manboychef - so you just keep updating the 3 columns, right? How often do you update it, would you say?
& hey there, OP!!!! Last but certainly not least. 6 months is a long time to stay clean!!! I salute you. The farthest I've gotten was ~3 months.
How long have you been using opiates all together?
No one HAS to do drugs!!!!!! You just
think you do. It all comes down to
perspective, my friend.
"What we believe manifests in our behavior and in that of others." - AKA: if you think you have no chance, than you have no chance!
You have to stop calling yourself a worthless piece of crap, and seeing things in such a gloomy way...
A negative mind will never give you a positive life. Nothing changes if nothing changes.
(Sorry, I can spew a million quotes, thanks to Pinterest heh)
Anyway, you are not a worthless piece of crap. If you are, then that pretty much means ALL of us here on BL!
For starters, you have to start recognizing these thoughts and feelings as they arise.
Then, remind yourself that these are only thoughts/feelings. We are not our thoughts and feelings.
Actually, we can be in CONTROL of them, if we choose to! Although it may feel that way, at times.
"Rule your mind or it will rule you."
Instead of BEING your thoughts, be the AWARENESS behind your thoughts.
Duality is human nature. (Duality = high/low, yin/yang, light/darkness) Our pain is necessary for growth, because there is no joy without ever feeling pain. What's important is to understand the nature BEHIND these things, and to see beyond them.
"The unattached observer." The goal, ultimately, is to transcend dualities. Feeling and experiencing each moment, "good" and "bad"... without any labels attached to it (use no words to define the experience). Appreciating each moment of precious life, because it is all occurring for a reason. There's nothing we can do about it! But we can choose how to view it and handle it. "Loving thoughts heal. Accept, love and forgive your humanness. It is only imperfect to have imperfect feelings."
Also, I'm sure you've heard, "addiction is but a symptom". Using drugs/addiction is merely a physical manifestation (AKA a symptom) that is most likely pointing towards a bigger, underlying issue...so instead, I would ask: WHY am I a daily drug user? Am I always trying to get outside of myself, or avoid my reality? Why?
"Be thankful for pain/problems bc it is our unconsciousness calling attention to what need to be looked at." It is progress, not falling back. No more self pity or victimizing. Instead, ask "What is it I am supposed to learn?"
Basically, instant gratification only feeds your ego, & hinders growth... especially when it becomes an addiction.
I don't know if any of this made sense. It's a lot to try to convey. And just my opinion!!!! So take it for what it's worth
*Quoted a few things from the book "Healing and Recovery" by David Hawkins. Intelligent man right there. No plagiarism intended, just notes I took (that helped me immensely) so I thought I would share. Wishing you nothing but the best
If you're interested, the book "Be Here Now" by Ram Dass was also a great read. Here's an article by the same author:
https://www.ramdass.org/the-game-of-awakening/