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Unwanted Sexual Fantasy with beautiful women

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ros123

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I have been struggling with this unwanted sexual fantasy for a year now and now i have no clue how to deal with it, i thought in time it would pass, but it seems everytime i see a beautiful woman on the net or at work, it comes back and i find it disgusting. I have been trying to deal with it alone as i feel ashamed it, i have tried taking ice cold baths everyday, but then i started suffering from anemia so then i stopped it for a while, i have so tried working out everyday to increase blood circulation but its come back . Any advice would be much appreciated i know i havent tried everything so some pointers would be god.
 
I don't understand, is it just that you are having sexual fantasies about women, or a very specific fantasy (which I take it you'd rather keep to yourself)?

Fantasy isn't something which can really be controlled. Your body reacts causing hormonal release which we are programmed to enjoy. It's a very complex process.

So with that said, I'd suggest dealing with the shame and anxiety and try not to fight who you are. It reminds me of the god fearing repulsion to sex and masturbation. That said, masturbation can cause anxiety when done excessively. It's probably going to keep your brain fixated on the fantasy too.

Erm by the way, sorry but taking a bath because of the shame, and getting anaemia? What does that even mean? Surely that's not possible?
 
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it is possible when its extreme cold and thats what i was taking, i dont masturbate thats the weird thing, since i had sex for the first time with an escort at age of 22 i have had many fantasies but this one i cant shake off, as it is rather disgusting.
 
even drinking it?? the latest fantasy i am having is having a hot woman standing over me and pee into my mouth, i cant shake that
 
I was just about to say that I was dying to know what it was, along with probably everybody else, and could you let us know early in the game if you were intending to tell us or not. =D

Your fantasy is very common. I'd imagine that a huge number of people on this website have a massive interest in golden showers, or at the very least have got off to it before. Especially in the age of readily available porn for pretty much anything going. I've got off on golden shower stuff before. I even asked my ex-girlfriend to do it, and it's not even a personal fantasy of mine. It was such a non-event that I cant even remember if I tried it. I'd happily tell my friends that, and I'd expect a pretty casual response. If I got anything other I'd just tell them to fuck off and get over it!

Seriously, it's fuck all. They're called fantasies for a reason; most people aren't going to fantasise about straight up missionary sex because it doesn't break any boundaries, and where's the filth in that? I'm sure the local vicar would be disgusted, but I'm not the local vicar... I'm a hedonist, innit.

What exactly is it that you find so shameful about this? Can you specifically clarify this?
 
The most shameful thing is drinking a womens urine which i did briefly the first time i tried golden showers with an escort, and i cant shake it, my urges are telling me to do it again maybe its the dick talking, but i cant shake it.
 
ros123 said:
The most shameful thing is drinking a womens urine which i did briefly the first time i tried golden showers with an escort, and i cant shake it, my urges are telling me to do it again maybe its the dick talking, but i cant shake it.
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Right, so what is the worst thing about drinking somebodies piss? Realistically.

I don't know what Rosina x rated means, so I doubt it.

(I'm assuming it's a porn show/prostitute though, so no I haven't).
 
ok can you tell me whats the worst thing about drinking a womans piss in your opinion? for some reason i think its not normal, yes she is a hooker but a top class one
 
ros123 said:
ok can you tell me whats the worst thing about drinking a womans piss in your opinion? for some reason i think its not normal, yes she is a hooker but a top class one
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Right so who gets to decide what is and isn't normal?

And can you think of a reason other than feeling a need to conform to somebody elses rigid dogma I.e worrying about what's considered normal?
 
Fuck me there is still real men out there!!! Keep up with your fantasy and hopefully you'll find a lady who gets off on the same thing!!<3
 
ok for example the woman you would be drinking from she wouldnt let you kiss her for staters, but urine is considered as waste so but drink it and recycle it so to speak!
 
ros123 said:
but urine is considered as waste
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So just dogma then? Who gives a shit what other people do or don't consider as waste?

Nobody gets hurt, so I say get involved and stop worrying what other people think of your sexual habits.

Fuck conformity, it's a fear based system. Fear is shite.

If it feels good do it.

You go and drink some piss my son.
 
to all women

As a woman, what would you do if your husband or bf drank your urine would you lose respect for him and more importantly do you find this kind of thing a turn on.
 
ros123 said:
i take your being sarcastic right? @massiveinminiature
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No you loon!!

I mean what I said, Tranced has met me in person and I'm sure he'll verify that I means what I says man.

Anyways as for doing the sucky face thing post event I wouldn't be concerned about a girly being put off especially if she's enjoyed the prior event.<3
 
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