It's all personal choice, and I can tolerate (and even appreciate) relationship with very diverse personal differences. So long as there's communication and consideration, I see no cause for complaint on their part. I've always been a solitary drug user. I have little need for a partner regardless of the compound, but it can be a fantastic thing and––what's more important––it can greatly enhance the relationship. It would be very nice (especially with the really quality, life-enhancing compounds like psychedelics... I look forward to the experience of romantic love on some of those very soon). Until it became serious, there would be certain things I'd keep to myself until I've had a chance to demonstrate that I am capable of maintaining my "hobby" while loving effectively and sincerely. I would also sacrifice certain substances if there were consequences that endangered the relationship.
Ultimately, however, it could be very disappointing and I feel like I'd miss out on some fulfilling opportunities to connect at a deeper level... if that makes sense?
Christ, I've had women stop dating me because I
wasn't Catholic... Haha. Tolerance and acceptance isn't alway requited.
Follow your bliss, be authentic, and he/she will come and possibly change everything. Who can possible measure the potency and power of those synergistic effects made possible only with the meeting of two, whose genuine love makes a dynamic and uncompromising One?
But, I'm all theory... I find the topic/action of dating, even sex (these days), to be so complicated, convoluted, and challenging that, frankly, I can find better love in my own chemistry on a quiet night, alone. I don't know how much longer my solitude will last, or my aversion to most of the population and society's constructions, but for now it gets me through the days and nights, and I don't have to hear (incessantly) about all those things I'm doing wrong, or all those things I'm not doing right

No man is an island... I'm trying for a peninsula, myself.
Lack of interest in love relationships has often been a topic of criticism associated with the stigma surrounding drug use. But the current divorce rates demonstrate that I'm safer shooting smack than buying a diamond anytime soon (I don't shoot smack... exaggerated for effect).
What have some of your partners' responses/attitudes been? Have you been fully honest, or are there things you wouldn't tell your partner because it could arouse misunderstanding and fear? I believe in transparency, but also caution and compassion. We have our own journeys and there's no "right" or "wrong," there's what works and what doesn't work. If both people are aware and communicative, I think any situation could work.
Jason