Funnily enough, I posted this in another thread earlier:
Has anyone here ever been in a relationship with someone who doesn't take anything, or even have an understanding of drugs at all. I've always considered myself to be a 'psychonaut', or even a 'sailor of the mind'. She thinks that all drugs are 'bad'.
I've never been in this situation before, and frankly never thought I would have. All of my previous partners have indulged with me.
Yeah, I've fallen in love with her, she's ten years younger too, but drugs or drug culture have no interest to her. She also knows about everything I've taken, but it seems like that she no longer wants me to be part of that kind of scene at all. We did chat a month or so ago, I have said to her that LSD and magic mushrooms are too special to me and I will always indulge in those as I see them as a tool rather than a drug, she seemed cool with that.
Although, there I am on Friday out my tits at work on opiates, I really don't want to be in a relationship where I have to hide or lie about my drug abuse. I've seen this before with mates and It just seems ridiculous, the woman seems controlling and the guys are deceitful liars - what good is that?
I think she will be good for me though, it's time for me to grow up a bit anyway (even though she is the one ten years younger she has her shit together). However, as she has no drug experience at all it's difficult to even have a sensible conversation about them to her, the disadvantages and the benefits. She's never even smoked a cigarette.