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I am worried about you. You sound frustrated I hate to see you like that.
 
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I am tired of reassuring, making it okay, trying to convince you of the truth. Don't you know by now????
 
I can't sleep and sometimes I feel like blaming you for that. Why do always want to discuss when things are going well. I am gonna be away for a while and I am actually looking forward to stay far away.
 
I've always had a crush on you, ever since we were both in the program together, was just way to shy to talk with women, saw a lot of other guys talk with you no problem. I've always admired the way you work your program, and how you managed to get a job, section 8 housing, and got custody of your son. I really stopped talking with you after a while because you moved on, and really stopped thinking about you. Until the other day when we ran into one another, you needed a pair of glasses to watch the eclipse, I had a pair, and didn't refuse. I tore my pair in half so we could both watch it together. I enjoyed spending the time we had together, enjoyed the walk down to the water front, and really liked everything we talked about. Later after the eclipse I walked you to your bus stop, gave you a hug and that was the last time I really saw you.
I don't want to lose contact with you, I really felt like something was there, not sure if you felt it or not. I don't want to be sounding creepy that I think of you a lot now, just havnt really had the nerve to call you and discuss a date because I'm not sure what or how you would react(negative).
Just wanted to tell you that I wish you felt the same way about me, maybe we will meet up real soon.
 
Its seriously creepy how you douchebags keep stalking me, and how obsessed you are with me. Yes, I'm talking to you, creepy fuck thats reading this post after stalking through my post history for anything that could be used to harass me further. How many more years will you remain obsessed with me, and how much longer will the harassment continue? I know that I'm awesome and you're extremely jealous of me but Jesus, get over it already. The months and months on end that you dedicate to harassing me would be better spent doing literally anything else besides obsessing over me.
 
I am too tired and tried to stay busy as much as I could today, so leave alone I don't want to talk about your presumptions. I want to sleep..
 
It's okay, just an observation. Make sure you use the search engine in case you want to visit other threads.
Take care,
Erik
 
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How the hell did you turn into the princess of entitlement?

This is the very last time we share accommodation on our obligatory annual visits abroad (emergencies not withstanding)
I've Cinderella'd for you for the last time this year -not that you're older, ugly or even a step-sister, which kind of makes it even worse
 
I hate that I love you and miss you and that you consume so much of my thoughts. You aren't the person I thought you were and I'm disappointed at how you handled things and that you couldn't even be there for me as a friend when I got out of rehab. I didn't need you to "take care of me," I just hoped you would care.
One day you'll realize the mistake you made, and if you ever reach out I won't even reply. You can have your memories of us and that's it. Have fun living with your controlling bitch of a mother and good riddance.
 
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^ Sorry to have jumped in like that. This is in fact a problem that I have sometimes about my marriage in general. When I see that we are not doing well, and notice I'm getting hurt I start to be quiet and often distant myself a little. Except that, just when I'm about to change everything, say give it a break for instance - she starts to apologize, she even surprises me with important issues I may have not realized. It's not that I don't want do forgive her, I do. I actually did too.

But, for a minute I feel like I was wrong about my emotions and things weren't really as bad as I had thought they were. Thank God I realize I wasn't crazy when it happens again. I guess, it's about knowing your partner better and how our most beloved ones can be manipulative at times. I hate games, I like honesty and transparency.
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I can so relate to that!!!
 
Thanks!

You keep complaining about me and my work. Sorry but maybe, just maybe if you had been a little more ambitious, or even supportive, I could have had more quality time with them. I am doing my best, but you can't see the good things- just the flaws.
 
After finally talking about it, it's become clear that you don't know what you want. You said you only wanted something casual and fun, with no commitment, but then also say it was a problem that you don't think we have enough in common (the sex was obviously good enough to get you to want more it seems, but for casual fwb like you say was all you wanted, that's the most important compatibility and indeed the only one that really matters). And that's just one of many contradictory statements. You need to learn how to be honest with yourself, figure out what you actually want, and then come back and talk to me. I know where i need to do my self improvement, but it truly seems like you don't know yourself very well and don't want to. It was interesting to find out i was right about so much, but if you won't be honest with yourself then it doesn't really matter.
 
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I stay busy the best way I can, but it is lonely without you. Every weekend is a reminder I can't see you. We can't watch TV, take walks holding hands, make love and cuddle. I might not be able to see you again in several months. Trying to hold on.
 
you texted me earlier and i don't care because it turns out there are PLENTY of other fish in the sea. your loss, dipshit!
*She is dancing away from you now
She was just a wish
She was just a wish
And her memory is all that is left for you now*
 
^ fuck that. Fish are everywhere for everyone. Being happy in a relationship shouldn't be a fucking competition. Sounds like sour grapes. Again, fuck that shit. ( very unDude) ;)

Damnit, I love you. You twat. I hope you never know; its nice just the way it is - I think we would kill each other otherwise lol but am glad to call you friend; life is far too short. :)
 
You are too complicated, I'm mad because I can't get angry with you. So frustrating.
 
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