This is something that has frustrated me most of my life, and only now I start realize what it is. It is probably offensive and not politically correct, but I need to get it out of my system so I will rant about it here.
The girl on the left corresponds to my overall experience with American women both in looks and personality. Most people would consider her to be quite homely, but American Women who look and act like her consider themselves to be "out of my league." My first experience with just one American Woman in High School left me wishing it were possible to convert to homosexuality and marry a man.
The one onthe right represents my experience with foreign women (not just in France, but while dating foreign women in the US) as far as attitude and beauty and personality. Yes, the women I have been dating here really are that beautiful, and they're not only from France but the other continents and former colony islands (outre mer).
One major cultural difference I have noticed is women. Dating in America versus dating overseas in a non-English speaking country has shown me a big difference in quality of single American women compared to that of foreign women. In the US, I dated foreign women and American women, but thought it was only bad luck. In my own mind, I should be a "good catch." My looks are a little better than average, I am physically very fit and run marathon distances and lift weights. My IQ is significantly higher than 145. My level of education is PhD in Neurobiology at a top research university. I care about living sustainably, I hate American style consumerism. I believe relationships should be 50:50 partnerships involving sharing of responsibilities and respect. I try to put the woman's needs before my own on every level. I don't have one night stands, but only sleep with somebody I care about. I'm willing to commit long term or even marry if we seem compatible enough. And I'm kind to animals, etc... I expect the same in return.
For years, I thought it was only my bad luck. To the American Woman, in her words, I am a "creeper who is trying to get his pervon." I'm still not sure what that means, but modern college graduates speak that way.
I, and most American men of my generation don' leer, stare, or check out American women. Instead, we avoid looking at them, never make eye contact, and even stare at the floor in their presence because of their open hostility.
I had even given up on dating and women in general. My last gf i realize was somebody I should have left the day I met her parents. She is from california, but we grew apart and the relationship didn't work out for many reasons.
I've found blogs complaining about the same thing - the American Woman ( American Woman Stay Away from Me. Now I think I understand the Lenny Kravitz song), so I know it's not just me. This photo sums up my experience so far.
My question is what has happened to the American Woman of my generation and younger? Did misandrystic feminism (the FemaNazi movement for everybody who doesn't know the word misandry) ruin them all? By "all," I mean MOST of them.
I know they don't need don't need a man for survival and support, but doesn't anybody care about love, romance, or having a long term relationship anymore? somebody to grown old with? Or is it suddenly cool to be a spinster and die alone surrounded by her 12 cats? By love, I mean the "love" of a life long romantic partner - somebody to experience and enhance life. By 'love' I do not mean the love for the parents. The kind of love where the woman talks to her mother every day. What's up with that anyway? It's cute when the girl is 12, but beyond that, it's childish, to put it mildly. And I don't mean the 'love' for her pet dog or her pet cat or her clique of catty girl friends (they now refer to themselves as "frienemies").
What's with the open hostility towards men (and are they equally hostile toward men who flash wealth)? I'm sure there are some good American women, but I haven't had any luck attracting even one. Now, I visibly cringe when I spot an American woman or hear the voice of one when I'm doing a social activity. When one starts a conversation, all I want is for her to leave, and I try to think of things to say that will politely let her know that we have nothing in common. Mentioning things like having lived off the grid or going on 500 mile backpacking trips or that I hate spectator sports is often a big enough hint for the more perceptive ones.
Until I came here, I had resigned myself to either dying alone or trying to find one on a South American or Southeast Asian matchmaking site. Leaving the US and learning a foreign language has changed my outlook on women. Modern American Women and Americanized Women are a cultural aberration.
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The girl on the left corresponds to my overall experience with American women both in looks and personality. Most people would consider her to be quite homely, but American Women who look and act like her consider themselves to be "out of my league." My first experience with just one American Woman in High School left me wishing it were possible to convert to homosexuality and marry a man.
The one onthe right represents my experience with foreign women (not just in France, but while dating foreign women in the US) as far as attitude and beauty and personality. Yes, the women I have been dating here really are that beautiful, and they're not only from France but the other continents and former colony islands (outre mer).
One major cultural difference I have noticed is women. Dating in America versus dating overseas in a non-English speaking country has shown me a big difference in quality of single American women compared to that of foreign women. In the US, I dated foreign women and American women, but thought it was only bad luck. In my own mind, I should be a "good catch." My looks are a little better than average, I am physically very fit and run marathon distances and lift weights. My IQ is significantly higher than 145. My level of education is PhD in Neurobiology at a top research university. I care about living sustainably, I hate American style consumerism. I believe relationships should be 50:50 partnerships involving sharing of responsibilities and respect. I try to put the woman's needs before my own on every level. I don't have one night stands, but only sleep with somebody I care about. I'm willing to commit long term or even marry if we seem compatible enough. And I'm kind to animals, etc... I expect the same in return.
For years, I thought it was only my bad luck. To the American Woman, in her words, I am a "creeper who is trying to get his pervon." I'm still not sure what that means, but modern college graduates speak that way.
I, and most American men of my generation don' leer, stare, or check out American women. Instead, we avoid looking at them, never make eye contact, and even stare at the floor in their presence because of their open hostility.
I had even given up on dating and women in general. My last gf i realize was somebody I should have left the day I met her parents. She is from california, but we grew apart and the relationship didn't work out for many reasons.
I've found blogs complaining about the same thing - the American Woman ( American Woman Stay Away from Me. Now I think I understand the Lenny Kravitz song), so I know it's not just me. This photo sums up my experience so far.
My question is what has happened to the American Woman of my generation and younger? Did misandrystic feminism (the FemaNazi movement for everybody who doesn't know the word misandry) ruin them all? By "all," I mean MOST of them.
I know they don't need don't need a man for survival and support, but doesn't anybody care about love, romance, or having a long term relationship anymore? somebody to grown old with? Or is it suddenly cool to be a spinster and die alone surrounded by her 12 cats? By love, I mean the "love" of a life long romantic partner - somebody to experience and enhance life. By 'love' I do not mean the love for the parents. The kind of love where the woman talks to her mother every day. What's up with that anyway? It's cute when the girl is 12, but beyond that, it's childish, to put it mildly. And I don't mean the 'love' for her pet dog or her pet cat or her clique of catty girl friends (they now refer to themselves as "frienemies").
What's with the open hostility towards men (and are they equally hostile toward men who flash wealth)? I'm sure there are some good American women, but I haven't had any luck attracting even one. Now, I visibly cringe when I spot an American woman or hear the voice of one when I'm doing a social activity. When one starts a conversation, all I want is for her to leave, and I try to think of things to say that will politely let her know that we have nothing in common. Mentioning things like having lived off the grid or going on 500 mile backpacking trips or that I hate spectator sports is often a big enough hint for the more perceptive ones.
Until I came here, I had resigned myself to either dying alone or trying to find one on a South American or Southeast Asian matchmaking site. Leaving the US and learning a foreign language has changed my outlook on women. Modern American Women and Americanized Women are a cultural aberration.
