Come 2024 I'll be an admitted lawyer, now that I'm re-enrolling in my graduate diploma of legal practice doing 1 intensive weekly long course per semester to stay under the disability pension study load allowable hours. Also in my current state with my disabilities being as severe as they are I doubt I could handle a 6 unit course instead of a 3 unit course or finishing the diploma off in 6 months. I would rather take it slow and at my rate. So yeah once I'm practicing as a barrister and solicitor I'll put this behind me in a story of my past. An old friend of mine did once jokingly describe me as a walking contradiction which I can see being accurate in relation to the fact that I'm a all. To be admitted lawyer in a state where escorting is illegal but ha it gives me a kick.
fucking excellent :)

I am so glad for the lawyer ye we need breaks those who have truly suffered have it so much harder from the start you should feel so proud.

I know even hearing it I am proud for you :)

the reason I ask these questions is to

A guide us into a discussion that did not go like the last one with hate and malace boy you have some lived wisdom to give even if we dont kick the same kick.

B there will be others who will take to drugs and find them selves at the same cross road and they need to hear this.




truly thank you.

an fuck ye im with ya school is the truly only way to break poverty and suffering in today's world.

I would have gone law too I have beaten the feds and state cops on multiple occasions (even had a QC I had to pull in as chemistry is not there thing)

but the list goes longer than my arm so I am only welcome in the IT sector I think making money for those who worship knowledge.
 
I personally think we really need a hippy gang here trying to hippyfy everyone into loving each other.

drugs were meant to be about peace and love not addiction and ownership.

I may just try my best in time to start that as I am seeing so much hate on this forum and it really is totally anti productive to any of our goals here.
 
fucking excellent :)

I am so glad for the lawyer ye we need breaks those who have truly suffered have it so much harder from the start you should feel so proud.

I know even hearing it I am proud for you :)

the reason I ask these questions is to

A guide us into a discussion that did not go like the last one with hate and malace boy you have some lived wisdom to give even if we dont kick the same kick.

B there will be others who will take to drugs and find them selves at the same cross road and they need to hear this.




truly thank you.

an fuck ye im with ya school is the truly only way to break poverty and suffering in today's world.

I would have gone law too I have beaten the feds and state cops on multiple occasions (even had a QC I had to pull in as chemistry is not there thing)

but the list goes longer than my arm so I am only welcome in the IT sector I think making money for those who worship knowledge.

I want to do disability advocacy because in my country if you qualify with certain disabilities like I do you get specialist government funding to pay for support workers and therapy. But the system is a mess and they always underfund people (myself included) so lots of people need to go to the administrative appeals tribunal to get their correct funding and to do that they need and advocate and there aren't enough to go around.

And yes, I have to organise my escorting AROUND when my support workers are here. They l know I do it, but they do not want to be in my house at the time. One of my workers also does sex work and we often discuss things. It's. Nice having his lived experience cause he is also autistic like me.

So eventually I want to be able to build my functional capacity back up and be able to ask for less and less funding from the NDIS until maybe one day I ask for %5 of what I need now fully funded just for someone to help cook with me once a week and a cleaner for my kitchen and bathroom while I manage the other areas myself.

Disability advocacy would definitely be the area of law most willing to hire an obviously autsitic lawyer and allow me to have workplace accomodations.

And I think I would be able to help a lot of people like me because I already have an in-depth understanding of how the NDIS works because of having to navigate it all myself for my plan funding. I'd love to be able to fight for other autistic people to get the funding they need having used the funding to get myself back to that level of functional capacity.
 
I personally think we really need a hippy gang here trying to hippyfy everyone into loving each other.

drugs were meant to be about peace and love not addiction and ownership.

I may just try my best in time to start that as I am seeing so much hate on this forum and it really is totally anti productive to any of our goals here.

Yeah I mean that dude knew what he was doing when he came in here. Obvious attempt to troll is obvious. Then again he did double back and misquote and not understand most of the points I was trying to make and somehow fail to grasp that if he hadn't gone ahead with posting what he should have had a second thought about and questioned himself over whether it was really all that relevant or necessary to post that none of this would have happened.

If he actually asked a question I would have answered it, I've answered all the others aside from the one about me having a dick.

But he didn't. He just told us all how if he was having sex with an ftm he thinks it would be straight.

Cool dude? Thanks for telling us all that hugely insightful and vital piece of information which we all needed to know?

And it did misgender me, twice. Of course I'm gonna be annoyed at you when you've just placed your feelings about fucking a vagina above my comfort and gender identity.

If you think fucking a trans man is straight, why would you feel the need to type that out for a trans man to read. How can you not see how that would be offensive? Then why do you think an example of you having sex with a proverbial trans man is needed when common sense dictates trans men wouldn't want to sleep with any person who considers them straight. Why even describe it happening in any detail?

Please tell me you understood the points I was making to him.

Maybe if he just got stoned and spent some time high with some trans people he would realise that it doesn't matter what our genitals are it's our gender identity which defines if something is gay or straight.
 
it was not meant for anything other than to remove there suffering which they probably didnt even know about.

fear is often a reaction that leads to hate and miss understanding.

mate I used to score some of the best drugs from the trans community (of course it was a trade hehe)

and often I was carried back to there place to sleep it off while they did there business (which never effected me)

people are people simple.

some of us nice some of us not, gender or sexuality have nothing to do with it except ......


if you have been pushed and persecuted your more likely to have mental probs and should be given more acceptance.

those who do not see this are so far in there own battles that they are not aware of the world around them and there for should be seen as people who are suffering as well.

I really think its a time thing and as the generations pass this shit will just be yesterdays news.

unfortunately we are as master pratchet would say living in interesting times.

my major fear is as we legalise everything big pharma see opportunities to take more control over the planet.

I am drug.

you are drug.

we are brothers and this is all I see.

some of us are shit.

some of us are gold.

just like everyone else.

but one thing will always remain the same.


WE ARE ALL FAMILY.

even if they dont know it.
 
it was not meant for anything other than to remove there suffering which they probably didnt even know about.

fear is often a reaction that leads to hate and miss understanding.

mate I used to score some of the best drugs from the trans community (of course it was a trade hehe)

and often I was carried back to there place to sleep it off while they did there business (which never effected me)

people are people simple.

some of us nice some of us not, gender or sexuality have nothing to do with it except ......


if you have been pushed and persecuted your more likely to have mental probs and should be given more acceptance.

those who do not see this are so far in there own battles that they are not aware of the world around them and there for should be seen as people who are suffering as well.

I really think its a time thing and as the generations pass this shit will just be yesterdays news.

unfortunately we are as master pratchet would say living in interesting times.

my major fear is as we legalise everything big pharma see opportunities to take more control over the planet.

I am drug.

you are drug.

we are brothers and this is all I see.

some of us are shit.

some of us are gold.

just like everyone else.

but one thing will always remain the same.


WE ARE ALL FAMILY.

even if they dont know it.

When I relapsed in December I went straight to Grindr and the gay community to score my meth and his was a far cry better than any of the rest I've found from other dealers except this woman who ANOTHER gay guy linked me up with.

Now, I am not dependent on escorting income, but sex work and escorting is probably the most common profession for trans people, especially trans woman.

It's hilarious, because for every single transphobe who says no cisgender human being would ever be willing to fuck a trans person with a mutilated freak body, those of us who engage in the world's oldest profession are often able to pay for our entire surgical transition in less than 5 years by engaging in sexual activities with cisgender people who identify as the correct sexuality for our gender identity and they line up for us to charge a premium rate by the dozens.

Unfuckable indeed. I must laugh at the 40 year old man in another thread who called me unfuckable and said no gay men would have sex with me when I have several gay regulars who literally will pay me $500-$1500 for the privilege of having sex with me when it fits into my schedule.

Yes, I am so unappealing to cisgender gay men that I'm not being paid $500 by the hour for sex. I wonder if any of the people who have called me unfuckable could themselves charge $500 for sex. I think not.

Everyone who knows anything about escorting and sex work knows that agencies dance with sheer joy when they sign up a trans escort because they know their bookings are going to fly through the roof. We are so in demand. I put an ad up on Locanto and within a single week I had 100 gay or bisexual men text or call me. Sure some of them are timewasters who can't afford my rates but I set high rates to weasle out the bastards who will treat me like crap, like this guy who texted me a few days ago saying 'hi babe can I come fuck you raw doggy-style in both holes then cum on your face $300 60 fit male'

There is no way in hell I am letting a man old enough to be my father fuck me without a condom and cum on my face for $300. It's $500 for sex, $700 for anal. Butt stuff is always extra. Clients don't get to name the price. I name it and either they can afford it and they get the D or they can't and it remains a fantasy to them because I'm the only ftm escort who has medically transitioned in my entire city and state so if the want it, they gotta pay it.

Trans women charge even HIGHER than I do and they're considered more unfuckable. Lol.

I mean the only slightly depressing part of all of this is that it is a fetish for basically all of them and they'll tell me as much by going 'i have fucked a few trans before and it's a massive turn on for me' and like cool yep you'll pay the rate I name but I don't heaps love being a turn on because of being trans. I'd much prefer being a turn on because I'm decently attractive, which is true, but they seem to fixate on the trans aspect.

And like all of the men who agree to my rates will happily pay between $500-$1500 to fuck me however many times they want in whatever way they ask within reason, but even if there wasn't a drastic age gap between me and most of them, none of them would seriously consider dating me.

I'm good for sex, but not acceptable as a long term partner because again I'm a just a kink or a fetish and they want that rush. It's not boyfriend material.

That is one aspect of it that bums me out.
 
you are not trans to me.

you are a soul and I shall measure it if I meet it :)

I am a hard mistress though having been cook for so long.

but if your soul sings sweet I will find you attractive.

that does not mean sex it means love which is far more valuable.

yes men are pigs who will say the most bullshit lies and then do the opposite.

again its come from years of having to live the roles they had to.

many do not look at what we were 400 years ago and what we had to do to get here.

no way are we going to be sorted yet.

but as I said your drug im drug were brothers mate and should you need my help as anyone here it will be there.
 
Feel free to ask me any other questions you have (barring the obvious one I've mentioned, though I don't feel I need to remind you of that as you have a firm understanding of appropriate questions to ask and comments to make which is refreshing. For someone who has never met a trans person you are doing remarkably well with your choice of conversation. I can't think of anything I would tell you I would find offensive or insensitive. I wish more people were like you. But you at least made up for that other guy. So you have been a postive feeling in my life today.

I hope to get more questions from you. Thanks for trying to keep the thread on topic.
I do remember your deep sincere true to life posts from way back. Astounding writings are quite the gift as I read every word as possible and learned of intense dignities and struggles once more. But anyway thank you for the literature.
So I remember reading your intense writing however I lost track of names, so many times I couldn't match the name to the posts until this thread was presented.
So how did you choose your BL title @Eligiu. (Mine broke out from some kind of hydrocodone panic and situ.) om me oh my oh.
But yes I like to get to know everyone and try to co exist. <3:weedleaf:


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I do remember your deep sincere true to life posts from way back. Astounding writings are quite the gift as I read every word as possible and learned of intense dignities and struggles once more. But anyway thank you for the literature.
So I remember reading your intense writing however I lost track of names, so many times I couldn't match the name to the posts until this thread was presented.
So how did you choose your BL title @Eligiu. (Mine broke out from some kind of hydrocodone panic and situ.) om me oh my oh.
But yes I like to get to know everyone and try to co exist. <3:weedleaf:


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Thanks. A few people actually tend to make fun of my really long posts and how much detail I put in them (which is a neurodivergent trait of mine) so it's nice to have someone who enjoys them for once.

I picked it after my first name which is Eli one of my grandparents last names which was Giuseppe. Just half and half for the names.
 
Well, I just had yet another 'straight' man enquire about booking me tonight. He was very keen, said he was curious. When I asked what he wanted to do during the booking he said he wanted the 'girlfriend experience' and I'm like 'what, did you just say?' told him with me it's actually the boyfriend experience and he goes 'haha you're funny' and I'm like 'no, that's a fact'

Then a bit later he tells me how he 'cant suck straight dick but he LOVES trans women and REALLY loves eating pussy so I'm *somewhere in the middle*' and I'm like 'not really, I'm a man. I'm not in between men and women.'

Eventually I asked him whether he was gay, bi, or straight (like I do all my customers) and he tells me he's 'straight but likes doing things which push his boundaries' so I informed him that unfortunately I wouldn't be able to book him in for a session because of that reason as I never meet up with straight men (anymore). He was obviously disappointed and sent me the sort of wiggly eye emoji wtf one and I'm like 'okay man consider this from my perspective. You're assigned female at birth and you transition to being male. You've done so for almost a decade and had surgery and been on hormones for nearly that long. Then 'straight' men ask to hook up with you. Either they aren't straight (and they don't want to admit it so they misgender you to retain their comfort) or they are straight and they don't respect my identity as a man. Either way, it's not much fun for me knowing that the person I'm having sex with doesn't view me for who I am. You won't find any trans man willing to hook up with a straight guy unfortunately for you in this situation with how you currently identify.'

He said he understood, but mmm I guess we'll see if he messages me again. He was also calling me things like 'babe, baby, and beautiful' which I'm not entirely comfortable with as they're fairly gendered pet names.

It never ends. This is why I always ask them their sexuality.
 
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