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Does sexual interest drop after 40 or what?

deficiT

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People under 40 (especially men) are such a fucking turn off.

Lost mine at 25 when I got married and had been with the same girl for too long; I think age is irrelevant; and libido can be environmental

Watching porn fucks w/ it too and a lot of people in computer generation watch too much porn


and... how so on that w00lfgang? you prefer the silver fox salt and pepper old man look?

Old people = inadequate erection; orgasm unlikely; but I have met a milf or two

I believe matthew mccoughany said it best in that one movie
 

F.U.B.A.R.

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I actually feel more comfortable in my sexuality now than I did in my 20s.

I even feel hotter now as well - Although I don't look it, when the bitch is tied up and blindfolded who gives a shit? 🤪
 

Atelier3

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I sometimes wonder whether my relentless libido is naturally fading underneath my Rx and other stims. I’m not really game to find out.
 

jhjhsdi

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My old mans like 63/64 an hes a fuckin horn dog, hes shagging a bird in her late 20s, plus this other bird in her late 30s - AND HER MUM 😂😂😂 whos about his age (none of them know, lol).
And he still hits on anything with a pulse! Hes so forward. Older women seem to love it, most of the younger ones hate it and look at him like he's a perv(he is a bit pervy tbh lol), but some love it!
Gives me great hope.

He does say he thinks his cock has shrunk by about 0.5-1 inch though, and if hes had a drink or 2 (which is by 7pm every day) or done coke he will always use a viagra or kamagra etc if he plans for more than a quickie.
The man is sex-crazy 😂
 

yubacity

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Im 44 and my libido is still the same. It disappeared during my addiction but now I'm clean it the same as it was in the 20s I wish it would go down it nothing but trouble
 

Rainman1964

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My guy is a hot 65 and I'm 56. I work at keeping him interested and excited. It is a tough job -- sexy lingerie in a variety collection, oils (we have about 15 at the moment), little vibrating toys (men like these too!), being independent and taking off sometimes so he misses me, being secure yet very girlie at the same time, and telling him every chance I get that he is the hottest, sexiest guy I have ever seen and I can't keep my hands off of him -- all the while reading him letters that the Founding Fathers wrote and my college essays on philosophy and jurisprudence. The less he understands what I'm reading, the more he gets turned on.

Viagra is a mainstay and we call it "our little friend," alot of water by the bed, knowing to take at lease 2 hours to take your time and slowly work up to the passion, and taking breaks when needed (for leg cramping and general catching our breath).

He fucks longer and better than a guy in his peak and I have never enjoyed sex before like this. I now enjoy blowjobs and create new ways by experimenting on him frequently.

Having 42DD sized breasts, a petite figure and long auburn air, and aging very well hasn't hurt.
 

NormanSheaffer

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Hi all,

I’ve noticed my sexual urges have dropped in recent years at 40 or over, when I jerk off it doesn’t feel good as it used too, feels weak and is no more exciting than a rich tea biscuit. I find women not that attractive anymore and modern porn is all the same and nothing new anymore, is it that I’m getting old now and I’ve worn my penis out and got Erectile dysfunction now? But if I got a real woman now I wouldn’t really perform. Have you over 40 guys noticed this or is it just me?

Mark
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Aristotle or Diogenes or one of those wise old Greeks is said to have woken up one day in his 60s, find he was flaccid and remarked "Finally, I'm free!"
 

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I can tell you that my sex drive is at an all time high. And atm, I’m without a partner, which is difficult.

Working in urology has taught me that there is nearly no end to the number of options when it comes to erectile dysfunction. There are the pills of course, but there are lower tech methods that require no rx, like the pump, and there are surgeries, and there are injections, too.

@Rainman1964 above sounds a bit like me. I’m all about wearing pretty things to bed. And I like to read in bed, too, but I really love to read from those crazy Variations magazines or the Penthouse Letters that are oh so fake! I don’t know why reading those aloud is such a turn on for me! But yeah, I love reading those out loud while kissing a guy’s neck, then kissing and licking my way down his back. So hot!!!
 

Rainman1964

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I can tell you that my sex drive is at an all time high. And atm, I’m without a partner, which is difficult.

Working in urology has taught me that there is nearly no end to the number of options when it comes to erectile dysfunction. There are the pills of course, but there are lower tech methods that require no rx, like the pump, and there are surgeries, and there are injections, too.

@Rainman1964 above sounds a bit like me. I’m all about wearing pretty things to bed. And I like to read in bed, too, but I really love to read from those crazy Variations magazines or the Penthouse Letters that are oh so fake! I don’t know why reading those aloud is such a turn on for me! But yeah, I love reading those out loud while kissing a guy’s neck, then kissing and licking my way down his back. So hot!!!
BellaJewel,
That is really funny about the Penthouse letters because my sister and I discovered orgasm reading Penthouse Forum when we were in junior high!

Ah...memories.
 

BellaJewel

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BellaJewel,
That is really funny about the Penthouse letters because my sister and I discovered orgasm reading Penthouse Forum when we were in junior high!

Ah...memories.
That is totes hilarious! I always thought those letters were strictly for guys!
My favorite brother, who had a subscription to Penthouse while we still lived with my mom (!) used to claim that those letters were 100% true. He was like 20 then so he was a total dumbass.
 

Rainman1964

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That is totes hilarious! I always thought those letters were strictly for guys!
My favorite brother, who had a subscription to Penthouse while we still lived with my mom (!) used to claim that those letters were 100% true. He was like 20 then so he was a total dumbass.
He's a guy. It's not his fault. he he
 

birdup.snaildown

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I'm almost 40 and I haven't noticed any decline since my 20s. If anything (as others have said), I'm more comfortable with myself now sexually and more confident. I still wake up every day with an erection. I last longer in bed, I'm better at sex... and my dick has gotten a bit longer over the past 5 years.

I've had sex with men in their 60s and they've never had any problem getting hard. I never asked them if they popped a viagra beforehand, but I don't think so.

I noticed that circumcised guys as they get older have rougher skin on the head of their dick. I've since learnt that this is because of keratinization, which increasingly seen as the cause of most erectile dysfunction... but this is reversible.
 

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for men that's definetely the case. The older you get the less testosterone you have, and testosterone is what fuels your sex drive.
An other factor might be that you aren't as handsome as you were younger. I find my self to find sex a lot more apealing when I am sexy myself, compared to periods i haven't taken good care of my self and i don't look good.
 
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