Looks do play a part but not that much. You could get a woman that's a 10 and have a personality of a jackass and no one wants to be around it. They bring you and everyone down
I met a lady who was born with a genetic problem with her hip, so growing up she assumed no man would want her, and at some point when she was young she accepted that because it made sense. But her husband did come along and saw her and he did want her, so they got married and have kids and grandkids. You just never know.
My Dad told me a story about one of his cousins, that she got pregnant, and the doctors told her her heart was too weak to have the baby, but she chose to have the baby, and did not survive.
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My first Wife and I were married 3 months, we conceived 3 times, the first 2 spontaneously aborted, the 3rd was okay, except my Wife's marriage to her son's father was shattered, and her son had a very rare genetic condition so he had to drag himself around on his legs, he did not grow, could not hear, etc., etc. Our pregnancy was way too traumatic for everyone so we did terminate that pregnancy and we divorced. I then remarried to my Wife, but I know that my first Wife's son is thriving, walking, talking, 20/20 vision, and she and her ex-husband are trying to live together as a family. And we have talked out our sexual issues.
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