MidnightBaby
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Hey folks, someone mentioned this topic the other day and I realized it's something that I've overlooked in my time here. So I'm planning on combining some other scraggler threads into a megathread of sorts, or something... I'll spare you the details and just make it happen.
I never considered that I had an eating disorder, but I've been food avoidant for most of my life. It's not simply that I'm a picky eater, 'if' I have an appetite I'll eat anything, just 80% of the time I am repulsed by the thought of eating food.
Besides the obvious effect of poor nutrition and excessive weight loss/gain and binge eating, this has spilled into other areas of life, and I've found it very hard to relate to a lot of people, who consider food, cooking, etc. to be some high point of life.
I've just always hated it. I hate being at the table. I hate chewing the stuff. I hate cooking. I hate everything about it. It makes me sick now just thinking about it, and I'm literally in a restaurant about to try and get carryout and I've eaten nothing all day. Aside from protein bars, I simply don't eat.
Have you ever struggled with an eating disorder? What are things you currently struggle with and what are your experiences with it? Have you found any type of treatment that has helped at all?
OP: MidnightBaby
This is a call out to any of you who've had, or still have eating disorders. I do.
I've had a progression of all three major EDs (anorexia, bulimia, binge eating) for three years, but these days I feel absolutely the most awful I ever have. It just feels utterly, truly hopeless. Despairing. (Almost) Impossible.
My situation - I'm at my all time highest weight by ALOT, I can't stop eating weight-gaining food, and I can't do the exercise I'm used to being able to do (injury, complete loss of fitness, bad depresssion - no motivation). I'm in hiding from my whole life and I can't bear to rejoin it until I'm smaller. It's so distressing. I truly don't know what to do from here.
Literally every day gets harder, bigger, more depressed. I know there are BLers, men and women, who've suffered in similar ways, please tell us your story.
How can you start digging your way out??
Hey folks, someone mentioned this topic the other day and I realized it's something that I've overlooked in my time here. So I'm planning on combining some other scraggler threads into a megathread of sorts, or something... I'll spare you the details and just make it happen.
I never considered that I had an eating disorder, but I've been food avoidant for most of my life. It's not simply that I'm a picky eater, 'if' I have an appetite I'll eat anything, just 80% of the time I am repulsed by the thought of eating food.
Besides the obvious effect of poor nutrition and excessive weight loss/gain and binge eating, this has spilled into other areas of life, and I've found it very hard to relate to a lot of people, who consider food, cooking, etc. to be some high point of life.
I've just always hated it. I hate being at the table. I hate chewing the stuff. I hate cooking. I hate everything about it. It makes me sick now just thinking about it, and I'm literally in a restaurant about to try and get carryout and I've eaten nothing all day. Aside from protein bars, I simply don't eat.
Have you ever struggled with an eating disorder? What are things you currently struggle with and what are your experiences with it? Have you found any type of treatment that has helped at all?
OP: MidnightBaby
This is a call out to any of you who've had, or still have eating disorders. I do.
I've had a progression of all three major EDs (anorexia, bulimia, binge eating) for three years, but these days I feel absolutely the most awful I ever have. It just feels utterly, truly hopeless. Despairing. (Almost) Impossible.
My situation - I'm at my all time highest weight by ALOT, I can't stop eating weight-gaining food, and I can't do the exercise I'm used to being able to do (injury, complete loss of fitness, bad depresssion - no motivation). I'm in hiding from my whole life and I can't bear to rejoin it until I'm smaller. It's so distressing. I truly don't know what to do from here.
Literally every day gets harder, bigger, more depressed. I know there are BLers, men and women, who've suffered in similar ways, please tell us your story.
How can you start digging your way out??
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