feralkitten
Bluelighter
- Joined
- Apr 5, 2013
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- 63
Yeah there are plenty of anti social old timers with good sobriety, I'm sure a lot of them came from simar beginnings with their addictions. There's no harm in hearing them out.
One thing about active addiction is we sometimes fail to think of our future selves. Because something doesn't seem to matter at the moment we stick with what we know, which is using. But down the line, we might find ourselves at a crossroads where there are no takebacks, and if you get to a point where your liver is failing and there's nothing you can do about it and then at that moment you realize you do want to live and wish you'd quit when you had the chance, that's really not a position you want to find yourself in. So consider that how you feel now might not be how your future self is gonna feel about things.
And you reached out here, and you're concerned about hurting your loved ones, so even if you can't totally feel it right now, you're caring more than you may think.
One thing about active addiction is we sometimes fail to think of our future selves. Because something doesn't seem to matter at the moment we stick with what we know, which is using. But down the line, we might find ourselves at a crossroads where there are no takebacks, and if you get to a point where your liver is failing and there's nothing you can do about it and then at that moment you realize you do want to live and wish you'd quit when you had the chance, that's really not a position you want to find yourself in. So consider that how you feel now might not be how your future self is gonna feel about things.
And you reached out here, and you're concerned about hurting your loved ones, so even if you can't totally feel it right now, you're caring more than you may think.