Hello everyone,
I hope someone can help me with the following sexual problem and give some advice, even if it is very specific.
I'll start with the past in my 20s: I had early contact with sexual enhancers (PDE-5 inhibitors, Viagra/Sildenafil). I liked the use very much. I was immediately aroused with a woman and accordingly had an erection before there was physical touch. A naked woman standing in front of me was enough, besides the knowledge that sex was about to happen. Now I know the fast arousal didn't come from Viagra but I enjoyed the easy and long lasting erection. It also calmed me from the fear of failure, but I always was able to have Sex without Viagra in comfortable and relaxed situations.
In addition, after the first orgasm I was again receptive to sexual stimuli after about 30 minutes. I will add that it actually worked even if the woman did not please me very much.
Nowadays in my 30s - even with Viagra - the woman must be exactly my type, otherwise it will be very difficult for me to get and keep an erection and often this is possible only after hand or blowjob. I just don't get aroused fast enough anymore, so with that the Viagra doesn't help me. I also often feel a tension - kind of anxiety - that I never had then.
Hormonally everything is fine. I don't watch porn anymore for several months and don't need it. Attempts with cabergoline have not really brought anything.
Is there a way to be as quickly aroused as I was back then with my 20s? I am at least considering taking a Benzo like Klonopin against the possible cause of my tension.
So my problem is about increasing/sensitizing sexual arousal. My libido is fine.
Thank you very much.
I hope someone can help me with the following sexual problem and give some advice, even if it is very specific.
I'll start with the past in my 20s: I had early contact with sexual enhancers (PDE-5 inhibitors, Viagra/Sildenafil). I liked the use very much. I was immediately aroused with a woman and accordingly had an erection before there was physical touch. A naked woman standing in front of me was enough, besides the knowledge that sex was about to happen. Now I know the fast arousal didn't come from Viagra but I enjoyed the easy and long lasting erection. It also calmed me from the fear of failure, but I always was able to have Sex without Viagra in comfortable and relaxed situations.
In addition, after the first orgasm I was again receptive to sexual stimuli after about 30 minutes. I will add that it actually worked even if the woman did not please me very much.
Nowadays in my 30s - even with Viagra - the woman must be exactly my type, otherwise it will be very difficult for me to get and keep an erection and often this is possible only after hand or blowjob. I just don't get aroused fast enough anymore, so with that the Viagra doesn't help me. I also often feel a tension - kind of anxiety - that I never had then.
Hormonally everything is fine. I don't watch porn anymore for several months and don't need it. Attempts with cabergoline have not really brought anything.
Is there a way to be as quickly aroused as I was back then with my 20s? I am at least considering taking a Benzo like Klonopin against the possible cause of my tension.
So my problem is about increasing/sensitizing sexual arousal. My libido is fine.
Thank you very much.