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How many people have you had sex with?

This is a real phenomenon and I have seen it too. To me the most pathetic form of this is people who rent luxury cars like Lambos just to act richer than they are. There is even a short Vice doc on this in Miami:



People will do stupid shit just to flex. As the old saying goes: poor people stay poor by acting rich, rich people stay rich by acting poor.

Attracting the opposite sex is obviously a part of why guys in particular do this. No one will deny if you are rich it's easier to get girls. They're much less likely to actually like you, but you'll get to fuck them I guess.

What I am saying though is that level of extremity is not the norm. It is common enough we know it exists and have seen examples of it, but most men are not out there pretending to be millionaires and most women are not only settling for guys they think are millionaires.

Most people exist somewhere in the middle and they pair up just fine. I was able to get girls just fine working in retail. I flirted with girls all the time while I was working on the till. I think if all you see is gold diggers and nothing else... gtfo of Beverly Hills haha.

What do you mean by 'flex'? Do you mean they rent expensive cars just for attention? I know a guy who took out a loan for medical school which he never attended or even applied to, and used it to buy 10 sports cars, some in new/well used condition, and others were in very poor condition and he thought he could fix them up and sell them to pay off the loan but he is not that good of a mechanic.

I also know women who are basically kept, who got pregnant on purpose when their well off or rich boyfriend told them he did not want to marry them or have children.
 
What do you mean by 'flex'? Do you mean they rent expensive cars just for attention? I know a guy who took out a loan for medical school which he never attended or even applied to, and used it to buy 10 sports cars, some in new/well used condition, and others were in very poor condition and he thought he could fix them up and sell them to pay off the loan but he is not that good of a mechanic.

I also know women who are basically kept, who got pregnant on purpose when their well off or rich boyfriend told them he did not want to marry them or have children.

Flex just means showing off your wealth and status. If for example I buy an expensive Rolex and drive a Lambo you could say I'm flexing. Imo there's nothing inherently wrong with a bit of flexing as long as you are living within your means. What I think is pathetic is people who live outside their means just to flex, especially if they're just renting luxury cars to make themselves appear richer than they are. When it's all a front, that's just sad and they need to look at their priorities in life.

Your friend is a fine example. Taking out a loan for med school then using it to buy 10 sports cars is just fucking stupid.

Men who don't want kids, especially rich men, should get a vasectomy to avoid that exact scenario from happening. If they're smart that's what they will do. I'm getting a vasectomy next year and I'm nowhere near rich but I just don't ever want kids. Vasectomy is only like $500 too. Compare that to the cost of child support and it's nothing.

 
Yep. If I count in my head i can get to 100 or so but I’d say there’s another 200 that did not leave much of a memory so 300 total.
 
Not that many & as the days roll by I loose less interest in being near anyone else too.
Like yesterday I watched that show on E4 (UK) called Naked Attraction which is a naked dating show & you see everything & I feel ill when I see it.

Humans are a plague upon this planet & I have NO desire to be near them let alone have sex with any.
 
I honestly tried to remember who and how many, but I just can't. My 20s are just a random blur in my mind now. Maybe it's a kind of PTSexD?
 
Like yesterday I watched that show on E4 (UK) called Naked Attraction which is a naked dating show & you see everything & I feel ill when I see it.

TBH i don't like naked people. I like the mystery under the tight clothes. Then when they get naked i kind of feel sick.

I haven't slept with too many people. In college i was diagnosed bipolar and sort of just shut myself off to the world.

I've probably banged 15 different people mostly in high school, and i'm 28. Last one was almost a year ago.
 
Not that many & as the days roll by I loose less interest in being near anyone else too.
Like yesterday I watched that show on E4 (UK) called Naked Attraction which is a naked dating show & you see everything & I feel ill when I see it.

Humans are a plague upon this planet & I have NO desire to be near them let alone have sex with any.

Couldn’t agree more. I get horny on the rare occasion, but in general I’m disillusioned with people...and penis.
 
TBH i don't like naked people. I like the mystery under the tight clothes. Then when they get naked i kind of feel sick.

I haven't slept with too many people. In college i was diagnosed bipolar and sort of just shut myself off to the world.

I've probably banged 15 different people mostly in high school, and i'm 28. Last one was almost a year ago.

Thats a good characterization

Also, RIP phreex (dave) the person who started this thread. He was the person who originally made me moderator when i was a kid (he was pretty young too, though a fair amount older), he's been dead for over a decade and fortunately im still relatively young as i was a kid then, interesting i survived all of that, no one would have expected it (not even myself)
 
Without counting the period of time I was an escort while homeless because I didn't keep count and tried to block that outta my mind...

lol 11 so far without that. With it, I have no clue probably about 19-22 as a rough estimate.
 
Way too many.

Didn't use to value to sanctity of sexual intercourse.
 
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