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Women and telephones? Or am I just a fool?

Agreed, only mean people would do this. But if you really want to see the situation optimistically, she could be temporarily mean due to terrible external causes. But given all that you have said, I would consider her better to be avoided.
 
She might be married or in a relationship from the avoidance of phone convos or on her terms. I met a woman in a bar once fooled, around got digits. She was "single, no kids". She seemed realy nice and had a good job and her ugly friend wanted to fuck my friend and he bailed and we had no place to go. I didnt want to try to fuck in a car and treat her like a slut, cuz she seemed datable and I liked her. I call her next day and chat then I hear a kid crying followed by who the fuck are you talking to and she says "Ill call later" and hangs up. I didnt call back. She didnt either.
 
Well I sent several, she suddenly stopped responding I'm guessing she relapsed. So it's over.
 
She gets a lot of attention. From people that she's not interested in. She likes to be CHASED.(not chaste)

You may have loved (stilll love?) her, but not in a romantic way. I reckon you potentially have attachment issues? Just an educated guess.

I would leave her alone, until you get a hold of your feelings towards her. Chances are you won't but that's part of your journey.
BingeBoy said:
Ok , folks wanted to do this anon first but I guess there is nothing to be ashamed of.

I am in my middle twenties and I recently met an older woman in rehab and really love(d) her I guess , I'm not sure if i meant as much to her as vice versa. Anyway the thing is that during our stint we used heroin heavily and I guess I just had to get away and get clean (which I did about 2-3 weeks ago) , the thing is ever since I went back home and tried to call her she doesn't seem to want to pick up the phone. She asks me to call , says she will call , when I call she doesn't picl up , when I dont call she sends me texts. Now she is going back to rehab and asks me to write.

Am I being strung on? While I was with her I noticed her voicemail consisted of at the least 2 other guys desperately trying to get in touch with her, in rehab she showed off a love letter like it was a trophy (and made the guy look like a fool , which he probably was).

I really want to see her again , especially if she gets clean . I'm the kind of person who has real difficulty bonding with other human beings , once I'm in I'm in all the way however. Should I give it a chance or is she just toying with me.

Is it possibile she has some kind of phone-related anxiety? If I write her I'm going to ask her but if people recognize this situation please fill me in.


thanks in advance
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GOOD LUCK
 
If you are now clean, want to stay clean, forget the rehab woman. It may seem hard to do, but find a woman who is and always has been clean. Once you start looking (for real) you will be amazed how many women jump at the chance to help a fellow stay straight. The women who are in rehab, out, in again, out again, will always be in and out until like a dear friend of mine, they do a fatal OD.
 
well, when i was in rehab they referred to the phone as the pain box. (inspiring name isnt it??) maybe there are rules that she has to follow in rehab and maybe she is trying to dissasociate people places and things, thats a remore possibility since it seems the two of you hit it off. im kinda the same way too, when i meet a girl and sparks fly im all in. i even quit weed for a few months because the girl i was dating at the time (who also smoked weed *cough* hypocrite *cough*) decided she didnt want it in her life anymore to which i translated she doesnt want me in her life anymore unless i sober up, long story short, it didnt work, we both ended up in mental hospitals, she downed a bottle of xanax with a bottle of wine, i had a seizure bc i didnt have any xanax (we used to split her rx)

just keep your eyes open. theres a girl out there that knows what you are going through and will be supportive of you. trust me. shes out there.
 
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