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Share Something Positive from Your Day vs. It's All Around You

I woke up and finally felt okay. I'm clean for a little time and I've accepted my relationship with the woman whom I thought I loved, is over. And it is totally okay. It's been a month of hell to get to this point.

So yes, today was a good day!
 
^^^That's great!! I can relate. I am newly clean and me and my girl broke up also. If I'm being honest, it is a good thing. Her and I were co-dependent and as long as I had her as a crutch I don't think I'd be clean as I type this. Anyway, keep your head up and let's both stay clean!
 
I also believe that relationships like that tend to be difficult, and in some cases it functions as a trigger.

I'm more stable now. A lot better after starting to really enjoy doing exercises.
I feel great when I have a full working week and still manage to exercise/swim almost everyday.
 
I got a girl's number AND
SHE HAS DREADLOCKS

Just yesterday I was all sad and lonely. Check my OKC this morning and the girl I sent a 'shot in the dark message' gives me her number. It's literally a year since I got laid (exactly one year today) and it's been a rough year. Thank you to everyone for your support.

Keep your heads of Darksiders. <3 <3 <3

From being all "I've been alone alllllll yearrrrrrr" wa wa wa to "fuck! this girl wants to hook up with me..." in a matter of days.
 
Cheers customs for all over the
1 or 2 yrs ;) I knew something goin on with the sticky tape back up .still waiting on the 2xy
 
I always seem to bond the best with the most fragile and sensitive animals, better than any other people I meet, but I don't meet a lot of people. Today a kitten proved me right again. Made me happy. It's like the wounded can smell each other.
 
I have a new flat move in next Monday but have to leave Charlie my cat again for the second time in just over month
 
fabriclondon said:
^^^That's great!! I can relate. I am newly clean and me and my girl broke up also. If I'm being honest, it is a good thing. Her and I were co-dependent and as long as I had her as a crutch I don't think I'd be clean as I type this. Anyway, keep your head up and let's both stay clean!
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Thanks a ton. I hope you do well yourself. Seems our mind, at least for me, is what holds us back. Best of luck.
 
FnX said:
I always seem to bond the best with the most fragile and sensitive animals, better than any other people I meet, but I don't meet a lot of people. Today a kitten proved me right again. Made me happy. It's like the wounded can smell each other.
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Animals have no judgments but they do perceive other things about us that we humans fail to discern. I always feel honored by the trust and love of an animal.:)

Last night I chased a view of the lunar eclipse all over the county. I was coming home from the airport and figured I would stop at the summit and wait for moonrise--turns out quite a few people had the same idea and we ended up getting booted off the property by the cops. Then I headed down to the beach but it was really foggy. Finally I came home and made a fire in my own back yard and there it was right over the trees behind the house. Sat and watched the show for a good hour or so while I caught up with my husband (I've been gone for a few days). His only sibling is very sick and possibly dying and it was somehow comforting to have that bigger picture of the rare alignment of spheres in space above us as we talked about what to do. Big life changes for us, but the sun, moon and earth just keep up there own dance.
 
Finally some rain; although I'd never thought I was going feel good about it.
 
Forget about today, today was shit, but a few days back I got hired for the job I wanted!
 
^ Congratulations for your new job LearntYoung.

Today one manager at work started a really nasty discussion and wouldn't stop. At some point he's lost it.
That reminded me how sometimes being silent for a moment is a really the best answer opposed to 'fight' back.
 
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