PsychoKitten
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He everyone, yup i'm tapped tonight so i'm sure come morning there'll be a heap of stuff by me.
I was thinking though, as you all know I went away with my man for the weekend. Now the question I want to ask is can cuddles be taught? And this is why...
I'm a pretty touchy-feely person if we're sitting on the couch I have to snuggle or lay all over you, I love to be hugged and petted. Now MrKitty is not a huggy person he doesn't really like cuddles much, or so he says, and he doesn't like PDA's. He was never cuddled much when he was younger, and I know it's a bit foregin to him.
Now this is something that is fundamental to who I am, it's not something that I can stop doing. And although I know he's just not touchy-feely, I really hate that he won't snuggle and cuddle.
This weekend though, when we were laying in bed and drifting off to sleep he let me cuddle him, and even played with my hair as i drifted into dreamland. And when we were on the couch it's the first time that he's actually cuddled, oh don't get me wrong, he's given me hugs and stuff and let me lay all over him but is the first time I've felt that he actually participated and didn't mind.
So can cuddles be taught, is it something that the more you do, the more you like?
I'd really like your opinions on this.
Thanks and big Cuddles
Kitty
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I am an Angel... no really, I am... my halo is just a little crooked.
Find happiness:
live like there's no tomorrow
work like you don't need the money
love like you've never been hurt
dance like nobody's watching
and fuck like you're being filmed.
[This message has been edited by PsychoKitten (edited 21 August 2001).]
I was thinking though, as you all know I went away with my man for the weekend. Now the question I want to ask is can cuddles be taught? And this is why...
I'm a pretty touchy-feely person if we're sitting on the couch I have to snuggle or lay all over you, I love to be hugged and petted. Now MrKitty is not a huggy person he doesn't really like cuddles much, or so he says, and he doesn't like PDA's. He was never cuddled much when he was younger, and I know it's a bit foregin to him.
Now this is something that is fundamental to who I am, it's not something that I can stop doing. And although I know he's just not touchy-feely, I really hate that he won't snuggle and cuddle.
This weekend though, when we were laying in bed and drifting off to sleep he let me cuddle him, and even played with my hair as i drifted into dreamland. And when we were on the couch it's the first time that he's actually cuddled, oh don't get me wrong, he's given me hugs and stuff and let me lay all over him but is the first time I've felt that he actually participated and didn't mind.
So can cuddles be taught, is it something that the more you do, the more you like?
I'd really like your opinions on this.
Thanks and big Cuddles
Kitty
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I am an Angel... no really, I am... my halo is just a little crooked.
Find happiness:
live like there's no tomorrow
work like you don't need the money
love like you've never been hurt
dance like nobody's watching
and fuck like you're being filmed.
[This message has been edited by PsychoKitten (edited 21 August 2001).]