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transsexuals

I see them around the bar scene. I am not sure what to think. They believe they are women who ended up in a man's body but when they are out at the bars, they really are workin it and trying to get laid. They are on the make trying to score the way the guys do so it makes me wonder just how much male they are and how much female.

Then again, maybe it is just the ones I have seen out at the bars. Maybe there are quiet transsexuals who are shy and do not spend all their time trying to get laid.
 
yer i used to see these two tranies at a regular club i was at before it shut down, now i c them at big events ahahah one of them looks half decent but the other iss discustingg like fiiiiiiiiiilth....
i dunno they dont bother me dont know how they repcive to me a woman in a mans body i mean nature isnt that cruel....

somebody care to explain?
 
I dont know what to think. I guess if my best mate was to come out and say he wanted to be a woman. I dont think I could accept it. I wouldnt be angry or anything infact I would probably be sad and depressed , like I was losing a friend.

Now I used to work security in a night club in st kilda and would regularly see tranies all the time in the venue. Some were very hard to tell and some were horribly obvious.
 
I have known a few. I have great respect for people who have the tenacity to look past all the potential ridicule and hardship to become something they truly want to be. Good for them.

I've seen a few recent documentaries on the subject too; apparently the technology today is such that, given enough money, transsexuals can almost completely physically resemble the target sex they wish to be. Really amazing stuff.
 
I think Trannys have it worst outta everyone.

Lesbos - I can understand it doesnt make me feel uncomfortable
Gays - Same as above
Trannys - Thats a whole new story, I find it kinda strange but I guess thats cause I dont know any?? Its a little confusing too, u dont know weather to call them He or She and its just abit of a headfuck really.

Sad, in this day and age its still an issue, I guess time will tell?
 
I have seen and even met a few. Some of the nicest people. Two I remember inparticular, hotter and more femanine then a lot of women I see today. 8o
 
^i think MTF but overall both


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The reason I was asking is because I was wondering if there were any other bluelighters going through what I'm going through. Trying to come out as transsexual is one of the hardest things people have to do in our society every day. Being abandoned by your friends and family is very painful. Even here on bluelight I could not bare to come out, i dunno if anyone remembers a user called Stuffedtiger but that was me.
 
How old are you? An just so you know this is bluelight, anything goes and everyone is accepted here. One of the greatest aspects of this place.
 
paradoxcycle said:
Are we talking about MTF or FTM?

the thread is about transsexuals. i don't see the need to separate the issue even further at this point considering the responses.

i think transexuals have it pretty tough right now, but hopefully it's only a matter of time before people start to get a better understanding of what's going on. if the transgender "movement" had been as visible as that of gays/lesbians, the acceptance from the general public might be on more equal footing right now. as it stands, it seems like people just don't know what to think. the only 'trannies' most of us are familiar with are the street hooker variety or in scattered movies here and there. i'm not even sure what to make of transsexuals, but it's probably only because i haven't been exposed to many yet.
 
^That pretty much sums up my feelings on the matter too... I know that MTF transgendered persons are more common than FTM, don't have any statistics handy, and they're also more visible (drag shows and the like).

goodgirl - Nature *is* that cruel. Sometimes someone is just simply born into the wrong body. I know a couple transgendered people, and they have suffered serious psychological problems as a result of having the mind of one sex and the body of another. And I know a guy who got a blowjob from a chick at a club who later turned out to have a penis. 8o

Transgendered persons haven't really been part of the "pride" movement.
 
s l h(one)y w said:
The reason I was asking is because I was wondering if there were any other bluelighters going through what I'm going through. Trying to come out as transsexual is one of the hardest things people have to do in our society every day. Being abandoned by your friends and family is very painful. Even here on bluelight I could not bare to come out, i dunno if anyone remembers a user called Stuffedtiger but that was me.

Maybe you could tell us what you are going through and help foster some understanding?

My only experience with transgender people (that I know of) was drunkenly trying to strike up a conversation with one at a bar. He/she ignored me. I think because I'm a girl.

Or maybe because I was drunk :D

Have you had any operations? Will you?
 
Originally posted by mariposa420
Transgendered persons haven't really been part of the "pride" movement.


Well that's logical though. Most don't consider themselves homosexual.
 
^ interesting point. i definitely understand what you're saying. if you're a woman who feels they should have been born a man, and you like women, then in your mind you would be straight, right? that makes sense.

but why all the "LGBT" events then? why not just... "LGB"? do you think that transgendered persons have been lumped into this movement against their better judgment, or is it simply the only place they have been able to find acceptance so far? i suppose all "alternative sexualities" might band together for solidarity purposes, but if we're talking about transgendered persons who technically consider themselves heterosexual, then i'm not sure this is an appropriate alliance.
 
Originally posted by @lterEgo
or is it simply the only place they have been able to find acceptance so far? i suppose all "alternative sexualities" might band together for solidarity purposes, but if we're talking about transgendered persons who technically consider themselves heterosexual, then i'm not sure this is an appropriate alliance.


Agree. It's really difficult for transgendered people living in this country- a place that doesn't even accept something as basic as homosexuality. It's literally dangerous.
 
It's sad that society the US, a country founded by people who were different from the majority society, still rejects their own natural flaws through simple ignorance. I have nothing but respect for people who are put through such ignorance and those who discriminate should be given a snorkel and put out to sea.
 
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