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What would you do if YOU found out your KIDS?

if i ever had kids.(probably wont)
1. if i caught them with weed i would probably smoke with them and hook them up.
2. if caught with psychadelics i would steal them and not say anything
3. depends on what pills,i would probably make them register on bluelight. i know that theres no way a parent can talk their kids out of using.
4. if i found hard drugs like meth/heroin/coke/syringes i really dont know what i would do, i would tell him its their life and they can fuck it up if they want too.

"if you ever have any questions just go on bluelight, son"
i would be a horrible parent, thats why im not gunna have kids
 
man I would just get a roll of quarters and punch them in the base of the skull. Any more communication than that and they might get the wrong impression.
 
I would make them research it very very very extensively. I would want them to know what they are putting into their bodies, what its doing and how to be safe about it.

If they showed signs of addiction or just being stupid, its off to rehab (or a good grounding).

Then again I cringe at the thought of having kids...so yeah. I'd probably give them some pot and be like 'leave me alone, ya brats'. :D
 
Coolio said:
I'd rather find out my kids were using heroin than alcohol.
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that's either the stupidest or the smartest thing i have read on bluelight...

...i can't decide which
 
staypuft, alcohol is completely or partially responsible for most of the problems with violence in this country. Most everything violent or careless that leads to someone's harm, most suicides, most accidents, etc. are all done by drunk people. Alcohol's also neurotoxic and hepatoxic.

Heroin has no downsides besides addiction. It's cheap, nontoxic, and more euphoric. I'd make sure the kid knew how tolerance and addiction worked, and that pushing your limits with higher and higher IV doses is not the way to get the most out of heroin use. Heroin's just as safe as alcohol when used responsibly - it's just as easy to OD on alcohol by chugging a half gallon of booze until you pass out as it is to OD on heroin by putting more of an impure substance in your syringe than you did last time when last time got you plenty high.
 
yeah i'd rather find out my kids were using IV heroin, meth, smoking dust daily, huffing duster, or even eating moth balls rather than going out and drinking with their friends.

Alcohol is just poison, plain and simple.. and I won't have my children putting poison in their bodies. (unless its an aids-dick and I'm makin $$$ offa em)
 
Idi0tequ3 said:
if i ever had kids.(probably wont)
1. if i caught them with weed i would probably smoke with them and hook them up.
2. if caught with psychadelics i would steal them and not say anything
3. depends on what pills,i would probably make them register on bluelight. i know that theres no way a parent can talk their kids out of using.
4. if i found hard drugs like meth/heroin/coke/syringes i really dont know what i would do, i would tell him its their life and they can fuck it up if they want too.

"if you ever have any questions just go on bluelight, son"
i would be a horrible parent, thats why im not gunna have kids
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You reflect my feelings on the issue perfectly! ;)

I agree with the alcohol use. If I found my kids with booze I would sit them down and explain to them that alcohol is involved in about half of all serious/fatal crimes. Then I would urge that they smoke weed instead, and tell them to call any friends who can't hold hits in "pussy".
 
Coolio said:
staypuft, alcohol is completely or partially responsible for most of the problems with violence in this country. Most everything violent or careless that leads to someone's harm, most suicides, most accidents, etc. are all done by drunk people. Alcohol's also neurotoxic and hepatoxic.

Heroin has no downsides besides addiction. It's cheap, nontoxic, and more euphoric. I'd make sure the kid knew how tolerance and addiction worked, and that pushing your limits with higher and higher IV doses is not the way to get the most out of heroin use. Heroin's just as safe as alcohol when used responsibly - it's just as easy to OD on alcohol by chugging a half gallon of booze until you pass out as it is to OD on heroin by putting more of an impure substance in your syringe than you did last time when last time got you plenty high.
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while i understand how that is logical to you, i have never met a heroin user who wasn't able to control their addiction, where as i meet people daily who can control their alcohol use, so my own personal anecdotal evidence means i wouldn't agree with you. that of course isn't me saying you are wrong, just sharing my opinon.

though i would rather my son use many drugs, especially weed, as opposed to alcohol. i have already told him that, indirectly, when we discuss drugs. i point out that alcohol (due to our family history of alcoholism) and tobacco are the most dangerous ones out there, IMO (besides others that he isn't aware of yet i.e. heroin, bc of its addiction potential) and when he once talked about weed after a "just say no" day at school, i rolled my eyes and told him the truth about the dangers, and told him that he should not use ANYTHING until he is at least 18 bc his brain is still forming(?!), and it is just safer to wait and enjoy anything he wants when he is old enough to maturely decide what and how to use it.

bottom line of this thread is we will never know if our approach to parenting is the right one, but i am not one for misinformation, i can not do it, i just can't and i choose this route bc i believe the truth is the best prevention for drug abuse. end of story.

and if i find drugs on my child, i will ask where he got them, why he is using them, how long he has been doing it, and go from there. this is a hard question to answer, you dont know how you will react without more information such as what kind of drugs they are, how the child is behaving and doing in school even while using, etc.
 
i have never met a heroin user who wasn't able to control their addiction
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You're making some sort of connection between having ever used heroin (a 'heroin user') and being an addict ('their addiction'). Because of the stigma attached to it, you'll never know most heroin users. They use it in secret.

Heroin addiction is a vastly overstated problem. The reason it's so frowned upon is because the people who become addicted to it and exposed as addicts in the USA tend to be the type of people from low socioeconomic classes willing to steal and prostitute themselves to survive. Those from higher socioeconomic classes for whom heroin is an affordable occasional high are never known as heroin users or heroin addicts to you or the public.


http://www.parl.gc.ca/37/1/parlbus/commbus/senate/Com-e/ille-e/presentation-e/alexender-e.htm
^ read this starting at "Claim A: Review of the Evidence"
 
see...everything you say about alcohol being harmful and all is true...and i completely agree

...and i know how safe heroin use can be...

that's why i said that your statement might be the smartest thing i have ever read on bl

but...at the same time i know how addictive heroin is in comparison to alcohol

...and...living in the world that we live in now (heroin being illegal and all), i know how hard of a life my kid would have if he got addicted to smack and had to support a habit (and...even though everyone will hate me for saying this...people who do heroin eventually do get addicted to it)

i don't think any parent wants their child going through the horrors of addiction...and a heroin user is more likely to become an addict than an alcohol user
 
staypuft, I agree completely with you then. I just don't consider the risk of possible addiction to be as grave a threat as most people. I wouldn't encourage my kids to become heroin addicts, but I think sending them to rehab if I found a bundle of dope in their bedroom is an overreaction.

To those who would not tolerate their kids using drugs in their houses - are you current drug users now? Have you been in the past? Were you when you were a teenager?
 
i would want my kid to be completely self sufficient before he/she started up doing drugs heavily (ie. at home, by him/her -self)...

if he/she was popping a couple of e's at a rave or something on the weekend then i could probably tolerate that
 
Idi0tequ3 said:
i would be a horrible parent, thats why im not gunna have kids
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That is how I feel. I would probably steal their stash if they had anything good and then not tell them and then steal it again. But then again I am generally a bad person. No kids for me.

pyrrhicvictory
 
If you had to send your kids to rehab so that an organisation can sort them out instead of you yourself fixing or helping the kid fix the problem gradually, then I find that a failure of parenting. The whole situation and reaction is pure failure.

And yeah, highschoolers get good hookups. I'd probably be asking my kid..
 
Coolio said:
You're making some sort of connection between having ever used heroin (a 'heroin user') and being an addict ('their addiction'). Because of the stigma attached to it, you'll never know most heroin users. They use it in secret.

Heroin addiction is a vastly overstated problem. The reason it's so frowned upon is because the people who become addicted to it and exposed as addicts in the USA tend to be the type of people from low socioeconomic classes willing to steal and prostitute themselves to survive. Those from higher socioeconomic classes for whom heroin is an affordable occasional high are never known as heroin users or heroin addicts to you or the public.


http://www.parl.gc.ca/37/1/parlbus/commbus/senate/Com-e/ille-e/presentation-e/alexender-e.htm
^ read this starting at "Claim A: Review of the Evidence"
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of course, i totally see your point, i was just speaking from personal experience. that is the one drug i haven't seen used without a high potential for abuse.
 
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