indelibleface
Bluelight Crew
This statement is plastered somewhere on the wall in most businesses in America. To what extent can someone be refused service, and does there need to be a stated reason?
I ask because when I was shopping for Halloween at one of those temporary Halloween stores in Los Angeles, I was asked to leave by management. We talked outside for a minute, and the conversation went something like this:
Her: "I would like to ask that you do not shop here. You have to leave."
Me: "Excuse me? Wait, do you work here?"
Her: "Yes, I'm the manager."
Me: "I don't understand. What is wrong?"
Her: "I reserve the right to refuse service to anyone. I would prefer it if you didn't shop here. I have a feeling about you. There are other Halloween stores in the area that you can shop at."
Me: "Wait, again I don't understand. I was browsing for a Halloween costume, like everyone else here. What did I do wrong?"
Her: "You didn't do anything wrong. It's just a feeling I have."
Me: "Do you do this to a lot of shoppers at your store?"
Her: "Some."
Me: "I think it would be polite of you to tell me what you think I am doing wrong."
Her: "You aren't doing anything wrong. Again, it's just a feeling. You can't shop here though."
I'm going back on Monday when the mall management office is open to file a complaint, but in general, I'm wondering to what extent they can refuse service. I'm assuming that I might have looked suspicious to someone extremely paranoid--I wasn't purchasing anything, looking around the store, and periodically texting a friend of mine. But the fact is that I wasn't doing anything wrong, and doing exactly what many other shoppers were doing. Can they simply kick anyone out for whatever reason?
Say I was in there with a boyfriend (I'm a male), and we were holding hands. Could they kick us out and not tell us why, even though the concealed reason was that we were gay? Obviously that's not the case here, but the question is this: is a business required to explain why they are kicking someone out of their store? If not, doesn't this give businesses a free-for-all on kicking anyone out of their store that they simply don't like? Say there was some kind of discriminatory reason for this (and I'm not saying there was), do they have to explain that to you?
This is just so infuriating.
I ask because when I was shopping for Halloween at one of those temporary Halloween stores in Los Angeles, I was asked to leave by management. We talked outside for a minute, and the conversation went something like this:
Her: "I would like to ask that you do not shop here. You have to leave."
Me: "Excuse me? Wait, do you work here?"
Her: "Yes, I'm the manager."
Me: "I don't understand. What is wrong?"
Her: "I reserve the right to refuse service to anyone. I would prefer it if you didn't shop here. I have a feeling about you. There are other Halloween stores in the area that you can shop at."
Me: "Wait, again I don't understand. I was browsing for a Halloween costume, like everyone else here. What did I do wrong?"
Her: "You didn't do anything wrong. It's just a feeling I have."
Me: "Do you do this to a lot of shoppers at your store?"
Her: "Some."
Me: "I think it would be polite of you to tell me what you think I am doing wrong."
Her: "You aren't doing anything wrong. Again, it's just a feeling. You can't shop here though."
I'm going back on Monday when the mall management office is open to file a complaint, but in general, I'm wondering to what extent they can refuse service. I'm assuming that I might have looked suspicious to someone extremely paranoid--I wasn't purchasing anything, looking around the store, and periodically texting a friend of mine. But the fact is that I wasn't doing anything wrong, and doing exactly what many other shoppers were doing. Can they simply kick anyone out for whatever reason?
Say I was in there with a boyfriend (I'm a male), and we were holding hands. Could they kick us out and not tell us why, even though the concealed reason was that we were gay? Obviously that's not the case here, but the question is this: is a business required to explain why they are kicking someone out of their store? If not, doesn't this give businesses a free-for-all on kicking anyone out of their store that they simply don't like? Say there was some kind of discriminatory reason for this (and I'm not saying there was), do they have to explain that to you?
This is just so infuriating.
