was i drugged

[kileystorin]

Hi, I'm new here but have a question I need to get off my chest...
A couple of weeks ago, I went over to this guys house who I've had feelings for awhile. We smoked weed in his backyard and it was dark and I couldn't see anything. After only 2 hits I felt immediately high. I've smoked weed many times before and never felt like this. My heart was racing like crazy, I couldn't walk for the life of me, I couldn't form sentences, and I kept forgetting things from 5 seconds ago. Suddenly, we're up in his room and he offers me alcohol. I decline. I keep expressing to him that I feel wayyyy too high and weird and he ignores it. The whole night he keeps making advances on me even after I've said no multiple times. I even almost start crying and he doesn't do anything. I don't remember exactly how I felt, except that I felt paralyzed while lying down and like I couldn't move. Also, everything felt slow motion but also all happening at once. I was 100% receiving. I finally, after 2 hours, got myself outta there, but was high for 3 more hours after I got home. The next 2 days I was hungover and I couldn't eat for a week. Any ideas? Please help

 

[Bearlove]

You may have smoked something other than weed - best thing to do would be to ask him exactly what you smoked. I would explain your concerns with him, also if he was pestering you all night for sex even after you had made your intentions clear then I would be avoiding putting yourself in a similar situation again.

 

[herbavore]

I would even go one step further than asking him if what you smoked was indeed just very strong weed; I would also let him know how uncomfortable you were that he was not listening to your obvious uneasiness in anything sexual. I'll give him the benefit of the doubt that he was also high and therefore maybe not in the most clear frame of mind himself but I think it's good that girls express this and guys hear it. You don't have to be accusatory, just honest about what the night felt like from your perspective. How he reacts will probably make or break your feelings for him so be emotionally prepared.

Good for you for declining the alcohol. Stay safe.

 

[nygiants1313]

You went over there and did drugs and got super high. Whens the last tine you snmoked? Maybe you just got extra high. Highly doubt it was a date rape situation

 

[SKL]

Doesn't really matter what you took or didn't take, if you made it clear to him that you were beyond your limits as far as drugs go, and it sounds like you did, and he pressed you for sex, he's a scumbag tbh.

 

[dmtmixalis]

Could be anxiety. Sounds very similar to what anxiety prone individuals experience under the influence of strong weed. Could also be that it was laced in something.

 

[Phil.McKeer]

In my 17 years of smoking cannabis almost every day, I have never once encountered legit "laced weed". I'm sure it's happened and can happen, but it is very unlikely. More likely, your tolerance to cannabis is low and you just got extremely intoxicated by it.

I remember early in my smoking career I would become nearly incapacitated smoking cannabis - I'd end up "humping the floor" (almost passed out, lying face down on the ground) and forgetting what I or someone else had just said 5 seconds ago, or forgetting an event that just occurred minutes prior. I would even hallucinate (not tactile hallucinations, but pattern overlays, etc) during those early days.

Those days are long gone now. I haven't even gotten the "munchies" in over a decade. But I'm willing to bet you were extremely stoned over the weed being laced.

Edit: Laced or not, this guy is most certainly a dirtbag, and I'd stay away from him if I were you. I understand douchebags have a certain allure to members of the female sex though, so it might be easier said than done. But you should try, for your own good down the line.