MyDoorsAreOpen
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I'm not a vindictive man. Or rather, I don't want to be a vindictive man. People have done all kinds of unfair things to me, and I barely ever think of them anymore; I'm not perfect either, and I've treated people in ways I really shouldn't have too. If anything, I try to use memories of being fucked over to become wiser and learn something. But one particular person in my past did me wrong in a particular way that really rubbed my moral fibers the wrong way, and that I just can't let go of, especially because it was just so wanton and devoid of anything valuable to be learned. I still have flashbacks of the series of incidents involving him that leave me shaking with anger for hours, sometimes even overnight, at least a couple times a month. These episodes usually involve vivid fantasies of harming this man that would probably get me locked up if I described them in detail, which scare me very much afterward. I don't still see the guy, but we run in the same circles, and I'm bound to meet him again someday.
I feel like there's a part of me that won't ever be at peace, and I'll keep having these episodes, until I come up with a way to make this guy pay. On the other hand, a part of me says this is juvenile and pointless, as nothing I could possibly do to him would make him change his ways or apologize to me.
I'm not asking you to share your story, if you don't want to. But please won't you tell me, how did you ultimately make peace with it?
I feel like there's a part of me that won't ever be at peace, and I'll keep having these episodes, until I come up with a way to make this guy pay. On the other hand, a part of me says this is juvenile and pointless, as nothing I could possibly do to him would make him change his ways or apologize to me.
I'm not asking you to share your story, if you don't want to. But please won't you tell me, how did you ultimately make peace with it?