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please! really need an answer/peace of mind

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bundleofnerves

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Ok let me start off with saying I have extreme anxiety all the time. It's a condition I've suffered from for about four years now.

I had sex. It was protected but at the end, he pulled out, took the condom off and came on the back of my thighs.
Whats the possibility that I can get pregnant from that. And before you say 0 the only reason why I'm freaking out is what if any got near my vagina, close enough to count? What are the odds? I cleaned myself off right off afterwards, but I have thicker thighs that rub together and what if that is what help spread it? Anyway the second part of my question is, I took a pregnancy test this morning, first morning pee, 25 days after intercourse. I have irregular periods. I wont get some for months and sometimes I get them very close together. So I can't go by missed period. I want to know how long after ACTUAL INTERCOURSE can I count on the test to be as accurate as it can? I had severe cramps for two days and severe bloating. I took a midol. I also had frequent urination for only one day, the same day I took the midol and I wonder if it was because it made the bloating go away, water weight, hence the peeing and, sorry TMI, pooping. I've been eating all the chocolate and slept so hard for a couple of days. these are all the same days all on days, maybe 20/21-24th day after intercourse. On day 25, today, with a negative test I feel fine, a few pangs here and there uterus wise, but no period yet. Even though irregular, about now is when I COULD expect it and not be surprised.

Should I be panicking? Am I in the clear? Whats the timing with these 'symptoms?' The internet is crazy, I will think I'm ok (plenty of sites say 14-16 and 19) to women talking about their tests were negative up until they had the baby! So of course I focus on those out of the ordinary tales and assume that will be my outcome. Some say I wouldnt feel any symptoms until five weeks and others say I would be so worn out by now. Please let me know! The anxiety makes me so wired i get sick. And throwing up when worrying about pregnancy already is a mindfuck. my pattern of soothing sevens aren't working and im hyperventilating at an alarming rate. thats usually my sign that im going to spiral down and have to be sedated.

Help, please.8(
 
You should go to a doctor and see if they can do anything for you. Better to make the trip rather than not going and have the risk of being pregnant.
 
If your stressing yourself out, under that much stress your periods can become irregular. You cannot get pregnant unless his sperm enters your vagina. If you washed afterwards then the chances of you getting pregnant from cum on your thighs is pretty much impossible.

From what I gather - I think it takes about 6 days before you would get a positive reaction. Are you using contraception yourself?

If he didn't come inside of you, his dick didn't enter you without a condom (during foreplay for example) and you washed yourself afterwards and you have had a clear test - then you can either.

Chill out knowing that everything that could be done, was done and you have a negative test OR go to your doctor and get another test (and see why your periods are so irregular at the same time).

If your sexually active, then taking a birth control pill could help ease the stresses your feeling.
 
Why did you post this thread a second time? Answers are still the same as the first time...

Also, you should probably not be having sex if it makes you this anxious/obsessive/neurotic. How old are you?
 
I have no idea about the odds; but they're very low or non-existant especially if the semen did not get anywhere on or in your vagina.

You wrote about taking a pregnancy test, if you think the one you bought is not accurate buy other ones and use those; but over the counter pregnancy tests are highly accurate. If you're having your period then you're not pregnant.

If you haven't had any sex at all for 25 days, then you're not pregnant; but if it will make you relax and feel better test yourself again, and see a medical professional. Also if you get nervous about becoming pregnant get on some birth control for your own sake and still have a guy use a condom.
 
It usually never makes me this anxious. I think the surprise of the action along with the risk is what jump started this obsession. He didn't say he was going to do what he did.
I am 19
 
Thank you. I plan to take another test on Friday just to be sure.

And I've heard horror stories about BC so I never wanted to take it. I just make sure im always using a condom. But this was a surprise ending so its not something I could have prevented
 
thank you all for your replies.
well i took another test today at 4 weeks after intercourse and it came out negative. still havent gotten my period but i guess im going to just have to trust the tests. even though im still not convinced. im not sure why i cant believe it, even though the chances in the first place are very low as youve all pointed out. my soothing sevens still arent working and im sure im going to go insane, but i will clutch onto the negative result.
 
stop posting duplicate threads over bluelight.

if you are concerned see a doctor/ take a pregnancy test. i think you are overreacting as the likelihood of pregnancy is low for that description of sex that you gave but if you have concerns go see a doctor
 
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