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Guys: The longest you've gone without orgasm?

GUYS: What is the longest you have gone without an orgasm?

  • 1 day or less

    Votes: 3 2.5%

  • 1 to 3 days

    Votes: 7 5.9%

  • a little less than a week

    Votes: 40 33.6%

  • about a month

    Votes: 44 37.0%

  • a few months

    Votes: 19 16.0%

  • a year or more

    Votes: 6 5.0%
  • Total voters
    119
whenI was younger I wacked off quite a bit, but now I have ED problems, due to medications I believe. I'm sure I've gone a month, prolly more...I have to admit I've been thinkng about some nice pussy alot lately,I think I may have to take the plunge. l
 
This thread is interesting.

I think I've almost always been a fairly regular "wanker," I think I did it almost daily since I turned 13 or so (pretty sure I discovered it a bit late) with only a couple of breaks for several days.

I think my longest record was about 8 days set recently and only with the help of PPT, which completely kills my interest in masturbation. I know I notice a difference when I take several days off and then masturbate, it's like I can feel all the "build up" of semen beginning to move through the vas deferens or something. It's a strange sensation, maybe even a tad painful but it's also sort of a pleasant ache. Maybe that's where the term "blue balls" comes from.
 
I think my longest was probably a couple weeks.

I also notice that I have more energy when I don't jerk off so much. But when I'm with someone, it's different. I get lethargic unless I have sex at least a few times a week, but if I have sex a few times a day I also kind of run out of energy after a little while ... I think the sweet spot is about 3 orgasms every 2 days for me (if I'm having sex with someone regularly) or about 1 every 2 days (if I'm not).
 
RedLeader said:
Haha, it is a funny story. I actually discovered masturbation on my own, not knowing at all what the heck was going on (parents never had the talk with me), but I discovered it through a technique that allows for me not to ejaculate. Haha for about 4 months, I thought I discovered some secret of the universe that nobody else knew about. I referred to it as "that feeling" to myself. But ya, it actually makes the orgasm itself stronger, but I don't necessarily feel "satisfied" afterwords, as the junk's still all in there, so to speak. And sometimes it can make urinating difficult. And yes, I can have multiple orgasms that way, but nothing crazy - just like 3 in 10 minutes maybe....then I am psychologically turned off for a few hours at least.
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Wow, I can do the exact same thing..and pretty much have the same experience with it. Thats weird haha.
 
my first experience with masturbation (10? years old) was before i could even get hard. when laying on my belly, i grind my penis into my pubic bone with my hands. the stimulation is on my foreskin, frenulum and prostrate gland. when i orgasm, very little semen is produced and the majority of it is retrograde ejaculated into my bladder (somewhat painful in a pleasurable kind of way), and since i don't have to be hard, i can start again right away. i don't use this technique any more because it makes peeing difficult, and it's not possible (painful!) when erect.

probably the longest i've gone is a week, usually i fuck or wank before sleep for relaxation.
 
It's been three days so far and I keep thinking about sex .... CONSTANTLY! ... but I resist.

I'm very talkative and confident that's for sure~! I like this new feeling ... usually i'm content at home on the internet but now I can't sit still! I want and do go out and do things .... and added zest for life if you will.

Will keep up with the struggle ;) sometimes it gets pretty damn hard to resist though.

Regards

Master Of His Domain aka 8ft.
 
probably a month for me.

when i first started doing ecstasy, was when i kinda forgot about masturbation... LOL


but 3 weeks if u dont count effects by drugs.
i was visitin korea for 6 weeks and during the end of my 3rd week i js couldnt hold it in no more.
i unloaded that shit in my uncles bathroom with no porno or girls. damn but it still felt bomb
 
i actually agree with the op.......i also seem to have more of a bounce in my step if i havn't had a sexual release. i also love myself more (i mean in an emotional way, not physical lol) i have a lot more self confidence and feel like i dont need a man in my life. the second i break the cycle i lose my lust for life and grab a need for sex. the longest i have gone is about 6months
 
Not even a week since i first started.

Ive got an insane sex drive, i start thinking irrationally and the idea of fucking even extremely ugly girls seems like a good idea. I end up doing stupid things if i dont orgasm regularly. As soon as i come i think 'omfg i cant believe i was gonna go around to X's house and fuck her.. what was i thinking'.
 
I think max 2 weeks. But after 3-4days when i go shopping or somewhere outside...my eyes just lock on every {ASS} ; and all i can think about is ......:D:D
 
moonyham said:
Not even a week since i first started.

Ive got an insane sex drive, i start thinking irrationally and the idea of fucking even extremely ugly girls seems like a good idea. I end up doing stupid things if i dont orgasm regularly. As soon as i come i think 'omfg i cant believe i was gonna go around to X's house and fuck her.. what was i thinking'.
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+1hahaha:D
 
Maybe 3 or 4 days, I went to Universal with my friends and we spent the weekend there.
 
I might have gone without for as long as a week.

I think I was laid up in the hospital.

:D
 
3 monthes give or take, then had nocturnal emission around 3 am and hated waking up in a military style dorm with what seemed like a gallon of jizz all over my boxers and pants having to change discreetly without waking people up.
 
Drug induced: it was 8-9 days the longest time that I can remember...

Of my own will: Maybe three days if I was trying to build up to a certain occasion... I can say pretty confidently that it wasn't ever longer than that.

Edit- Incarcerated/ boot camp: maybe a week before I broke down
 
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Maybe 3 weeks since I discovered the orgasm? Perhaps more.
In the past two years though, I think i've only gone 2 weeks tops, or maybe just 1. All due to circumstantial stuff, like vacations with family, etc. I've never TRIED to not have an orgasm--that's just stupid?
 
ok - im a girl but i have to comment.
when i read the first post i was thinking, um, doesnt everyone here or there have a dry spell and it would be a contest of who went the longest. then after just a few replies "a day, a WEEK (!!), 5 days" all around the same time length except a few, i am just so happy to be a girl. heres y

my boyfriend and i were just talking about this, we have sex a lot, always have, and its great for both of us. he was saying how he just recently has stopped feeling obsessed with it, and that bothers him. he feels like he's losing that young boy drive and just finds himself "daydreaming" about it less. it turned into a debate about how girls pursue sex vs guys, i always say - i dont get why guys put themselves through the exhausting work of meeting new girl, convincing girl to do it, dealing w the aftermath, repeat in a few days. why not find a girl you really like, sexually in line w you, and either b in a relationship with her or find a cool girl fuck buddy, we are out there and want nothing more than your sex....youre more likely to get it when you want it with a gf or sex buddy than to try and beat the odds out on the town, no? aand isnt the best thing when a person knows EXACTLY what you like/need, which only comes with time? sure theres something to be said for variety/novelty, but seriously. just saying, but judging by your responses, clearly you all cant help it.

to my point, i am a girl who loves sex and is positive and healthy mindset about it, but there are times where i will go months without even considering it, other than maybe flashbacks/nice memories of past sex. still, NO need to ACT ON the thoughts, EVERY time. i can keep it in the rational part of my mind, and would think nothin of going 6 months without an orgasm if it just so happened to work out that way. get what i mean? theres no rhyme or reason, but if its not available, i do without and it doesnt affect my life. however, when i am in a phase of obsessively wanting it, i find myself acting in a way that frightens myself sometimes, not talking anything unsafe or sad here, but for ex i will put up with my boyfriends shit if i know i can get sex by the end of the night, whereas if i dont want any, ill prob just go home if hes being an all around ass that night. then afterwards, if the need is satisfied ill say to myself i cant believe you let him do that for it. but yea then the mood just goes as quick as it came, and i go through this cycle all the time with no evident pattern.

basically, im saying that when i do feel crazed for it, i dont like how it feels, and i cant imagine how you guys get anything done in life when it is such a huge distraction! and, no break from it apparently. (a week isnt significant)
 
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