Housemate with Kiddie Porn

My friend recently discovered child pornography on her housemate's computer, which she was allowed access to.

She also has a young son.

So, the point of this thread is get across to people who have children of their own, and I gather there are a few on BL, is that you can trust nobody when it comes to your children. My friend thought this guy was trust worthy and the truth was a great shock to her. He has been arrested since but that has not consoled my friend as this person had babysat her son in the past.

So be aware, just because someone might appear to like children it might not be in an appropriate manner.

a_muse the only comforting this is knowing that now this guy is in prison - he is gonna get his ass kicked. Most prisoners dont take kindly to other inmates messing with kids, they will do some nasty work on his bitch ass!

karma is a beautiful thing

my best wishes to your friend and her baby

Give the computer to the cops. See if he can get put up on more charges.

Pedos: burn in hell.

AFP

I'm sure the Australian Federal Police would like to hear about this.......

Whats was he arrested for?

No-one babby sits my son apart from his grandparents - and after reading the above, I'll keep it that way...

I always used to whinge about all my fem friends, that would get those easy as babysitting jobs.

Spose there are more reasons, why fems are usually chosen...

speaking as a single parent of an 8 yr old little boy its really hard in the dating scene when it comes to dating males...on one hand i have to find someone who likes kids and gets along with him but doesnt like him "too" much and on the other hand i cant date anyone who doesnt like or accept kids at all...its pretty fucked...no one baby sits my kid except relatives and female friends really..i know that is a bit sexist and there are still female pedos around but i have my sons life to think about...not political correctness on this subject *shrugs*

pedos are teh lowest scum on earth adn if anyone did anything to my son they would wish they were't alive...i hate hating anyone but this is the exception

My friend called the police immediately after she discovered the porn. The police came to take him away and the computer went with him.

doofqueen said:

its really hard in the dating scene when it comes to dating males...on one hand i have to find someone who likes kids and gets along with him but doesnt like him "too

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This is the worst part of being an adult male, I love kids, I feel I still am one, I love playing wars in the back yard with my mates kids, I love playing with toys and the like, but always in the back of my mind is I hope nobody misinterprets what I am doing, am I too close etc, etc. I find I always make sure someone else is around as well and never go into their rooms. Who is to blame for all the paranoia, sick arse pedo's.

My father never kisses me as a kid, never hugged me, never let me sit on his lap and why he was scared people would misinterpret affection for something sinister. I hope I do not have to act the same with the children I hope to one day have.


Burn the lot of them.

JoKeR

^^^ yeah i know it is sad that there is men out there that do genuiniely like kids but yeah as a single mum of a little boy u have to be wary and im afraid thats just how it works ...ur child is most important

^^^^^I'm with you totally on this dq...nobody should ever fuck around with the safety of their kids. It's way better to be a little paranoid because you've got a hunch about someone you can't substantiate than it is to ignore that hunch and have something horrible happen.

Having said that, I also know where Jokerswild is coming from...when I came out to my sister, the first thing she said to me was that she didn't care what I do, as long as I don't touch my nephews. I was originally supposed to be my youngest nephew's godfather, and he has my name as his middle name, but since I came out, he's just conveniently not been baptised so my sister doesn't have to actually face the issue at all.

Also, my ex has two kids of his own, and everytime the four of us would go out as a family, we got the filthiest looks from people...you think it's hard being around kids as an adult male, try being a gay adult male. I'm constantly paranoid about being around kids nowadays...people assume the worst, and I can understand they're doing it out of love and protection for their kids, but it sucks ass that we live in a world where that has to happen.

...The only thing I'd advise I guess is be really really careful who you leave your kids with, whether they're male or female. Someone in my family was tied to chairs and gagged by a female babysitter when he was younger, and thankfully it wasn't sexual abuse, but abuse is still abuse..

A lot of the time people just assume that women are naturally maternal and have a kid's safety in mind at all times, and unfortunately this isn't always the case at all.

Sorry to hear about your friend a_muse...I'm glad she found out when she did and has done something about it.

--Raz--

A few years ago, I used to be a head tech for a large computer store here in Adelaide. One day I came across a machine which I was fixing, which after a quick search of the HD, had quite a few child porn pictures on it. The guys at the shop had a meeting that evening, and after some discussion decided to call the police. They came and viewed the pictures, and then waited for the system to be picked up by the owner. They then arrested him, and took him away.

There is no lower grade of human being than a pedophile. They should all be locked up, and the key should be thrown away. They should also be placed in the 'General Population' area of the prison, where they can all be bashed/raped/victimized/murdered/etc......, by the other prisoners. There is no such thing as a reformed pedophile. Those who thinks otherwise are just kidding themselves.

A few years ago I knew a girl who had been sexually abused by her father as a child/young girl. An absolutly wonderful girl. The quiet type, that never bother anyone, and kept to herself most of the time. She asked me to help her out with her homework on numerous occasions through the years. Infact she only ever spoke to 2 other people besides me at school. I knew her since grade 5, but had no idea at all what was happening to her. She ran away from home when she was 15, and no one at school saw or heard of her. We did however find about about her situation. When I saw her next she was 19. I saw her at a local club one night. I got to know her better again, after seeing her a few times. We went out for drinks, met up at different clubs, etc. She told me about what had happened to her as a kid, and since she had run away.

She was such a different person. The type that did not really care what happened to her. I remember that at the time she was dating sime 36yr old who treated her like a piece of garbage, but she somehow thought that it was all she deserved. I can only imagine what all those years of abouse had done to her self-esteem. After about 6 months I totally lost contact with her. She just stopped calling, or answering her phone. About 2 months later I found out that she had infact commited suicide.

What a sad, sad end to a life. All that because of her pathetic, wanker, asshole, pedophile of a father. You just wonder sometimes "How she would have turned out if she had not been abused???"

So there's my justification for wanting bad, bad things to happen to pedophiles. I don't care if I get flamed for saying that I want these people dead. They deserve everything they get, and give up their right to live among normal society/life the moment they start to abuse children.

P_P

^^^^^ that shit makes me so angry!!!
i agree with ya, p_p, burn them all!!

I thought you actually had to act out your fantasies to be a peodophile? I'm probably wrong but can someone please clarify...

Men do have to be careful how they act around children these days so their intentions aren't misconstrued and while sometimes the measures taken seem to be a bit extreme, you can't put limits on protecting our children. They are the most precious gift we have and deserve to be safe from any act which may bring them to harm.

i was talking to a councellor friend of mine about this topic a few weeks ago actually and he said that about one in ten males are actual pedos but most dont actually act on their wants and live their whole lives fighting their urges because they know its the wrong thing...its a mental condition and they need help and sympathy but as a mother they dont really have mine and thats just teh way im gona be about it

scary to think that everyone probably knows about a dozen pedos but will never know it so thats why u have to be careful

he also said that maybe in 50 yrs time pedos will have rights as gay ppl do now etc protective privacy rights and that sort of thing...it wasnt that long ago that homosexuals were considered sick etc and now have rights (which personally i think they should) the gender u choose to love is nothing to be ashamed about but when it comes to children thats a different story

a_muse said:

My friend called the police immediately after she discovered the porn. The police came to take him away and the computer went with him.

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good stuff:D

what the fuck sort of rights do you deserve if you get off on abusing kids?
I honestly think they ought to be hung by their testicles and mauled by wild bears.
I guess it is a male fantasy of rooting some beautifully sculpted teenage girl out for fun, but I feel that for adults this fantasy should be strictly taboo.

you'd be feeling pretty bad if you left your kid with someone that looks at kiddie porn..... the thought is just wrong...

burn pedo!!! 8(

I seriously doubt (and pray) they will ever be afforded rights - big difference between same gender sex and sex with minors.

The sad thing is, no matter what punishment you dish out, it is cold comfort for the parents and in particular the child that has been scared for life

i agree but what im saying is that there might possible be pedo activists in yrs time and rights groups fighing 4 their sexual rights to live 'normal' lives etc just as homosexuals had no rights once... and i say again i have no problkem with gay ppl and their rights..im half gay myself..all im saying is that it might happen ...its scary