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[jim]: Hey Tina! its me jim what r u doin?
[me]: Hey Jim! Not much just running errands for today... lots of stuff to catch up on.. you?
[jim]: Not much just get some studying done i was wondering if you still have some more of that herb?

........... then didnt respond yet

so basically... i work and there are two coworkers of mine who are potheads...they recently found out that i got an ounce of herb for free... and one of them already asked if she could have some and took at least 1/8 oz of it.... now the other guy [jim] sounds like he's been interested in whether or not i still have my stash and i dunno how i should respond... i want to say hes a friend of mine cause hes never been mean to me or anything, we just never really hung out outside of work except for one time that we got high together with tina.... is it greedy of me to not want to give it out just like that.. unless they only smoke when its with me... isnt it kind of wrong for me to just give them nuggets just because they want it? is it rude if i ask them to buy it from me instead? what would you say in response to that text to not be used but also to keep your cool and not be an asshole.... some help here please... ive been walked over all my life
 
!_MDMA_! said:
tell them you're down to match
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he smoked me out once before though... and the girl that took 1/8 oz of weed from me and more has let me stay over her house before and smoked me out... about 4-5 times... so idk whats fair for me to say to either of them
 
Not that I would advocate selling cannabis in a public forum.... but...

That's basically money you're holding, or an OZ to your dome.

That said - if they are real friends, they will match or pay it back in some form in the future. I just spent 120$ on primo bud in the past 2 days and smoked it all up with 4 other kids, only one person gave me 10$. No biggie to me, I expected it. I do know I will be smoked up in the future, probably nowhere near what I paid, but I offered.

Just say "No" if you don't want to give it away or move it. That's it. If you need an internet forum to tell you that... eh.
 
chainer3k said:
Not that I would advocate selling cannabis in a public forum.... but...

That's basically money you're holding, or an OZ to your dome.

That said - if they are real friends, they will match or pay it back in some form in the future. I just spent 120$ on primo bud in the past 2 days and smoked it all up with 4 other kids, only one person gave me 10$. No biggie to me, I expected it. I do know I will be smoked up in the future, probably nowhere near what I paid, but I offered.

Just say "No" if you don't want to give it away or move it. That's it. If you need an internet forum to tell you that... eh.
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The no prices rule can be so frustrating when your trying to illustrate a point. I always use beer prices.
 
Time to put them in check, can't let leeches take advantage in situations like these.
 
i roll balls said:
Time to put them in check, can't let leeches take advantage in situations like these.
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Stay away from the leeches.

OP, you're also judging said coworker a lot. If I were to read that conversation without reading the title I would think that guy was looking to buy, not snatch some buds off you.
 
I smoke my friends out alot. Its not alot to smoke out 1 or 2 people. But I definitely dont give free bud out for them to take home with them lol. If they aint got the money for it then ill smoke with them and they will have to do without. Maybe if i was rich id give some out, but im not. And on the other hand if i am out and broke i dont expect anyone to just give me bud. The few people I continuously smoke out are always good to smoke a bowl or 2 with me when I ask tho. Maybe I see it a bit different than people, but giving weed out is too far and asking for it is even worse. It's not like you will die without it.
 
these guys are just co-workers, they arent your real close friends. So I'd just say that you've already given some to tina go scab off her.

as for sharing with good mates, what goes around comes around.
 
cssss said:
Just lie and say you sold/smoked/gave it away already
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That's the way an Aussie would do it :)

Tell them that some slack ass came over last night and hit you up for all of your weed and now you don't have any left.
 
^^theres no need to lie... and smoked out and taking bud is different. my friend smokes me out all the time cuz we do it together but he doesnt give me bud to smoke without him... u understanding the difference?

dont give out free bud, if your friends have smoked you out return the favor but dont just hand out bud
 
Don't let people walk over you. I used to be the same, when I let people just take the piss. I really used to be a mug because I had no backbone.

Now, hypothetically I will politely say, sure I've got some bud you can have, but I'll charge x amount for it (mate's rates of course). This never happens in reality though, as I'm never put in that situation.

You need to start setting boundaries and ground rules so they don't see you as a pushover. If you do this they'll stop trying to get free bud off of you. It's hard but it needs to be done.
 
I'm all for smoking friends up. But it becomes a different thing when you're giving them bud to smoke by themselves later.
 
OP- Typical pothead over-thinking. No need to be paranoid about saying "no, I am not going to give you my drugs for absolutely no return."

Just have them over to smoke or smoke at theirs. If they're true friends then they'll return the favour.
If they're good friends, yeah give them some, but when they have some ganj and you don't, ask them for a bud: see if they're real chums or just free-loaders.
 
you got an oz for free so I would recommend giving away a bit of it. an 1/8 is too much imo, but a couple bowls here and there for people to blaze later is no big deal.

if you feel like these people are simply taking advantage of you tell them to fuck off.
 
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