I was a virgin until a woman 7 years older than me took my virginity. There were no feelings involved. My first wife was 17 years older than me at 21..... boy was that ever a mistake ! 9 years later, hurt, confused, rejected, and lonely I moved in to a house next to a bar. I started living my 20's in my 30's, and I was at my Prime. I constantly brought a parade of women, and guys home so as not to risk people getting a DUI in one of the counties in metro Atlanta.
A good friend was the bartender, and she was dating my roommate.
At 21, I became immediately 40 helping raise two young boys. I also traveled Internationally, had a really good job, and was doing Coke to beat the band.
Well traveled =lots of stories, good sense of humor, and essentially I bounced at the bar. I'm 6'4", and was 220 with a long ponytail past my belt, and a mountain man biker beard. Confidence, compassion, respect, and extremely loving sensuality I think women can feel, and notice that make an experienced man attractive.
Like others have said. Men mature slower, and so don't ever mature.