There were hecka BL meetups back in the early 2000s when pressed MDMA pills were still big and people were still going to raves.This topic has been beaten to death, but i'll humor it.
It would be awesome. I've met a couple IRL, but to have a party for everyone would be cool.
IIRC, there were BL meet ups in the past, but nothing so recent. There are a bunch of people from the USA.
It's hard to just invite everyone though, because we don't know who's who. Or like, who's a cop, etc.
That's probably why you don't hear about open parties on the open forum.
I know there have been plenty of smaller BL meetups throughout the years.
The problem was people were stupid enough to put locations on the boards and a few or more were busted.
I would imagine it would be a bit more risky...for several reasons, these days.